| 时间 | 英文 | 中文 |
|---|---|---|
| [00:06] | ♪ Move in the wind ♪ | ♪随风飘扬 |
| [00:10] | ♪ Let’s enjoy how it all begins ♪ | ♪让我们一起享受吧♪ |
| [00:14] | ♪ Yeah, yeah ♪ | ♪是的，是的♪ |
| [00:16] | ♪ Oh, my gosh, Bobby ♪ | ♪天哪，鲍比♪ |
| [00:18] | ♪ Who are we doing this week? ♪ | ♪这周我们要做什么？ ♪ |
| [00:19] | ♪ We are doing Wesley ♪ | ♪我们在做Wesley♪ |
| [00:21] | -Cute! | -可爱！ |
| [00:23] | So, Wesley is 30 years old, and he is from Kansas City, Missouri. | 因此，卫斯理（Wesley）今年30岁，他来自密苏里州堪萨斯城。 |
| [00:26] | -He is a community activist. -Love an activist. | -他是社区活动家。 -爱一个活动家。 |
| [00:29] | -Love an activist that’s giving back. -Birds of a feather. | -爱一个回馈的激进主义者。 -物以类聚。 |
| [00:31] | Wesley is a single father to a ten-year-old girl named Nevaeh. | Wesley是一个叫Nevaeh的十岁女孩的单身父亲。 |
| [00:34] | Which is “heaven” spelled backwards. | “天”是向后拼写的。 |
| [00:36] | -I love that. – Cute. | -我喜欢那个。 -好可爱 |
| [00:37] | Um, he was nominated by his mama, Dawn Henderson. | 嗯，他是由妈妈Dawn Henderson提名的。 |
| [00:40] | I am nominating Wesley because he’s an awesome young man. | 我提名韦斯利是因为他是一个了不起的年轻人。 |
| [00:45] | Woo! | 呜！ |
| [00:47] | He made it when I didn’t think he could. | 当我认为他做不到时，他做到了。 |
| [00:50] | Come on, Mike. A little faster, baby. | 迈克，迈克。 快一点，宝贝。 |
| [00:52] | Wesley started a foundation to give awareness of people with disabilities. | 卫斯理创立了一个基金会，以提高人们对残疾人的认识。 |
| [00:55] | Disabled But Not Really. | 禁用但不是真的。 |
| [00:57] | We do programs based on fitness and nutrition | 我们以健身和营养为基础开展计划 |
| [01:00] | that helps instill a physical limitless mindset. | 有助于灌输身体上无限的思维定势。 |
| [01:04] | He doesn’t let that chair define who he is. | 他不让那位主席定义自己。 |
| [01:11] | I became a bad boy at a young age. | 我从小就成为一个坏男孩。 |
| [01:14] | I remember wanting to fit in, | 我记得想适应，
想要看起来像其他人一样的 |
| [01:16] | wanting to look like everybody else. | 。 |
| [01:18] | And being inspired and motivated by | 并受到启发和激励 |
| [01:21] | the only role models I could, which were drug dealers in my community. | 我唯一能做的榜样是社区的毒贩。 |
| [01:26] | I was gonna live my life as reckless as I could, | 我要尽我所能地过着鲁re的生活， |
| [01:29] | because I knew that | 因为我知道 |
| [01:30] | eventually I was gonna die or I was gonna go to jail. | 最终 我要死了或要入狱。 |
| [01:35] | Five days after my 24th birthday, | 我24岁生日五天后， |
| [01:37] | I was shot multiple times in my abdomen. | 我的腹部多次被枪杀。 |
| [01:39] | They turned to me… | 他们转向我… |
| [01:42] | and said, | 说， |
| [01:43] | “He’s paralyzed from the waist down”. | “他从腰部瘫痪了。” |
| [01:45] | That was the worst day of my life. | 那是我一生中最糟糕的一天。 |
| [01:48] | Two years of bedridden. Just up a couple of hours a day. | 卧床两年。 一天只需要几个小时。 |
| [01:55] | I cried so much. | 我哭了很多。 |
| [01:57] | I remember many nights of just beating my legs up | 我记得许多晚上只是拍打我的腿 |
| [02:00] | because I just thought they were worthless. | 因为我只是认为他们一文不值。 |
| [02:03] | I hated myself. | 我讨厌自己。 |
| [02:04] | I couldn’t be seen | 我没被看见 |
| [02:06] | as this guy with a disability. | 作为这个残障人士。 |
| [02:09] | Wesley lashed out. | 韦斯利猛烈抨击。 |
| [02:12] | I just knew I couldn’t leave his side. | 我只是知道我不能离开他的身边。 |
| [02:14] | Hey, Daddy. | 嘿，爸爸。 |
| [02:15] | Hey. How was school? | 嗨。 学校怎么样 |
| [02:17] | Good. | 好。 |
| [02:18] | It’s been a rough ride | 经历了一段艰难的旅程 |
| [02:20] | for seven years. | 七年了。 |
| [02:22] | I just want his life to be easy, | 我只是希望他的生活轻松一点， |
| [02:24] | just to be independent, | 只是为了独立， |
| [02:25] | and not have to rely on anybody. | 而不必依赖任何人。 |
| [02:28] | Actually, do the green beans. | 其实，做绿豆。 |
| [02:30] | I found strength in my weakness. | 我在弱点中找到了强项。 |
| [02:32] | My daughter, she used to say | 我的女儿，她曾经说 |
| [02:34] | it was my Superman chair. | 那是我的超人椅子。 |
| [02:36] | So, I gotta be Superman. | 所以，我要成为超人。 |
| [02:41] | I work out seven days a week. I love working out. | 我每周要锻炼7天。 我喜欢锻炼。 |
| [02:43] | Like, I love working out. | 喜欢，我喜欢锻炼。 |
| [02:44] | Lost a hundred pounds while I was on bed rest. | 我在卧床休息时减了一百磅。 |
| [02:46] | And I could never lose weight when I was walking. | 而且我走路的时候永远也不会减肥。 |
| [02:49] | He’s improved so much and he came so far. | 他进步了很多，走得很远。 |
| [02:53] | But I believe there is | 但我相信有 |
| [02:55] | some things that Wesley’s still holding in. | Wesley仍保留着一些东西。 |
| [02:57] | People look at me and say, “Still the same Wes.” | 人们看着我，说：“还是一样。” |
| [03:00] | I’m ready to let go of my old life… | 我准备放弃我的前世… |
| [03:06] | and grow into my new. | 成长为我的新朋友。 |
| [03:09] | Wesley is attending a social mixer at the end of the week. | 韦斯利本周末将参加社交聚会。 |
| [03:11] | It’s a fundraiser for his non-profit that’s called Disabled But Not Really. | 这是为他的非营利组织筹款的活动，被称为“残疾但不是真的”。 |
| [03:15] | Yes, yes! Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes! ♪ Yes! ♪ | 是的，是的！ 是的，是的，是的，是的，是的！ ♪是的！ ♪ |
| [03:18] | -All right, guys, our mission this week– -Is to get Wesley to take his shirt off | -好的，伙计们，我们这周的任务–是让韦斯利脱下衬衫 |
| [03:21] | and take very many gorgeous Instagram pictures. | 并拍了很多精美的Instagram图片。 |
| [03:23] | Or… | 或者… |
| [03:24] | It’s to make him feel free in both his heart and home. | 这使他在心中和家中都感到自由。 |
| [03:27] | -Yeah. -Aw! There we go. | -是的。 啊！ 好了 |
| [03:33] | ♪ Oh, things just keep getting better ♪ | ♪哦，事情一直在变好♪ |
| [03:41] | ♪ Can we finish what we started? ♪ | ♪我们能完成我们开始的一切吗？ ♪ |
| [03:46] | Oh, great job pulling in, Tan. | 哦，Tan，干得好。 |
| [03:47] | -Thank you. -Wow. | -谢谢。 -哇。 |
| [03:48] | – Ready, kids? – Yeah, just fixing myself. | -准备好了吗，孩子们？ -是的， 只是固定自己。 |
| [03:51] | – Come on, Karamo. | -来吧，卡拉莫。 |
| [03:53] | Whoa. That can’t be safe. | 哇。 那是不安全的。 |
| [03:58] | – Hello there, beautiful. – Hi. | -你好，很漂亮。 嗨 |
| [04:00] | – How are you? -Can I come in? | -你好吗？ -我能进来吗？ |
| [04:01] | Hi, I’m Bobby. Can I have a hug? | 嗨，我是Bobby。 能抱抱我吗？ |
| [04:03] | -How y’all doing? What’s going on? -Bobby. Nice to meet you. | -大家好吗？ 这是怎么回事？ 鲍比 很高兴见到你。 |
| [04:06] | If five grown-ups ever come to the door like that… | 如果有五个大人那样来到门口… |
| [04:08] | -Don’t let us in. -Don’t let ’em in. | -不要让我们进来。-不要让他们进来。 |
| [04:10] | How you doing? | 你好吗？ |
| [04:11] | -How you doing? -Like, the most gorgeous hair | -你好吗？ -最美丽的头发 |
| [04:13] | -just runs in this family. -I know. | -仅在这个家庭中运行。 -我知道。 |
| [04:15] | Wesley has the biggest, | 韦斯利（Wesley）最大， |
| [04:17] | brightest smile ever. | 有史以来最灿烂的笑容。 |
| [04:19] | You look at Wesley, you start smiling, ’cause you’re like, “I wanna smile, too.” | 你看着韦斯利，开始微笑，因为你想，“我也想微笑。” |
| [04:22] | So, this is my front room. | 所以，这是我的前房间。 |
| [04:25] | – Clean. Tidy. – It’s really clean. | -干净。 整洁。 -真的很干净。 |
| [04:26] | ‘Cause if it was stuff in the way I’d be rolling over stuff all day. | ‘如果是东西，那我就整天翻滚。 |
| [04:29] | What’s the NPC Wheelchair Championship? | 什么是NPC轮椅冠军赛？ |
| [04:32] | Uh, bodybuilding. | 健美。 |
| [04:33] | I did win first place, you know. | 我确实赢得了第一名。 |
| [04:35] | Yeah, I’m with it. | 是的，我同意。 |
| [04:37] | Do you now that he does pull-ups with his chair? | 你现在他在做椅子上的引体向上吗？ |
| [04:39] | I can’t even do a pull-up without extra 30 pounds. | 如果没有30磅，我什至无法做引体向上。 |
| [04:42] | I can barely do a set with my own body weight. | 我用自己的体重几乎无法做一套。 |
| [04:45] | Nobody’s believing that. | 没有人相信。 |
| [04:48] | It seems like it’s hard for you to maneuver around this room… | 看来您很难在这个房间里回旋… |
| [04:51] | – It is. -…to get stuff. | – 它是。 -…拿东西。 |
| [04:52] | Like, there’s hats over here. How are you getting around? | 喜欢，这里有帽子。 你怎么走？ |
| [04:55] | So, this is, like, very handy. | 因此，这非常方便。 |
| [04:57] | – Oh, yeah. -I normally just grab, | -哦，是的。 我通常会抓 |
| [05:00] | -and then, normally, hangers fall, too. -Yep. | -然后，通常情况下，衣架也会掉下来。 是的 |
| [05:02] | Then when I’m ready to put it back, it don’t go back. | 然后，当我准备放回去时，它就不会退回。 |
| [05:05] | So, actually, I’ll just set it down on the floor. | 因此，实际上，我将其放在地板上。 |
| [05:08] | Wesley doesn’t need anybody to do anything for him. | 韦斯利不需要任何人为他做任何事情。 |
| [05:11] | -Have you ever burnt yourself on here? -I have burnt myself. | -您曾经在这里烧过自己吗？ 我烧死了自己。 |
| [05:14] | -Yeah. -And this is how I cut it on. | 是的 -这就是我切的方法。 |
| [05:16] | But everything in this house | 但是房子里的一切 |
| [05:18] | makes him struggle more than he needs to. | 使他挣扎超过需要。 |
| [05:20] | – Wanna see how I go in and out? -Yeah. | -想看看我怎么进出吗？ 是的 |
| [05:22] | I go in… | 我进去了… |
| [05:24] | I never go toward the mirror | 我从没对着镜子 |
| [05:26] | -because I can’t get up there. -Okay. | -因为我不能站在那里。 -好的。 |
| [05:28] | Um, and this is how I get out. | 嗯，这就是我下车的方式。 |
| [05:30] | So… | 所以… |
| [05:31] | -Like, literally, I cannot turn around. -You can’t turn in there at all. | -从字面上看，我无法转身。 -你根本不能上交。 |
| [05:34] | -There’s no turn. -Okay. | -没有回合。 -好的。 |
| [05:35] | We had our little election at my school, my old school. | 我们在我的学校，我的旧学校举行小选举。 |
| [05:38] | Who won at your school? | 谁在您的学校赢了？ |
| [05:41] | -Clinton. -She did? | -克林顿。 -她做过？ |
| [05:42] | -Yes! Two high-five. -But… | -是的！ 二高五。 -但… |
| [05:45] | But then, Trump had to go ahead. | 但是，特朗普不得不继续前进。 |
| [05:47] | Like, at my school, there’s rumors going around. | 就像在我的学校里，有谣言四处传播。 |
| [05:50] | Like, he voted himself. | 就像他自己投票一样。 |
| [05:52] | Secretly voted himself. | 暗自投票。 |
| [05:54] | You heard it here first. | 您首先在这里听到了。 |
| [05:57] | I love to cook. | 我喜欢做饭。 |
| [05:59] | Like, what’s the thing that you’re not able to do right now | 喜欢，您现在无法执行的操作
您想在厨房里的 |
| [06:01] | in the kitchen that you would love to? Like, what’s the dream? | ？ 像是在做梦？ |
| [06:04] | Maybe cooking more of a variety of foods. | 也许烹调更多的各种食物。 |
| [06:07] | We want health to be the focus. | 我们希望健康成为焦点。 |
| [06:09] | Yeah, ’cause if I didn’t eat right, | 是的，因为如果我吃的不好， |
| [06:10] | I still would be the overweight, depressed Wesley. | 我仍然会是超重，沮丧的韦斯利。 |
| [06:13] | -You know, food is medicine. -But– It’s medicine! | -食物就是药。 -但是-这是药！ |
| [06:15] | Doesn’t it make you a happier person when you eat a good meal | 吃一顿美餐不是会让你更快乐的人 |
| [06:18] | -versus, like, a food coma? -It do. | -对，就像是食物昏迷吗？ 是的 |
| [06:20] | I’ve gotta disagree. | 我不同意。 |
| [06:21] | -I love a carb. -This is not an example. | -我爱碳水化合物。 -这不是一个例子。 |
| [06:24] | America, embrace the carbs. | 美国，拥抱碳水化合物。 |
| [06:25] | I love a carb. | 我爱碳水化合物。 |
| [06:27] | -You have the little angel and the devil | -你有小天使和魔鬼 |
| [06:29] | -on each of your shoulders right now. -I’m clearly the angel. | -现在在您的每个肩膀上。 我显然是天使 |
| [06:31] | Because I get to eat what I want. | 因为我可以吃我想要的东西。 |
| [06:32] | What are your food weaknesses? | 您的食物弱点是什么？ |
| [06:34] | Mine’s cake. What’s yours? | 我的蛋糕。 你的是啥呢？ |
| [06:36] | -Mine is, like, butter and cheese. -Okay, butter. | -我的是黄油和奶酪。 -好的，黄油。 |
| [06:37] | Hot Cheetos. | 热的奇多士。 |
| [06:38] | -Oh, my God, I love a Hot Cheeto. | -哦，天哪，我爱辣芝士。 |
| [06:41] | Can I keep on creeping in your kitchen? | 我可以继续在你的厨房里爬行吗？ |
| [06:43] | -Go ahead. -Perfect. | -继续。 -完善。 |
| [06:45] | Before we get into your closet, a little birdie tells me that you were… | 在我们进入您的壁橱之前，有一只小鸟告诉我您当时… |
| [06:48] | a bad boy. | 一个坏男孩。 |
| [06:49] | When I was growing up, I was bad. | 当我长大的时候，我很糟糕。 |
| [06:51] | Rippin’ and runnin’ the streets, | Rippin’and runnin’street， |
| [06:53] | and the only thing I could do was sell drugs. | ，我唯一能做的就是卖毒品。 |
| [06:55] | That was my environment. That’s what I seen. | 那是我的环境。 那就是我所看到的。 |
| [06:57] | Did you dress like you were a bad boy? | 你穿得像个坏男孩吗？ |
| [07:00] | I didn’t dress up before my accident. | 事故发生前我没有打扮。 |
| [07:02] | You’re more mature. | 你更成熟了。 |
| [07:03] | You now are the head of this organization that you’ve created. | 您现在是您创建的该组织的负责人。 |
| [07:07] | So, now I’m assuming it is important for you to dress a different way | 所以，现在我假设对您来说，穿不同的衣服很重要 |
| [07:10] | because you need to represent. No? | ，因为您需要代表。 没有？ |
| [07:11] | I want something to match my maturity. | 我想要一些适合我的成熟度的东西。 |
| [07:13] | I’m trying to figure out what’s Wesley. | 我想弄清楚什么是韦斯利。 |
| [07:15] | Is there anything that you think, “I can’t wear that,” | 您有什么想法，“我不能穿” |
| [07:17] | or, “I don’t wear that because it’s restrictive”? | 还是“我不穿它，因为它有限制性”？ |
| [07:19] | -I’m not a fan of jackets. -Okay. | -我不喜欢夹克。 -好的。 |
| [07:21] | -The reason why is because the wheels. -Gets caught in the wheels. | -之所以是因为轮子。 -陷入困境。 |
| [07:24] | -If it’s raining… -Yeah. | -如果要下雨…-是的。 |
| [07:25] | …then, next thing you know, my jacket is completely– | …然后，你知道的下一件事，我的外套完全是- |
| [07:28] | it’s filthy on the sides ’cause the wheels get wet. | 侧面太脏了，因为车轮弄湿了。 |
| [07:30] | Would you like to wear a jacket? | 你想穿外套吗？ |
| [07:32] | I would love to wear a jacket. | 我很想穿外套。 |
| [07:33] | You might be the person that helps me figure out what my look is. | 您可能是帮助我弄清楚我的容貌的人。 |
| [07:36] | -No, not might. I’m sorry, you misspoke. -Oh! | -不，可能不会。 对不起，你误会了。 -哦！ |
| [07:38] | I am the person. | 我就是那个人。 |
| [07:40] | So, how long have you been rocking your gorgeous braids and beard? | 那么，您摇摆华丽的辫子和胡须多久了？ |
| [07:43] | The last time I had my hair cut was the day I got shot. | 我上一次剪发是我被枪杀的那一天。 |
| [07:47] | And I feel like I’m holding onto that day. | 而且我觉得自己坚持了这一天。 |
| [07:49] | -Yeah. -Because I prefer someone saying, | -是的。 -因为我喜欢有人说， |
| [07:51] | “How long have you been growing your hair?” | “你长发多久了？” |
| [07:52] | And I’m like, “Man, maybe a couple years.” But instead when you ask me, | 而且我想，“伙计，也许是几年。” 但是当你问我的时候 |
| [07:55] | I’m automatically gonna say, “The day I was shot.” | 我会自动说：“我被枪杀的那天。” |
| [07:57] | So, it’s always bringing that memory back. | 因此，它总是带回该内存。 |
| [07:59] | -Been six years. -Babe, I’m… | -六年了。 -宝贝，我… |
| [08:02] | Man, but it was the best thing that ever happened to me. | 老兄，但这是我经历过的最好的事情。 |
| [08:04] | Sorry I felt your bicep when you were telling your story. | 对不起，当您讲故事时，我感觉到您的二头肌。 |
| [08:10] | -Hi. | -Hi. Are you Dawn? |
| [08:12] | -I’m Dawn. -Antoni. It’s so nice to meet you. | 我是黎明 -安东尼 见到你真高兴。 |
| [08:14] | Hi, Antoni. How you doing? | 嗨，安东尼。 你好吗？ |
| [08:15] | -Lovely to meet you. Aren’t you fabulous? -Love that jacket. | -很高兴认识你。 你不是很棒吗？ -爱那件夹克。 |
| [08:18] | Oh, thank you so much. | 哦，非常感谢。 |
| [08:19] | Come sit with us. | 和我们一起坐。 |
| [08:20] | Thank you for nominating him. | 感谢您提名他。 |
| [08:22] | He’s a gem. | 他是宝石。 |
| [08:23] | I’m very proud of Wesley, | 我为卫斯理感到骄傲 |
| [08:25] | ’cause he could’ve made this and went left. | ‘因为他本可以做到并离开。 |
| [08:27] | It was very hard to accept that two years out of that, | 很难接受那两年的时间， |
| [08:30] | he was bedridden, right in there. | 他卧床不起，就在那儿。 |
| [08:32] | He’s 240 pounds and I had to lift him up | 他重240磅，我不得不抬起他 |
| [08:35] | and get him in the tub so he can take a bath, | 并把他放在浴缸里让他可以洗澡， |
| [08:37] | and then try to figure out how I’m gonna get him out of this tub. | ，然后尝试弄清楚我如何才能使他摆脱困境。 |
| [08:40] | It’s still hard today. | 今天仍然很难。 |
| [08:41] | Coming over to do laundry because it’s in the basement. | 来洗衣服，因为它在地下室。 |
| [08:44] | I don’t really wanna come over and do that, but I have to. | 我真的不想过来做，但是我必须这样做。 |
| [08:46] | I just want things to be better for him, | 我只是想让事情对他更好， |
| [08:49] | you know, so I don’t have to worry. | 你知道的，所以我不必担心。 |
| [08:51] | I’ve matured up so much. | 我已经很成熟了。 |
| [08:53] | I actually figured out who I was through this process. | 我实际上弄清楚了自己是谁。 |
| [08:56] | And even though, like, I love my hair, | 即使我喜欢我的头发， |
| [08:57] | when people see me, they see the old me. | 人们看到我时，他们看到了老我。 |
| [09:00] | They don’t see the new me. The only thing new is the beard. | 他们看不到新的我。 唯一的新事物是胡须。 |
| [09:03] | Please don’t make me get rid of him. | 请不要让我摆脱他。 |
| [09:04] | -No, I love my beard. I love it. -Because I love him. | -不，我爱我的胡子。 我喜欢它。 -因为我爱他。 |
| [09:06] | What I hear you saying is, like, | 我听到你说的是 |
| [09:08] | your hair look hasn’t evolved with, like, your inside as much. | 你的头发看起来并没有像你的内心那样进化。 |
| [09:11] | So you just want a little baby change, and I’m so here for that. | 所以，您只想换个小婴儿，我在这里就这样。 |
| [09:14] | -So, let’s change it. Yeah. -I’m excited. | -因此，让我们对其进行更改。 是的 -我很兴奋。 |
| [09:16] | All right. | 好吧。 |
| [09:18] | That had to have been hard for you. | 那对你来说一定很难。 |
| [09:19] | You gave up your life for seven years. | 您放弃了七年的生活。 |
| [09:22] | Uh, it was a really rough. | 嗯，这真的很粗糙。 |
| [09:24] | Really rough. | 真的很粗糙。 |
| [09:25] | I lost my relationship. | 我失去了恋爱关系。 |
| [09:27] | I lost my house, | 我丢了房子 |
| [09:28] | just to make sure I could provide for the things that he needed. | 只是为了确保我可以提供他需要的东西。 |
| [09:32] | You did it. | 你做到了。 |
| [09:33] | And I don’t ask for anything. I don’t ask for no help. | 而且我什么也没要求。 我不需要任何帮助。 |
| [09:37] | I just do it. | 我就是这样做。 |
| [09:38] | Has he ever said thank you? | 他曾经说过谢谢吗？ |
| [09:42] | He don’t have to say thank you. | 他不必说谢谢。 |
| [09:44] | It’s what I would have did anyway. | 无论如何我都会这样做。 |
| [09:46] | – Mm. | -嗯。 |
| [09:48] | You are an amazing, amazing mother. | 你是一位了不起的母亲。 |
| [09:51] | He’s such a straight boy, | 他真是个直男 |
| [09:53] | isn’t he? | 不是吗？ |
| [09:54] | -Oh, my. -He sure is. | -哦，我的。 他肯定是。 |
| [09:59] | -How are you? -I’m great. | -你好吗？ -我很好。 |
| [10:01] | I’m glad to finally spend some time with you. | 很高兴终于与您在一起。 |
| [10:03] | I see this Wesley, | 我看到这个韦斯利， |
| [10:04] | and this Wesley is smiling, | 这个卫斯理在微笑， |
| [10:06] | happy, amazing. | 快乐，令人惊讶。 |
| [10:08] | And I kind of wanna know about the Wesley before this Wesley. | 我想在此韦斯利之前先了解一下韦斯利。 |
| [10:14] | You know, um, | 你知道，嗯， |
| [10:16] | I grew up on the East Side of Kansas City. | 我在堪萨斯城东边长大。 |
| [10:18] | I mean, it was gangs, drugs. | 我的意思是，这是帮派，毒品。 |
| [10:20] | I remember dropping out of school, you know, riding around with guns. | 我记得我带着枪骑着马离开学校。 |
| [10:24] | I mean, I was happy when I made it past 21. | 我的意思是，当我超过21岁时，我感到很高兴。 |
| [10:26] | I actually celebrated it like the president’s election. | 实际上，我像总统当选一样庆祝了它。 |
| [10:29] | -Yeah. -Twenty-one, baby. | -是的。 -21岁，宝贝。 |
| [10:31] | -We there. -Yeah. | -我们在那里。 是的 |
| [10:32] | So, when I got shot at 24, | 所以，当我在24岁时被枪杀时， |
| [10:34] | even though I had all these regrets while I was laying on that ground, | 即使我当时躺在地面上也感到所有遗憾， |
| [10:37] | I mean, I was like, “Man, at least I made it this far.” | 我的意思是，我当时想，“伙计，至少我做到了这一步。” |
| [10:39] | Yeah. | 是的。 |
| [10:40] | Before the moment happened when you got shot, | 在您被枪杀之前， |
| [10:42] | did you… | 你… |
| [10:44] | did you feel like, “Okay, there’s something going down”? | 您是否感觉到，“好吧，有什么事发生了？”？ |
| [10:46] | I was there, you know, talking to a ex-girlfriend, | 我在那儿，和前女友聊天， |
| [10:50] | and, I mean, me and her had maybe a hostile conversation, | 而且，我的意思是，我和她之间可能进行了敌对的谈话， |
| [10:54] | but she had a friend over. | 但是她有一个朋友。 |
| [10:56] | I was actually walking back to my car. | 我实际上正在回到我的车上。 |
| [10:58] | And moments after that, | 之后， |
| [10:59] | that friend’s friend shot me. | 那个朋友的朋友开枪打死了我。 |
| [11:02] | So, for me, it was more like, “Why did it even happen?” | 因此，对我来说，更像是“为什么会发生？” |
| [11:05] | Did you ever get answers from him | 你有没有从他那里得到答案 |
| [11:07] | or her or anyone? | 还是她或任何人？ |
| [11:09] | No, um… | 不，嗯… |
| [11:11] | The guy that shot me did time, but he’s out now. | 开枪打我的人没时间，但他现在不在了。 |
| [11:14] | I never got answers. No. | 我从来没有得到答案。 没有。 |
| [11:16] | But I didn’t seek ’em either. | 但是我也没有寻求他们。 |
| [11:18] | I mean, you weren’t perfect. | 我的意思是，你并不完美。 |
| [11:20] | -Right. -Yeah, hearing your story, | -对。 是的，听到你的故事， |
| [11:22] | -and I can hear some gaps in there. -Yeah. | -我可以听到一些空白。 是的 |
| [11:24] | It doesn’t make any of us feel good to sit in life | 让我们每个人坐在生活中都感觉不好 |
| [11:27] | still questioning why something happened. | 仍然质疑为什么会发生什么。 |
| [11:31] | I want that understanding of what I did that put me in this position. | 我希望对自己所做的事情有深刻的了解，使我处于这个位置。 |
| [11:36] | After talking to Wesley and his mom, | 与卫斯理和他的妈妈交谈后， |
| [11:38] | I realize there’s been a lot of growth, but not a lot of healing. | 我知道这里有很多增长，但没有很多恢复。 |
| [11:41] | I’mma let know right now that if Jonathan cuts your hair, | 我现在要告诉大家，如果乔纳森（Jonathan）剪了你的头发， |
| [11:44] | I’m going to pick it up off the ground | 我要把它捡起来 |
| [11:46] | and sew it to my head. | 缝到我的头上。 |
| [11:48] | -I’m just letting you know right now. -Hey, man. | -我现在只是让你知道。 -嗨，老兄。 |
| [11:49] | I’ve never had a weave. | 我从来没有编织过。 |
| [11:51] | This’ll be my first. | 这是我的第一个。 |
| [11:52] | Did someone say they’ve never had a weave? | 有人说他们从未编织过吗？ |
| [11:55] | -I did. -Emergency! | -我做到了。 -紧急！ |
| [11:57] | -I’ve never had a weave. | 我从来没有编织过。 |
| [12:00] | It’s gonna be a frickin’ awesome week. | 这将是一个很棒的一周。 |
| [12:02] | So, how do you feel like we can help you? | 那么，您觉得我们如何可以帮助您？ |
| [12:04] | Um… | 嗯… |
| [12:05] | I was– | 我是- |
| [12:06] | You know, I was paralyzed, uh, close to seven years ago, | 你知道，我瘫痪了，嗯，快七年前了， |
| [12:09] | and I figured out who I was through this process. | ，然后我弄清楚了自己是谁。 |
| [12:13] | And I want you guys | 而且我想要你们 |
| [12:14] | to help me become the man I am today. | 帮助我成为今天的男人。 |
| [12:18] | Tell us a bit about the end of this week. | 告诉我们有关本周末的情况。 |
| [12:20] | We’re having, like, a rooftop social for my non-profit. | 我们为我的非营利组织提供了一个屋顶社交平台。 |
| [12:23] | It’s all about just awareness. | 这只是意识。 |
| [12:25] | When I say “Disabled But Not Really,” | 当我说“已禁用但不是真的”时， |
| [12:27] | I’m proud to say it | 我很自豪地说 |
| [12:28] | because I’m living every part of that. | ，因为我活在其中。 |
| [12:31] | – Yeah! | -是的！ |
| [12:32] | ♪ Let the rhythm take you tonight ♪ | ♪让节奏带你今晚♪ |
| [12:35] | ♪ We can work it out Under all the lights ♪ | ♪我们可以解决 在所有灯光下♪ |
| [12:37] | ♪ Get on the floor And just let go… ♪ | ♪上地板 放手…♪ |
| [12:41] | Wesley is in a place of acceptance, | 卫斯理在接受的地方， |
| [12:43] | he’s in a place of self-love. | 他在一个自爱的地方。 |
| [12:45] | We are going to create a physical change | 我们将创造一个物理变化
使内部与他在外部看到的内容相匹配的 |
| [12:47] | that matches the inside to who he sees on the outside. | 。 |
| [12:51] | There’s an old saying that clothes maketh the man, | 有句老话说衣服是男人， |
| [12:53] | and so I wanna find options | 所以我想找到选项 |
| [12:55] | that make him look more refined, | 使他看起来更加精致， |
| [12:57] | make him look more professional, | 使他看起来更专业， |
| [12:59] | just a more polished version of Wesley. | 只是卫斯理的更完美版本。 |
| [13:02] | His home was not built for somebody who uses a chair. | 他的家不是为使用椅子的人建造的。 |
| [13:04] | I wanna make sure that Wesley’s entire home | 我 要确保韦斯利的整个家 |
| [13:07] | is comfortable and works for him. | 很舒服，正在为他工作。 |
| [13:10] | ♪ And all them stars come out When you’re movin’… ♪ | ♪所有的星星都出来了 当你动身时…♪ |
| [13:14] | Wesley’s life is eating healthy, | 卫斯理的生活健康饮食， |
| [13:17] | but I wanna teach Wes how to look at his food a little differently, | 但我想教韦斯如何对他的食物有所不同， |
| [13:19] | flavored a little differently. | 味道有些不同。 |
| [13:21] | I just wanna expand his palate. | 我只是想扩大他的味蕾。 |
| [13:24] | Wesley has worked very hard to create a better life for himself, | 卫斯理非常努力地为自己创造更好的生活， |
| [13:27] | but he hasn’t truly put his past behind him yet. | 但是他还没有真正把过去抛在脑后。 |
| [13:29] | And if I’m really gonna be able to set him off on a new path, | 而且，如果我真的能够将他引向新的道路， |
| [13:32] | he has to get clarity about that night. | 他必须在那天晚上弄清楚点。 |
| [13:35] | Hello. | 你好。 |
| [13:36] | Hey, Wes, what’s going on, man? It’s Karamo. | 嘿，韦斯，发生什么事了，伙计？ 是卡拉莫 |
| [13:38] | What’s going on, man? | 这是怎么回事，伙计？ |
| [13:40] | I was thinking of a way that I could help you, | 我在想一种可以帮助您的方式， |
| [13:42] | but I need your blessing. | 但我需要你的祝福。 |
| [13:43] | Hit me with it. | 打我吧。 |
| [13:51] | You ever heard of something called Disabled But Not Really? | 您曾经听说过“残疾但不是真的”吗？ |
| [13:54] | No, I have not. | 不，我没有。 |
| [13:55] | So, I train, uh, different people, uh, at a CrossFit gym locally. | 因此，我在当地的CrossFit体育馆训练呃，不同的人，呃。 |
| [14:00] | Look me up and let’s– let’s connect. | 抬起头来，让我们-让我们联系。 |
| [14:02] | -Nice meeting you. -You too. | -很高兴认识您。 -你也是。 |
| [14:03] | I wanna spend some time with Wesley | 我想和Wesley在一起 |
| [14:05] | out about in the city to see what works for him, | 在城里逛逛，看看对他有用的东西， |
| [14:08] | what doesn’t work for him. | 什么都不适合他。 |
| [14:09] | They got this fantastic button they made for me. | 他们得到了为我制作的这个奇妙的按钮。 |
| [14:12] | For you? | 给你？ |
| [14:14] | -Welcome to my happy place. -Hi, baby. | -欢迎来到我快乐的地方。 -嗨宝贝。 |
| [14:16] | -How’s it going? -It’s my happy place. | -最近怎么样？ -这是我快乐的地方。 |
| [14:18] | Your happy place, too, actually. | 其实你也很快乐。 |
| [14:20] | We’re gonna grab a few things to make dinner later. | 我们稍后会拿点东西做晚餐。 |
| [14:22] | ♪ We’ll just keep on livin’… ♪ | ♪我们继续保持生活…♪ |
| [14:25] | We’re gonna roll up right over here and get spices. | 我们要在这里滚来滚去，拿出香料。 |
| [14:28] | So, we’re gonna grab one of these. Do you cook with turmeric? | 因此，我们将抓住其中之一。 你用姜黄煮吗？ |
| [14:30] | I do. I can’t reach up there, | 我做。 我无法到达那里 |
| [14:32] | so a lot of my stuff at home | 所以我家里很多东西 |
| [14:34] | is just the same stuff because it’s easier to grab. | 是相同的东西，因为它更容易抓住。 |
| [14:37] | But it’s especially frustrating hearing that | 但令我特别沮丧的是 |
| [14:39] | because you don’t wanna be doing the exact same thing all the time | 因为您不想一直做完全相同的事情 |
| [14:42] | because that kinda gets boring. | 因为有点无聊。 |
| [14:43] | You wanna, sorry for lack of a better word, spice things up, right? | 你想，对不起，因为缺少更好的单词，让事情变得有趣起来，对吗？ |
| [14:47] | I never thought about the fact that | 我从未想过 |
| [14:49] | more than half of what’s in a grocery store | 杂货店的一半以上 |
| [14:51] | is not accessible to somebody in a chair. | 坐在椅子上的人无法访问。 |
| [14:53] | In this situation, | 在这种情况下， |
| [14:55] | I’ll be the man that eats nothing but sweet potatoes | 我会成为除了地瓜以外什么都不吃的男人 |
| [14:57] | ’cause it’s right here. | ‘因为它就在这里。 |
| [14:58] | I wanna make sure | 我想确定 |
| [14:59] | that everything in his kitchen is fully accessible | 他厨房里的一切都可以完全进入 |
| [15:01] | so he can really do what he loves, which is cook. | 这样他才能真正做自己喜欢做的事，那就是做饭。 |
| [15:05] | ♪ We fight the good fight ♪ | ♪我们打好仗♪ |
| [15:08] | ♪ There’s no need to waste it anymore ♪ | ♪不再需要浪费了♪ |
| [15:11] | All right, so we have everything we need. | 好吧，所以我们有需要的一切。 |
| [15:14] | -Let’s cook! -Let’s cook. | -我们做饭吧！ -让我们做饭。 |
| [15:16] | We’re making a simple but healthy meal with chicken and veggies. | 我们正在用鸡肉和蔬菜做一顿简单却健康的饭菜。 |
| [15:20] | Food has completely changed Wes’ body, his way of life. | 食物彻底改变了韦斯的身体和生活方式。 |
| [15:23] | It’s how he lost 100 pounds. | 这就是他减掉100磅体重的方法。 |
| [15:25] | He’s been eating really healthy foods, | 他一直在吃真正健康的食物， |
| [15:27] | but there hasn’t been an evolution into learning new techniques | 但是没有学习新技术的演变 |
| [15:30] | and delving into different ingredients. | 并且研究不同的成份。 |
| [15:32] | I love a rotisserie chicken, and you can use it in different ways, | 我喜欢烤肉店的鸡肉，您可以用不同的方式来使用它， |
| [15:36] | and I’m gonna show you, like, a slightly different way of doing that now. | 现在，我将向您展示一种稍微不同的方法。 |
| [15:39] | We’re just gonna dress it up a little, and, boom, | 我们要打扮一点，然后蓬勃发展， |
| [15:41] | you got yourself a healthy, delicious chicken salad. | 您得到了健康，美味的鸡肉沙拉。 |
| [15:44] | – All right. -I need all the meat from this little guy | -好吧。 我需要这个小家伙的所有肉 |
| [15:47] | basically put into here. | 基本上放在这里。 |
| [15:49] | So, I’m just doing a rough chop like this. | 所以，我只是像这样粗暴地砍。 |
| [15:51] | Our dear sweet friend cilantro. | 我们亲爱的香菜香菜。 |
| [15:53] | Lemon. We need acid in here now. | 柠檬。 我们现在在这里需要酸。 |
| [15:55] | This is a head of garlic, | 这是大蒜的头， |
| [15:57] | and inside, we have the cloves. | 在里面，我们有丁香。 |
| [15:59] | – So, that’s a garlic clove. – That’s a clove of garlic. | -那是蒜瓣。 -那是一瓣大蒜。 |
| [16:02] | Now, this is the fun part. | 现在，这是有趣的部分。 |
| [16:05] | -Try it again. | -再试一次。 |
| [16:07] | Look, you take it out and you have all your skin off. | 看，你把它拿出来，你的所有皮肤都脱落了。 |
| [16:10] | Oh, my God, I seen this on, like, a cooking channel, | 噢，天哪，我在一个烹饪频道上看到了它， |
| [16:12] | and it looked so much harder than what it just was. | ，看起来比原来要难得多。 |
| [16:15] | Exactly. | 确实如此。 |
| [16:16] | And then, you just start to chop. | 然后，您就开始砍。 |
| [16:18] | Oh… | 哦… |
| [16:20] | We’re gonna make a bit of a garlic paste. | 我们要加一点大蒜酱。 |
| [16:22] | With your knife like so, | 像这样用刀， |
| [16:23] | you just slide it across. | 您只需将其滑过。 |
| [16:25] | Yeah. | 是的。 |
| [16:26] | So, were you passionate about food before the accident at all? | 那么，您在事故发生之前是否对食物充满热情？ |
| [16:29] | Double Quarter Pounder with Cheese. | 四分之一磅有乳酪的。 |
| [16:34] | -It’s a newfound love for you. -Yeah. | -这是对您的新发现的爱。 是的 |
| [16:36] | This chair empowers me in ways that I was never empowered walking. | 这把椅子赋予了我从未被授权行走的能力。 |
| [16:41] | A lot of people would always say like, “Man, Wes was mean.” | 很多人总是会说：“男人，韦斯是卑鄙的。” |
| [16:44] | Really? | 真的吗？ |
| [16:46] | -I never smiled before I was paralyzed. -Yeah. | -我从来没有微笑过，直到瘫痪了。 是的 |
| [16:48] | And now that even though people might see, like, physical limitations, | 现在，即使人们可能看到例如身体上的限制， |
| [16:52] | it’s just became so much better. | 它变得好多了。 |
| [16:54] | It’s pretty incredible how | 这真是令人难以置信 |
| [16:56] | sometimes you have to go through something really terrible and traumatic | 有时，您必须经历一些非常可怕和痛苦的事情 |
| [16:59] | to have such a profound respect, | 拥有如此深刻的敬意， |
| [17:00] | and to turn it into your life’s work. | 并将其变成您生活中的工作。 |
| [17:02] | So, how do you cook your sweet potatoes typically? | 那么，您通常如何烹饪地瓜？ |
| [17:04] | ‘Cause you love sweet potatoes. | ‘因为你爱红薯。 |
| [17:05] | -I just bake ’em. -So what’s nice, what we’re gonna do here, | -我刚烤了。 -好吧，我们要在这里做什么， |
| [17:08] | we’re gonna roast, we’re gonna get them nice and crispy. | 我们要烤，我们要让它们变得香脆。 |
| [17:11] | I can’t wait. | 我等不及了。 |
| [17:12] | -We gotta get a little bit of fat. -Okay. | -我们得有点脂肪。 -好的。 |
| [17:14] | I’m just gonna drizzle a bit of olive oil, and then we’re gonna put some turmeric. | 我要淋些橄榄油，然后再放些姜黄。 |
| [17:17] | Nice anti-inflammatory properties. | 很好的抗炎特性。 |
| [17:20] | Play around. You have tons of spices at home. | 玩。 你家里有很多香料。 |
| [17:22] | Smells good already. | 闻起来很好。 |
| [17:25] | Now, spaghetti squash. | 现在，意大利面条南瓜。 |
| [17:28] | So, my father– actually, a nurse at his hospital, | 因此，我父亲-实际上是他医院的一名护士， |
| [17:31] | has maple trees, and she makes her own maple syrup. | 有槭树，并且她做她自己的枫蜜。 |
| [17:33] | Have a little try. | 尝试一下。 |
| [17:34] | This is gonna help caramelize nicely along. | 这会很好地帮助焦糖化。 |
| [17:38] | Are you even paying attention to me right now? | 你现在还在注意我吗？ |
| [17:41] | Oh, my God. I’ve never– | 天哪。 我从来没有 |
| [17:45] | Boom! | oom！ |
| [17:47] | Now you try and get fancy with me. | 现在，您尝试和我在一起。 |
| [17:48] | -I need to be fancy with you. | -我想和你在一起。 |
| [17:51] | Cheers. | 干杯。 |
| [17:53] | Oh, my God. | 天哪。 |
| [17:55] | This… | 这个… |
| [17:56] | -is amazing! | -太神奇了！ |
| [17:58] | It is so good! It’s so good!! | 太好了！ 它是那么好！！ |
| [18:00] | I’ve never seen somebody more excited about food than me. | 我从未见过有人比我对食物更兴奋。 |
| [18:03] | I’ve officially met my match. | 我已经正式参加了比赛。 |
| [18:05] | Is this your reaction to food whenever you eat it, typically? | 这通常是您每次食用食物时对食物的反应吗？ |
| [18:08] | Right now, it’s so overwhelming because… | 现在，这真是令人难以置信，因为… |
| [18:11] | these are things that I wanted to learn, | 这些是我想学习的东西， |
| [18:14] | I just didn’t know how to do it myself. | 我只是自己不知道该怎么做。 |
| [18:17] | Though, thank you. | 不过，谢谢。 |
| [18:19] | -You’re very welcome. | -非常欢迎。 |
| [18:20] | Oh, his plate is about to be gone! | 噢，他的盘子快要走了！ |
| [18:22] | – Oh, my God! | -天哪！ |
| [18:24] | ♪ Clap your hands to the music ♪ | ♪伸手欣赏音乐♪ |
| [18:27] | ♪ Clap your hands now ♪ | ♪现在拍手♪ |
| [18:28] | ♪ DJ gonna play your favorite Beat, beat, beat, yeah ♪ | ♪DJ会播放您喜欢的歌曲 打，敲打，敲打，是的♪ |
| [18:32] | ♪ And when we drop it Ain’t no way to stop it ♪ | ♪当我们放下它 没有办法阻止它♪ |
| [18:37] | ♪ And when we drop it Ain’t no way to stop it ♪ | ♪当我们放下它 没有办法阻止它♪ |
| [18:41] | ♪ Five, four, three, two ♪ | ♪五，四，三，二♪ |
| [18:43] | ♪ This is how we drop it On the one… ♪ | ♪这就是我们放下它的方式 在一个地方……♪ |
| [18:47] | -Talk to me. -Yay! The washer and dryers came in. | -跟我说话。 -好极了！ 洗衣机和烘干机进来了。 |
| [18:49] | -Grab bars. -Yay. | -抢夺酒吧。 -好极了。 |
| [18:50] | -Those are going in today. -Perfect. | -今天要进去。 -完善。 |
| [18:52] | I wanted to make sure that in every aspect of Wesley’s life at home, | 我想确保在韦斯利的家庭生活的各个方面， |
| [18:56] | he had complete and full independence. | 他完全独立。 |
| [18:58] | -We’re lowering the bed, too, right? -Yeah. | -我们也要放下床，对吧？ 是的 |
| [19:08] | – Awesome sauce. – Got it? | -太棒了。 – 得到它了？ |
| [19:10] | -I’m gonna let you back up. -You said you’re gonna push me? | -我会让你备份。 -你说你要推我吗？ |
| [19:12] | Do you want me to push you? | 你要我推你吗？ |
| [19:16] | -After you, sir. -Thank you. | -先生，您好。 -谢谢。 |
| [19:18] | -Okay. -This is nice. | -好。 -很好。 |
| [19:20] | This is ULAH. I love this store, I’ve been in a few times, | 这是ULAH。 我喜欢这家商店，我去过几次了， |
| [19:23] | so I kinda wanted to bring you in and show you exactly what they’ve got. | 所以我有点想带您进来，并向您确切展示他们的能力。 |
| [19:26] | I know that it’s important for you to be comfortable, | 我知道让您感到舒适很重要， |
| [19:28] | but you also mentioned that you do wanna look a lot more dressed up, | 但您还提到您确实希望打扮得更加打扮， |
| [19:31] | especially because of Disabled But Not Really. | 特别是因为残障而并非真的。 |
| [19:33] | I wanna get you to that point. | 我想让你明白这一点。 |
| [19:35] | But you have very specific requirements that will affect your wardrobe. | 但是您有非常具体的要求，会影响您的衣橱。 |
| [19:38] | You, more than most people, | 您比大多数人都多， |
| [19:40] | will have have to get to know a tailor very well. | 必须非常熟悉裁缝。 |
| [19:42] | But first, | 但是首先 |
| [19:43] | I wanna see how you would shop. | 我想看看你的购物方式。 |
| [19:45] | I’m lost in here when it comes to anything that I’m not used to. | 当我遇到不习惯的事情时，我迷失了。 |
| [19:49] | What’s behind there? | 那里后面是什么？ |
| [19:52] | Yeah, like, what if I had, like, a… a burgundy jacket? | 是的，如果我有…勃艮第的外套怎么办？ |
| [19:56] | I’m thinking maybe some blue jeans. | 我在想也许是蓝色牛仔裤。 |
| [19:58] | This is nice. | 很好。 |
| [20:00] | You say you’re lost, but you just put a full look together. | 您说您迷路了，但您只是将整个表情放在一起。 |
| [20:03] | You’ve got the eye, but now I wanna show you how to make that work for you. | 您的眼光不错，但现在我想向您展示如何为您工作。 |
| [20:06] | Awesome. | 太棒了。 |
| [20:07] | Are you nervous at all? Hesitant at all? | 你很紧张吗 犹豫不决？ |
| [20:10] | Yeah, I haven’t been in a fitting room since I was paralyzed. | 是的，自从瘫痪以来，我还没去过试衣间。 |
| [20:12] | Really? Why? | 真的吗？ 为什么？ |
| [20:14] | What would take someone else maybe, like, two, three minutes | 可能要花别人两，三分钟的时间 |
| [20:17] | might take me ten, 15 minutes. | 可能要花我十，十五分钟。 |
| [20:18] | But, I mean, I wouldn’t be uncomfortable right now. | 但是，我的意思是，我现在不会感到不舒服。 |
| [20:21] | Like, I don’t wanna just say, “Oh, this is Wes, this is what I do.” | 就像，我不想说：“哦，这是韦斯，这就是我要做的。” |
| [20:24] | Let’s get you in here. Let’s try some stuff on. | 让我们进入这里。 让我们尝试一些东西。 |
| [20:26] | Wesley has done all he can to get to a position in his life | 卫斯理已竭尽所能地升职 |
| [20:29] | that he’s happy with, | 他很高兴 |
| [20:30] | but he knows that to get to the next step, | 但是他知道下一步 |
| [20:32] | he needs to be vulnerable, he needs to open up. | 他需要变得脆弱，他需要开放。 |
| [20:34] | Wesley, how you doing? How you getting along? | 韦斯利，你好吗？ 你过得怎么样？ |
| [20:36] | Oh, just putting pants on. | 哦，就穿裤子吧。 |
| [20:38] | -Okay. Do you need any help at all? -Nope. | -好。 您是否需要任何帮助？ -不。 |
| [20:41] | And now he’s letting us in so we can help the finesse of the final part. | 现在他让我们加入，以便我们可以帮助完成最后一部分。 |
| [20:46] | -Check me out. | -检查我。 |
| [20:47] | It’s more put together. | 放在一起。 |
| [20:49] | I do wanna throw on a jacket | 我想穿一件夹克 |
| [20:52] | to show you just how you can dress it up even more. | 向您展示 您将如何打扮得更多。 |
| [20:55] | Ooh! | 哦！ |
| [20:57] | -Who knew you could look like this? -Who knew I could like this? | -谁知道你看起来像这样？ 谁知道我会喜欢这个？ |
| [21:00] | Yeah! | 是的！ |
| [21:01] | I like it. | 我喜欢。 |
| [21:02] | When you’re feeling yourself, you carry yourself in a different way. | 当您感觉到自己时，您会以不同的方式进行自己。 |
| [21:05] | And you’re clearly feeling yourself right now. | 而且您现在显然正在感觉自己。 |
| [21:07] | Give me your best model roll. | 给我你最好的模特。 |
| [21:12] | Yes! Oh, yeah! | 是! 哦耶！ |
| [21:14] | Oh, yeah! | 哦，是的！ |
| [21:17] | Oh! I was certainly not expecting the hair to come out! | 哦！ 我当然没想到头发会出来！ |
| [21:20] | Yes! | 是的！ |
| [21:22] | – And spin it. | -旋转它。 |
| [21:24] | Get outta here. | 离开这里。 |
| [21:29] | All right, get back in there. | 好吧，回到那里。 |
| [21:33] | Oh, my. Oh, my. Oh, my. Okay. | 哦，我的。 天啊。 天啊。 好的。 |
| [21:36] | Here I know it’s baggier, so I’m gonna make it tighter on the inside here, | 在这里，我知道它是轻便的，所以我要在里面把它收紧， |
| [21:40] | but also on here. | 而且在这里 |
| [21:42] | The shirt is an easy fix. | 衬衫很容易修好。 |
| [21:43] | All we’re gonna do is get it cropped, | 我们要做的就是剪裁它， |
| [21:45] | so it’s not gonna cause you any issues over your wheels. | 因此它不会给您的车轮造成任何问题。 |
| [21:49] | To make it that much shorter, | 为了使它更短， |
| [21:52] | not even $10. | 甚至不到$ 10。 |
| [21:54] | This is good. I’m just– Yeah, this is exciting. | 这很好。 我只是-是的，这很令人兴奋。 |
| [21:56] | I mean, even going in and actually | 我的意思是，即使实际上 |
| [21:58] | getting dressed in a dressing room, | 在更衣室里换衣服， |
| [22:01] | it wasn’t as hard as I made it seem. | 这并不像我看起来的那么难。 |
| [22:05] | Like, I could roll out of here right now and just like… | 喜欢，我现在可以离开这里，就像… |
| [22:08] | -This is me. This is the new me. | -这是我。 这是新来的我。 |
| [22:11] | You have more confidence | 您更有信心 |
| [22:13] | than most people we meet. | 比我们遇到的大多数人都多。 |
| [22:15] | You just needed us to give you, like, the little kiss of something more. | 您只需要我们给您更多类似的小吻。 |
| [22:18] | I think, like, the confidence you guys have is amazing. | 我认为，你们的自信令人赞叹。 |
| [22:23] | Was it hard to get there? | 很难到达那里吗？ |
| [22:26] | Uh, I didn’t actually come out to some of my family members | 嗯，我实际上没有出来见我的一些家庭成员 |
| [22:28] | until after this show aired. | 直到节目播出之后。 |
| [22:31] | And when I first told some family members… | 当我第一次告诉一些家庭成员时… |
| [22:36] | Sorry. | 对不起。 |
| [22:37] | I really struggled, and… | 我真的很挣扎，而且… |
| [22:40] | and it knocked my confidence a lot. | 这使我的信心大打折扣。 |
| [22:42] | It– It’s not easy for me to be able to say, | -我很难说， |
| [22:44] | “This is me. This is what I represent.” | “这就是我。这就是我所代表的。” |
| [22:47] | It’s a process, and you will know this better than anybody. | 这是一个过程，您将比任何人都更加了解这一点。 |
| [22:51] | Some days, it’s really hard. | 有时候，这真的很难。 |
| [22:53] | And then I remembered that I’m in a position to be able to influence people, | 然后我想起我有能力影响人们， |
| [22:56] | and you are in the same position. | ，您处于同一位置。 |
| [22:58] | You know, I haven’t been around five gay guys, you know, just ever. | 你知道，我从来没有去过五个同性恋者。 |
| [23:02] | Yeah. | 是的。 |
| [23:03] | Um, but have you been around like | 嗯，但是你在附近吗 |
| [23:05] | –five people with disabilities? -No. | –五个残疾人？ -没有。 |
| [23:06] | I teach people with disabilities that it’s okay to seek to be different | 我告诉残疾人士，寻求与众不同是可以的 |
| [23:10] | and be comfortable within your own skin. | 并在自己的皮肤中感到舒适。 |
| [23:13] | That’s just what I got from you right now. | 那就是我现在从你那里得到的。 |
| [23:16] | I truly appreciate you even sharing it. | 我什至感谢您的分享。 |
| [23:18] | It’s awesome. | 太好了。 |
| [23:19] | -Hug? -Yes! | -拥抱？ -是！ |
| [23:21] | -Yes, I can give you a hug. | -是的，我可以给你一个拥抱。 |
| [23:23] | It was good. | 很好。 |
| [23:25] | I mean, I literally just heard myself through you right now. | 我的意思是，我现在真的只是通过您听到自己的声音。 |
| [23:31] | ♪ Seize the day… ♪ | ♪抓住这一天…♪ |
| [23:32] | Okay, here we are. Let me get the door for you. | 好，我们到了。 我给你开门。 |
| [23:35] | ♪ It can never bring you down ♪ | ♪永远无法让你失望♪ |
| [23:37] | ♪ You go and do it anyway ♪ | ♪你还是去做吧♪ |
| [23:40] | I know that when we spoke at your house, you were, like, | 我知道当我们在您家讲话时，您就像 |
| [23:42] | we are ready for, like, an outside transformation, it feels like. | 我们已经准备好进行外部转换，感觉就像。 |
| [23:45] | I wanted something to match my maturity. | 我想要一些适合我的成熟度的东西。 |
| [23:47] | Um, I just have a look that | 嗯，我只是看看 |
| [23:50] | I’ve always had since the day I got shot. | 自从我被枪杀的那一天起，我一直都有。 |
| [23:52] | So, to me, I need to let go and start new. | 因此，对我来说，我需要放手并重新开始。 |
| [23:55] | In my mind, I was thinking like Drake-ish. | 在我心中，我的想法像德雷克时代。 |
| [23:58] | I’m down with that. | 我对此感到沮丧。 |
| [23:59] | Wait, but that’s only one half of the consultation. | 等等，但这只是咨询的一半。 |
| [24:01] | ‘Cause the other consultation is your beard. | ‘因为其他咨询是您的胡须。 |
| [24:03] | What about my beard? | 我的胡须呢？ |
| [24:04] | I feel like the shape of it is giving me… | 我觉得它的形状给了我… |
| [24:07] | a fan… | 粉丝… |
| [24:08] | -instead of circular. -Should it be that short? | -代替圆形。 -那么短吗？ |
| [24:11] | If you can read newspaper through the ends, | 如果您能从头到尾读报纸， |
| [24:13] | that doesn’t scream health and vitality. | 不会尖叫健康和活力。 |
| [24:15] | That screams, “I’m holding onto something that I don’t wanna let go,” | 尖叫着，“我坚持着我不想放手的东西，” |
| [24:17] | which is like the opposite of what we’re doing here. | 这就像我们在这里所做的相反。 |
| [24:22] | You are giving me an eye roll right now, | 您正在眼前， |
| [24:24] | like a client that does not wanna cut their hair a little shorter. | 就像不想剪短头发的客户一样。 |
| [24:26] | No, I’m good. | 不，我很好。 |
| [24:28] | Do you like your wispy-kins? | 你喜欢你的小女孩吗？ |
| [24:30] | Yeah, but I’m with that. Man, I’m so ready. | 是的，但我同意。 老兄，我已经准备好了。 |
| [24:32] | I actually am gonna have a barber help me out ’cause, like… | 我实际上要请一位理发师帮我，因为… |
| [24:35] | Is fading my number one forte? | 我的第一大牌正在消失吗？ |
| [24:38] | -No. | -不。 |
| [24:39] | It’s all about accentuating your strengths. | 这全是要强调您的优势。 |
| [24:41] | Clippers is not my truth. | 飞剪机不是我的真相。 |
| [24:44] | And so I’m like, “Tahki, girl.” | 所以我就像，“塔基，女孩。” |
| [24:47] | It’s his truth. | 这是他的真实。 |
| [24:48] | -That beard is so amazing. -We gotta talk about the beard. | -那胡须真是太神奇了。 -我们得说一下胡须。 |
| [24:51] | Not so many people can even grow their beard like that. | 很少有人能像那样留胡子。 |
| [24:53] | I want his beard to mimic a little bit more of his jaw shape. | 我希望他的胡须模仿他的下巴形状。 |
| [24:56] | Wesley has such a strong face and such handsome features, | 卫斯理（Wesley）拥有如此强壮的脸庞和如此英俊的特征， |
| [24:58] | I know his confidence is just gonna be like… | 我知道他的自信只会像… |
| [25:01] | “Yes. Look at my arms. Look at my vision. | “是的。看着我的手臂。看着我的视野。 |
| [25:03] | Look at how smart I am. Let’s go.” | 看看我有多聪明。 我们走吧。” |
| [25:05] | Surprise. Ah! | 惊喜。 啊! |
| [25:07] | Hey, what’s up? | 嘿，怎么了？ |
| [25:08] | I’mma leave her for a little bit, okay? | 我要离开她一点，好吗？ |
| [25:10] | I got it. Babysitter. | 我明白了。 保姆。 |
| [25:11] | -Ah, sounds good. –Babysitter. Bye, love you to pieces. | -啊，听起来不错。 –保姆。 再见，爱你成碎片。 |
| [25:14] | Bye, Queen Love. | 再见，女王之爱。 |
| [25:15] | Are you ready for this moment? Do you know what we’re about to do? | 你准备好了吗？ 你知道我们要做什么吗？ |
| [25:18] | Well, Dad is about to get his hair cut off. | 好吧，爸爸要把头发剪掉。 |
| [25:21] | Are you scared? | 你害怕吗？ |
| [25:22] | He’s gonna look just like your dad but with shorter hair. | 他长得像你父亲，但头发短。 |
| [25:24] | Sometimes you just need change, | 有时您只需要更改， |
| [25:26] | and I’m ready for it. | ，我已经准备好了。 |
| [25:29] | -Wesley, my man, are you ready? -I’m ready. | -韦斯利，我的男人，你准备好了吗？ -我准备好了。 |
| [25:31] | I’m not ready at all. | 我还没准备好。 |
| [25:37] | – Okay? – No turning back. | -好吗？ – 没有回头路。 |
| [25:40] | -He’s gonna look so handsome. -I’m not looking. | -他看起来会很帅。 我没看 |
| [25:43] | No more shake. | 不再摇动。 |
| [25:49] | Will you just get this little girl’s gorgeous little hair washed for me | 你能帮我洗个小女孩的华丽小头发吗 |
| [25:52] | -and then we’re gonna style her up. -Absolutely. | -然后我们将为她造型。 -绝对。 |
| [25:53] | When we were cutting those off I felt you were like– | 当我们剪掉那些东西时，我觉得你就像- |
| [25:56] | That felt like a moment. | 感觉就像片刻。 |
| [25:58] | I want it to be normal, | 我希望它是正常的， |
| [25:59] | and I thought, like, having that same look | ，我以为像一样 |
| [26:01] | would make me feel like who I used to be. | 会让我觉得自己曾经是谁。 |
| [26:04] | And now, since I’ve embraced | 现在，因为我已经拥抱 |
| [26:06] | -who I am… -You’re, like, proud of it. | -我是谁-你为它感到骄傲。 |
| [26:08] | …it feels free. | …感觉免费。 |
| [26:10] | Wes was dealt a very difficult pill to swallow, | Wes被服用了非常难以吞咽的药丸， |
| [26:12] | and he swallowed that gorgeous pill, turned it into a multivitamin, | 他吞下了那颗美丽的药丸，将其制成多种维生素， |
| [26:16] | and he wants to see that reflection in the mirror instead of | ，他想看镜子里的反射而不是 |
| [26:19] | the Wesley who he’s kind of been carrying with him this whole time. | 他一直陪伴着他的韦斯利。 |
| [26:21] | That is gorgeous acceptance. | 那是美好的接受。 |
| [26:24] | He looks like Drake. | 他看起来像德雷克。 |
| [26:26] | She said I look like Drake! | 她说我看起来像德雷克！ |
| [26:29] | You wanna see your hair? | 你想看你的头发吗？ |
| [26:32] | Look at that. | 看看。 |
| [26:34] | Looking very beautiful. | 看起来很漂亮。 |
| [26:36] | -You ready to see the whole new you? – Yep. | -您准备好看看全新的吗？ -是的 |
| [26:39] | Three, two, one… | 三，二，一… |
| [26:45] | Hey! | 嘿！ |
| [26:46] | That’s what I’m talkin’ ’bout. | 这就是我在说“回合”。 |
| [26:48] | Oh, I like the beard. | 哦，我喜欢胡须。 |
| [26:50] | See how it’s actually stronger by making it a bit shorter? | 缩短一点，看看它实际上有多强？ |
| [27:09] | -I reached out to Maurice. -Mm-hmm. | 我联系了莫里斯。 嗯 |
| [27:11] | And… | 还有… |
| [27:12] | Maurice is willing to meet with you. | 莫里斯（Maurice）愿意与您见面。 |
| [27:14] | That night is critical in who you are as a man. | 那天晚上对您作为男人的身份至关重要。 |
| [27:18] | But there’s still little holes for you | 但是你仍然有小毛病 |
| [27:20] | that I’m noticing that, like, have to get fixed and get plugged. | 我注意到，必须修复并插入。 |
| [27:23] | So, I’ve set up an opportunity for Wesley to meet Maurice, | 因此，我为Wesley创造了一个认识Maurice的机会， |
| [27:26] | the man who shot him. | 枪杀他的人。 |
| [27:28] | Because there’s still a lot of things in Wesley’s mind | 因为卫斯理的脑子里还有很多事情 |
| [27:30] | that he doesn’t understand about this night. | 他今晚不了解。 |
| [27:32] | And hopefully | 希望如此 |
| [27:33] | he can finally close that chapter, | 他终于可以结束这一章了， |
| [27:36] | and begin to go to the next chapter of his life. | ，然后开始下一生。 |
| [27:39] | You said you’ve never had a conversation with him. | 您说过您从未与他对话。 |
| [27:42] | I didn’t really wanna approach, you know? | 我真的不想靠近，你知道吗？ |
| [27:44] | Like, I knew people that possibly knew him, and… | 喜欢，我认识可能认识他的人，并且… |
| [27:46] | coulda had set up something long time ago, | maya很久以前就建立了， |
| [27:48] | but I was living this life of positivity. | 但我过着这种积极的生活。 |
| [27:51] | Last thing I wanted to do was be in a negative mindset | 我最后想做的就是保持消极的心态 |
| [27:54] | because someone maybe felt something | 因为有人可能会感觉到一些东西 |
| [27:56] | ’bout going to jail for five, six years. | ‘回合将入狱五，六年。 |
| [27:59] | -Man, I’m just trying to live my life. -Yeah. | -伙计，我只是想过自己的生活。 是的 |
| [28:02] | You are not alone. | 你并不孤单。 |
| [28:03] | Like, I’m here to support you. | 喜欢，我在这里为您提供支持。 |
| [28:05] | So, as for you to be able to say, | 因此，至于你可以说， |
| [28:07] | “Well, what was I doing in that space?” | “嗯，我在那个地方做什么？” |
| [28:10] | Understandable. | 可以理解。 |
| [28:16] | You gotta always think, like, | 你总会想， |
| [28:18] | you’ll be looking at a man that tried to take your life. | 您将看到一个试图自杀的人。 |
| [28:22] | I just don’t want my emotions to get over me. | 我只是不想让自己的情绪凌驾于我之上。 |
| [28:27] | Like, people assume that forgiveness is a destination, | 就像人们认为宽恕是目的地， |
| [28:30] | not realizing it’s a journey that continues all throughout your life. | 没有意识到这是一个贯穿您一生的旅程。 |
| [28:34] | Right. | 对。 |
| [28:35] | I feel like I can handle it. | 我觉得我可以应付。 |
| [29:01] | -What up with it, man? -How’s it going? | -怎么了，伙计？ -怎么样了？ |
| [29:03] | -Karamo. -Karamo? | -卡拉莫。 -卡拉莫？ |
| [29:04] | -Yeah. -Maurice. | 是的 -莫里斯。 |
| [29:05] | -Nice to meet you, man. -You too. | -很高兴认识你，老兄。 -你也是。 |
| [29:07] | First of all, thank you again for you being here. | 首先，再次感谢您在这里。 |
| [29:09] | Thank you for you being willing to do this. | 感谢您愿意这样做。 |
| [29:11] | I just am here for… | 我只是来这里… |
| [29:13] | to help you all navigate this conversation, | 可以帮助大家浏览此对话， |
| [29:16] | but this is your time. | 但这是你的时间。 |
| [29:19] | So, sort of ask whatever questions, get clarity. | 因此，无论问什么问题，都要弄清楚。 |
| [29:22] | You kinda don’t know why and what happened that night. | 你有点不知道那天晚上为什么和发生了什么。 |
| [29:26] | That day, | 那天， |
| [29:28] | I’d only seen you for a second. | 我只等了你一秒钟。 |
| [29:31] | I was literally walking back to my car and leaving. | 我实际上是在回到我的车然后离开。 |
| [29:33] | We never had, like, a conversation or, like, a altercation. | 我们从来没有像对话那样的争论。 |
| [29:39] | You don’t believe that… | 你不相信… |
| [29:41] | …you done anything to warrant what happened? | …您为确保发生了什么事做了什么？ |
| [29:44] | No, like, I know that– | 不，我知道， |
| [29:46] | I mean, I just know who I was before. | 我的意思是，我只知道我以前曾经是谁。 |
| [29:48] | I don’t wanna go back and forth to make it like a, | 我不想来回去使它像一个 |
| [29:50] | you know, whose fault this was, whose fault that was. | 你知道，这是谁的错，那是谁的错。 |
| [29:52] | I don’t wanna do that. | 我不想那样做。 |
| [29:54] | To give you some kind of clarity on my perspective of what happened, | 为了让您更清楚地了解我所发生的事情， |
| [29:57] | when I get there, | 当我到达那里时， |
| [29:58] | I see your partner | 我看到你的伴侣 |
| [30:00] | and your, uh, woman at the time or whatever like that, | 和你那个时候的女人等等 |
| [30:03] | arguing. | 争论。 |
| [30:04] | So, I understand that my actions and my feelings | 因此，我了解自己的行为和感受 |
| [30:07] | and my emotions probably took the best of me that day, | ，那天我的情绪可能使我开心， |
| [30:10] | but it was still more or less like, | 但还是有点像 |
| [30:14] | “Why you?” | “你为什么？” |
| [30:15] | I seen you bucking up to my cousin. | 我看到你屈服于我的表弟。 |
| [30:18] | You know what I’m saying? And he told me that you had a pistol. | 你知道我在说什么吗？ 他告诉我你有一支手枪。 |
| [30:21] | And your partner, I see his pistol. | 和您的伴侣，我看到了他的手枪。 |
| [30:22] | He got a 30-round magazine hanging out. | 他有30轮杂志闲逛。 |
| [30:24] | And I’d seen him back and forth going, | 我见过他来回走动， |
| [30:26] | and I’m like, “Damn, all this over a bitch?” | ，我想，“该死，这一切都过得去吗？” |
| [30:29] | That’s when you started to come over towards me. | 那是你开始走向我的时候。 |
| [30:31] | You know how the streets are. You know, I can’t see yours. | 你知道街道如何。 你知道，我看不到你的。 |
| [30:34] | In my mind, you got the pistol, too. | 在我看来，您也有手枪。 |
| [30:36] | I’m like, “Man, look, I’m not going for that. | 我喜欢，“伙计，看，我不想要那个。 |
| [30:38] | I can’t, you know what I’m saying, risk me getting shot or getting–“ | 我不能，你知道我在说什么，冒着我被枪击或被枪击的风险-” |
| [30:41] | You know what I’m saying? So, what happened, happened. | 你知道我在说什么吗？ 所以，发生了什么，发生了。 |
| [30:46] | It’s crazy | 太疯狂了 |
| [30:48] | to hear it now. | 现在听。 |
| [30:51] | We lived in a place where… | 我们住在一个地方… |
| [30:53] | we all strap. | 我们都系好了。 |
| [30:55] | You know, we don’t care as long as we trying to protect somebody that we love. | 您知道，只要我们想保护我们爱的人，我们就不在乎。 |
| [31:02] | I could understand why you did what you did. | 我能理解你为什么做你所做的事。 |
| [31:04] | If it was the other way around, | 如果相反， |
| [31:07] | I probably would react the same way you did. | 我可能会以与您相同的方式做出反应。 |
| [31:09] | I didn’t imagine you seeing it from that– from that perspective, like… | 我没想到你会从那个角度看到它-从那个角度来看… |
| [31:13] | It was no malice in my heart. | 我心中没有恶意。 |
| [31:15] | Wes, do you need an apology? | Wes，您需要道歉吗？ |
| [31:18] | I don’t– | 我不- |
| [31:19] | I don’t think it’s necessary for a apology. | 我认为道歉没有必要。 |
| [31:23] | I’d prefer not you to feel sorry. | 我不想让你感到抱歉。 |
| [31:26] | I thank you… | 谢谢你… |
| [31:28] | for me being, like, in this position. | 对我来说就像在这个位置上一样。 |
| [31:32] | I don’t even feel bad energy from you. | 我什至不觉得你的精力不好。 |
| [31:34] | That’s crazy. I was thinking the same thing. | 太疯狂了。 我在想同样的事。 |
| [31:36] | I’m like, “Man.” | 我就像是“男人”。 |
| [31:38] | I’m actually empowered by the life that I was given | 实际上，我被赋予的生命赋予了自己力量 |
| [31:41] | that day. | 那天。 |
| [31:42] | I’ve had a lot of time to grow. | 我有很多时间成长。 |
| [31:44] | I’m definitely in a better space, | 我肯定在一个更好的地方， |
| [31:46] | you know, just striving to be the man that I know I can be. | 你知道，只是努力成为我知道自己可以成为的男人。 |
| [31:50] | We are two black men, | 我们是两个黑人， |
| [31:51] | and… | 和… |
| [31:53] | we’re doing something that… | 我们正在做某事… |
| [31:56] | they don’t want us to do. | 他们不希望我们这样做。 |
| [31:58] | And that is forgive each other, | 彼此宽恕， |
| [32:01] | but also uplift each other. | 还能互相提升。 |
| [32:02] | I found purpose in my situation, | 我发现自己的目标是， |
| [32:04] | and it seems like you did, too. | 好像也一样。 |
| [32:06] | Like I said, I was planning on doing great things from here on out, man. | 就像我说的，伙计，我正计划从现在开始做伟大的事情。 |
| [32:10] | Hopefully we can both do some great things. | 希望我们都能做一些伟大的事情。 |
| [32:12] | Hey, man, I see we can do it probably together, man. | 嘿，伙计，我想我们可以一起做。 |
| [32:16] | -True. – I agree with you. | -是的。 – 我同意你的看法。 |
| [32:18] | I have a feeling that this is just the beginning of a bigger purpose | 我觉得这只是一个更大目标的开始 |
| [32:20] | that I don’t even think y’all knew. | 我什至不认为你们都知道。 |
| [32:22] | Hey, man. I’m with it. | 嘿，伙计。 我同意 |
| [32:23] | -I appreciate you, bro. -Thank you. | -谢谢你，兄弟。 -谢谢。 |
| [32:25] | -My son. -I appreciate you. | -我的儿子。 -我感激你。 |
| [32:28] | Wow. | 哇。 |
| [32:30] | How was that? Good? | 怎么样？ 好？ |
| [32:31] | Wow. | 哇。 |
| [32:32] | It was really, really liberating. | 真的，真的很解放。 |
| [32:34] | I’m like… | 我就像… |
| [32:36] | having all these mixed emotions. | 有所有这些混杂的情感。 |
| [32:39] | Like, I looked at a man that shot me, | 喜欢，我看着一个向我开枪的人， |
| [32:42] | -and told him “thank you.” -Mm. | -告诉他“谢谢你”。 嗯 |
| [32:43] | And now I can be the Wesley Hamilton that I always wanted to be. | 现在我可以成为我一直想成为的韦斯利·汉密尔顿了。 |
| [32:51] | ♪ If I was you, I’d be dying to be ♪ | ♪如果我是你，我很想成为♪ |
| [32:53] | ♪ The reflection of the person That you’re seeing in me ♪ | ♪人的倒影 你在我身上看到的景象♪ |
| [32:56] | ♪ Like I was born on the moon But I’m conceived by the sea ♪ | ♪就像我出生在月球上一样 但是我被大海孕育了♪ |
| [32:59] | ♪ And I won’t concede Until I’m achieving my dreams ♪ | ♪而且我不会让步 直到我实现自己的梦想♪ |
| [33:02] | ♪ I’m flyin’ home, home ♪ | ♪我要飞回家了，回家了♪ |
| [33:06] | ♪ Home, home ♪ | ♪家，家♪ |
| [33:10] | Are you excited to see the house? | 看到房子你兴奋吗？ |
| [33:12] | I feel like I’m all wrapped out of excitement, | 我感到自己被激动所笼罩， |
| [33:14] | but I know it’s still in there. | 但我知道它仍然在那里。 |
| [33:16] | What? | 什么？ |
| [33:18] | Oh! | 哦！ |
| [33:24] | No! Is that my crib? | 不！ 那是我的婴儿床吗？ |
| [33:25] | Yeah! | 是的！ |
| [33:28] | Oh, look at his hair! | 哦，看看他的头发！ |
| [33:30] | – Oh, my gosh. – Is this my house? | -天哪。 -这是我的房子吗？ |
| [33:32] | -Can we talk about how handsome you look? -Oh, my God. Look at this ramp! | -我们能谈谈您的长相吗？ -哦，我的上帝。 看看这个坡道！ |
| [33:35] | So much room. | 空间很大。 |
| [33:37] | -You look awesome. -Hello. | -你看起来真棒。 -你好。 |
| [33:38] | –Good to see you. –What’s up? | –很高兴见到你。 –怎么了？ |
| [33:41] | Oh, my God, I smell flowers. | 哦，天哪，我闻到花香。 |
| [33:43] | – Flowers! – Right? We landscaped, painted. | -花！ – 对？ 我们美化，绘画。 |
| [33:45] | Now you can see who’s at the front door from your phone. | 现在，您可以通过手机查看谁在前门。 |
| [33:47] | – That’s what that’s for? -Yeah. | -那是为了什么？ 是的 |
| [33:49] | I’m never opening the door! | 我从不开门！ |
| [33:52] | – You ready for more? – I am ready. | -您准备好了吗？ – 我准备好了。 |
| [33:56] | No! What? | 不！ 什么？ |
| [33:59] | Hey! | 嘿! |
| [34:01] | Dude! | 老兄！ |
| [34:04] | Hey, this is nice! | 嘿，这很好！ |
| [34:06] | -Do I got a washing machine? – Yeah! | -我有洗衣机吗？ -是的！ |
| [34:08] | I moved it upstairs, so now you get to do your own laundry. | 我把它搬到了楼上，所以现在您可以自己洗衣服了。 |
| [34:12] | -Great. Oh, man. -That is actually really sweet. | -太好了。 天啊。 -那真的很贴心。 |
| [34:15] | I’mma wash clothes every day. | 我每天都要洗衣服。 |
| [34:17] | I got it! | 我明白了！ |
| [34:21] | This is all, like… | 这就是全部，就像… |
| [34:23] | I’m very overwhelmed right now. | 我现在不知所措。 |
| [34:28] | Aw. | 噢。 |
| [34:31] | What?! What?! No– | 什么？！ 什么？！ 没有 – |
| [34:35] | Hey, no! | 嘿，不！ |
| [34:37] | Now, who house is this? | 现在，这是谁的房子？ |
| [34:40] | – Dude. – I know. | -老兄。 – 我知道。 |
| [34:41] | Yeah! | 是的！ |
| [34:45] | Oh, my God. | 天哪。 |
| [34:47] | Hey, you put the microwave to my height. | 嘿，你把微波炉放到了我的高度。 |
| [34:50] | Hold on. | 坚持，稍等。 |
| [34:51] | No cabinets up top, man! | 顶上没有橱柜，伙计！ |
| [34:53] | That’s what I’m talking about. | 这就是我在说的。 |
| [34:55] | Now I don’t feel challenged. | 现在我没有感到挑战。 |
| [34:56] | And I gave you an induction stove. | 我给了你一个电磁炉。 |
| [34:58] | It only gets hot when other metal is touching it. | 仅在其他金属接触时才会变热。 |
| [35:00] | This, this, this is amazing. | 这个，这个，太神奇了。 |
| [35:07] | Oh, man! | 天哪！ |
| [35:08] | I got a mirror! I can look at myself? | 我有镜子！ 我可以看看自己吗？ |
| [35:10] | I put our bathroom mirror at an angle | 我把浴室镜倾斜 |
| [35:12] | so that you can finally see yourself. | ，以便您最终可以看到自己。 |
| [35:15] | It did not dawn on me that you could mathematically do this. | 我可以在数学上做到这一点对我并不陌生。 |
| [35:18] | Before, the footprint that it was, we couldn’t. | 以前，那是我们的足迹。 |
| [35:20] | We took a wall out of the kitchen, | 我们从厨房拿出一堵墙， |
| [35:22] | moved the dining room over and expanded this. | 将餐厅移开并扩展了它。 |
| [35:23] | -It’s double the size that it was. | -它的大小是原来的两倍。 |
| [35:28] | Oh, man. | 天哪。 |
| [35:30] | This gives me so much independence. | 这给了我很多独立性。 |
| [35:34] | I can actually feel like a normal person | 我实际上可以感觉像一个正常人 |
| [35:36] | where they go into their bathroom, get themselves together. | 他们进入洗手间的地方，聚在一起。 |
| [35:39] | I mean… | 我的意思是… |
| [35:42] | And it looks nice. | 而且看起来不错。 |
| [35:46] | -This my room?! -This is your room. | -这是我的房间吗？ -这是你的房间。 |
| [35:49] | This is my room. | 这是我的房间。 |
| [35:50] | I love it. | 我喜欢。 |
| [35:54] | A lowrider bed. | 低底盘的床。 |
| [35:56] | They got hydraulics now, baby! | 宝贝，他们现在有了液压系统！ |
| [35:59] | Ooh! | 哦！ |
| [36:01] | Now I can feel comfortable, like, sitting or reading. | 现在，我可以舒服地坐着或读书。 |
| [36:04] | I gotta see myself in this mirror, though. | 不过，我必须在镜子里看到自己。 |
| [36:06] | Yeah, you do. | 是的，你知道。 |
| [36:07] | -Yeah. -Right? | -是的。 -对？ |
| [36:09] | -This is me. -Full-length mirror. | -这是我。 -全长镜子。 |
| [36:11] | Woo-hoo! | 呜呜！ |
| [36:14] | So, what has this week been like for you? | 那么，本周您的情况如何？ |
| [36:16] | It has gave me the fresh start that I was always looking for, | 这为我一直以来寻找的新起点， |
| [36:20] | but didn’t know exactly how to do it. | 但不知道该怎么做。 |
| [36:22] | Yeah. I gotta tell you, yesterday was probably, for me, | 是的。 我要告诉你，昨天可能对我来说 |
| [36:25] | the most powerful, most impactful moment. | 最强大，最有影响力的时刻。 |
| [36:28] | It lifted weight off of my shoulders. | 它减轻了我的肩膀的重量。 |
| [36:32] | It was a need, not only to free me completely, | 这不仅是要完全释放我， |
| [36:35] | but to put me in a position to be this new me. | 但要让我成为这个新我。 |
| [36:39] | Now I’m looking at life, like, | 现在我正在看着生活， |
| [36:41] | ten steps ahead instead of feeling like something’s behind me. | 向前走了十步，而不是觉得自己身后有东西。 |
| [36:45] | Forgiveness is something that is contagious, | 宽恕具有传染性， |
| [36:49] | and freedom is something that’s contagious. | 自由是具有感染力的。 |
| [36:52] | You can pass that on. | 你可以继续下去。 |
| [36:54] | I want my mom to… | 我要妈妈… |
| [36:57] | release all that pain, all that struggle. | 释放所有的痛苦，所有的挣扎。 |
| [37:00] | I want her to be the woman that I knew… | 我希望她成为我认识的女人… |
| [37:05] | two hours before I was shot. | 我被枪杀前两个小时。 |
| [37:07] | I just thought I couldn’t give her as much as she’s gave me. | 我只是以为我不能给她那么多她给我的东西。 |
| [37:10] | You know, it’s like it’s so many things | 你知道，就像很多东西一样 |
| [37:12] | that’s gonna be lifted off her shoulders today. | 今天要从她的肩膀上抬起。 |
| [37:15] | -She’s gonna be free. – Yeah. | 她会自由的。 -是的 |
| [37:17] | You know, we always put in our minds that we wanna do a lot more | 你知道，我们一直在想着我们想做更多的事情 |
| [37:20] | to sort of match what someone else has done. | 与其他人的所作所为相匹配。 |
| [37:22] | But sometimes it’s as easy as just saying, | 但是有时候就像说一样容易， |
| [37:26] | -“Thank you.” -Mm-hmm. | -“谢谢。” 嗯 |
| [37:28] | I don’t now why I feel like an old Negro spiritual should be coming on right now. | 我现在不明白为什么我觉得现在应该有一个古老的黑人精神。 |
| [37:30] | I don’t sing, but I feel like– Right? | 我不唱歌，但我感觉-对吗？ |
| [37:32] | You found freedom! You found freedom! | 您找到了自由！ 您找到了自由！ |
| [37:35] | ♪ Lift every voice ♪ | ♪振作起来♪ |
| [37:37] | ♪ And sing ♪ | ♪然后唱歌♪ |
| [37:41] | Yes, that’s quite lovely, but, see, Karamo, I can’t hear you sing anymore. | 是的，那真是太可爱了，但是，卡拉莫，我再也听不见你唱歌了。 |
| [37:44] | Come on, Wesley, I’m gonna get you dressed. | 来吧，卫斯理，我要给你穿衣服。 |
| [37:47] | – This is nice. -It’s nice, right? | -很好。 -很好，对吗？ |
| [37:50] | First of all, I know that Bobby’s lowered this | 首先，我知道Bobby降低了 |
| [37:52] | so you can easily access all your clothes. | ，因此您可以轻松获取所有衣服。 |
| [37:54] | I’ve got you an outfit for tonight. | 我今晚有衣服给你。 |
| [37:55] | You are the face of the foundation, | 您是基金会的面孔， |
| [37:57] | so I wanted to make sure that you are looking right. | 因此，我想确保您的状态正确。 |
| [38:00] | -I’m excited. -Okay, good. | -我很兴奋。 -好的。 |
| [38:01] | Because I’ve got a beautiful suit for you. | 因为我有一套适合您的西装。 |
| [38:03] | It was made especially for you. | 特别为您量身定做。 |
| [38:05] | The pants have an elasticated waist at the back | 裤子后部有松紧的腰围 |
| [38:08] | so it’s easy to get on, easy to get off. | 所以很容易上车，容易下车。 |
| [38:09] | And then the jacket, | 然后是外套， |
| [38:11] | it’s gonna look like it’s super, super short. | 看起来超级短。 |
| [38:14] | But once it’s on, it’s gonna hit the perfect point. | 但是一旦开启，它将达到完美的地步。 |
| [38:16] | How powerful will it look | 它看起来有多强大 |
| [38:19] | to not only have something that everyone else wears, | 不仅拥有其他人都穿的东西， |
| [38:22] | -but it complements… – Yeah. | -但补充…-是的。 |
| [38:25] | -…my disabled-but-not-really-ness? – Yeah. | -…我的残疾但不是真的吗？ -是的 |
| [38:28] | Absolutely. | 绝对。 |
| [38:29] | Is the new Wesley Hamilton ready to try on a new outfit? | 新的韦斯利·汉密尔顿准备好试穿新衣服了吗？ |
| [38:31] | Yes. | 是的。 |
| [38:32] | I wonder what he’s gonna look like. | 我想知道他会长什么样。 |
| [38:34] | -You boys ready to see this look? – Yeah! | -男孩们准备好看这个样子了吗？ -是的！ |
| [38:36] | Okay. The new, new, new Wesley, will you please roll in? | 好吧。 新的，新的，新的卫斯理，您能请进去吗？ |
| [38:40] | – Yeah! – Nice. | -是的！ 很好 |
| [38:42] | Hey! | 嘿！ |
| [38:43] | Check me out. Hold on. | 检查我。 坚持，稍等。 |
| [38:46] | -I love it! -Wes, are you feeling yourself? | -我喜欢！ -Wes，你感觉自己吗？ |
| [38:49] | -Oh, yeah. | -哦，是的。 |
| [38:51] | Do I have separation anxiety from being able to see your biceps? Maybe. | 我是否因看二头肌而感到焦虑？ 也许。 |
| [38:54] | You can still see the width of the guns through that. | 您仍然可以通过它看到枪的宽度。 |
| [38:58] | This was a jacket that was much longer. | 这是一件长得多的夹克。 |
| [39:00] | We’ve cropped it down to make sure that it fits over his wheels correctly. | 我们已将其裁剪以确保其正确地适合他的车轮。 |
| [39:03] | You would never know that it has all been altered to make sure it fits. | 您永远不会知道它已经全部更改以确保合适。 |
| [39:07] | – Not at all. | – Not at all. |
| [39:09] | I didn’t have the courage to make this change. | 我没有勇气进行此更改。 |
| [39:12] | I was able to see, like, you guys | 我能够看到你们 |
| [39:15] | embrace your reality, | 拥抱你的现实， |
| [39:17] | which made me so comfortable about me embracing mine. | 这让我对拥抱我感到很自在。 |
| [39:21] | I had sunk into a place where I just wanted to adapt. | 我沉入了我只想适应的地方。 |
| [39:25] | You guys didn’t adapt anything. | 你们什么都没适应。 |
| [39:28] | You taught me the true meaning of being yourself. | 您教会了我成为自己的真正含义。 |
| [39:33] | I can’t do nothing but thank all of you for that. | 我无能为力，谢谢大家。 |
| [39:37] | I don’t think any of us were bracing ourselves | 我认为我们每个人都没有做好准备 |
| [39:39] | enough for what we learned from you this week. | 足够 ，这是我们本周从您那里学到的。 |
| [39:41] | The way that you look at things, I think, is so admirable. | 我认为，您看待事物的方式是如此令人钦佩。 |
| [39:43] | I feel like I got just as much from my time with you as vice versa, | 我觉得与您在一起的时光与我的收获一样多，反之亦然， |
| [39:48] | and so I just wanna say keep doing you, I am so about it. | 所以我只想说继续做下去，我对此很满意。 |
| [39:50] | The event tonight is gonna be amazing. | 今晚的活动真是太神奇了。 |
| [39:53] | It’s gonna be new people that I’ve never met. | 将会是我从未见过的新朋友。 |
| [39:56] | It’s gonna be friends. | 它将成为朋友。 |
| [39:58] | It’s gonna be family. | 它将成为一家人。 |
| [40:00] | But I’mma actually roll in there with the confidence | 但是我实际上充满信心地走进了那里 |
| [40:03] | to represent my brand in a way I’ve never represented it before. | 以从未有过的方式代表我的品牌。 |
| [40:07] | Well, you’re not quite ready. | 好吧，您还没有准备好。 |
| [40:09] | You’ve gotta change your outfit first and you’re gonna look sharp as hell. | 你得先换衣服，而且看起来会很地狱。 |
| [40:11] | We should probably get out of here and let you get changed. | 我们可能应该离开这里，让您得到改变。 |
| [40:13] | Can we group hug? Little one? | 我们可以拥抱吗？ 小家伙？ |
| [40:15] | – Yeah. – Come here. | -是的。 – 过来。 |
| [40:17] | -Come on in. -Come here, baby. | -进来吧-宝贝，过来 |
| [40:18] | I’ll just take care of these shoulders back here. Yeah! | 我会在这里照顾这些肩膀。 是的 |
| [40:21] | Thank y’all. | 谢谢你们。 |
| [40:22] | – Bye. -Thank you for everything. | -再见 -谢谢你为我做的一切。 |
| [40:24] | – Have fun, babe. – Keep it up. | -开心，宝贝。 – 保持。 |
| [40:28] | ♪ I’m feeling good, I’m feeling right ♪ | ♪我感觉不错，我感觉不错♪ |
| [40:30] | ♪ Aviator status We have to book a flight ♪ | ♪飞行员身份 我们必须预订航班♪ |
| [40:33] | ♪ We outta here, out, out We outta here ♪ | ♪我们离开这里，离开，离开 我们离开这里♪ |
| [40:35] | ♪ Grab your bag and your purse We outta here ♪ | ♪拿起你的包和钱包 我们不在这里♪ |
| [40:38] | Gentlemen, would you like to join us? | 先生们，您想加入我们吗？ |
| [40:40] | – Yeah. -I’m just cooking up a little breakfast. | -是的。 我只是在煮一点早餐。 |
| [40:42] | I feel like it’s like my daddies are making me breakfast! | 我感觉就像爸爸在给我做早餐！ |
| [40:45] | I’ve never had scrambled eggs with gummies in it. | 我从来没有炒过带有软糖的鸡蛋。 |
| [40:48] | So, we made these, like, little turmeric coffees with ginger | 因此，我们用姜汁制作了这些姜黄小咖啡 |
| [40:50] | -and cinnamon and honey. -Yummers! | -还有肉桂和蜂蜜。 -太好了！ |
| [40:52] | Oh, my little Bruley is so tired. | 噢，我的小布鲁利太累了。 |
| [40:55] | Come here, baby boy. | 过来，男婴。 |
| [40:56] | Oh. | 哦。 |
| [40:58] | Who’s ready to watch one of our most inspirational heroes ever? | 谁准备好观看我们有史以来最具启发性的英雄之一？ |
| [41:02] | -Yeah. -Let’s watch Wesley. | -是的。 -让我们看卫斯理。 |
| [41:04] | – Aw! | – Aw! |
| [41:06] | I love him in this look. | 我爱他 |
| [41:08] | Have you done a French tuck this season? | 这个季节你做过法国卷吗？ |
| [41:10] | -Yes, bitch. -Ah! | -是的，bit子。 -啊！ |
| [41:16] | -Oh, my. -Oh, my God. | -哦，我的。 -哦，我的上帝。 |
| [41:20] | Oh, my God. | 天哪。 |
| [41:21] | Nevaeh. | Nevaeh。 |
| [41:23] | -Did she get a blowout? -Yes, I did it. | -她有井喷吗？ -我做到了。 |
| [41:25] | Oh, it looks so pretty. | 哦，看起来好漂亮。 |
| [41:27] | Oh, this don’t look like the same place. | 哦，这个地方看起来不一样。 |
| [41:29] | This is gonna massively alter her life, too. | 这也将极大地改变她的生活。 |
| [41:31] | -Ripple effect. -She gets her freedom back. | -涟漪效应。 她恢复了自由。 |
| [41:33] | -What’s up? -This is amazing. | -怎么了？ -这真太了不起了。 |
| [41:35] | Oh, my God. Oh! | 天哪。 哦! |
| [41:37] | Oh, you look so nice. | 哦，你看起来很好。 |
| [41:39] | Look at my home. | 看我的家。 |
| [41:40] | Is this even real? | 这是真的吗？ |
| [41:42] | – Aw! -It’s real, baby girl! | -噢！ -是真的，宝贝女儿！ |
| [41:46] | You can just see the release Mom is having. | 您可以看到妈妈正在释放。 |
| [41:49] | Yes. | 是。 |
| [41:50] | Ready for the bathroom. We’ve got a door. Yay. | 准备上洗手间。 我们有一扇门。 好极了。 |
| [41:55] | Ooh. We all up in here now. Look. | 哦。 现在我们都在这里。 看。 |
| [41:57] | Mm-hmm! | 嗯！ |
| [41:59] | Oh, yes, Dawn. | 哦，是的，黎明。 |
| [42:00] | -Look at this closet. | -看看这个壁橱。 |
| [42:02] | This is nice. | 很好。 |
| [42:03] | -It’s a big closet. | -这是一个大壁橱。 |
| [42:04] | Every jacket is actually tailored to fit me. | 每件夹克实际上都是为适合我而量身定制的。 |
| [42:09] | I’m speechless. | 我无语了。 |
| [42:10] | I love how excited he was about the fact that he can finally wear outerwear. | 我爱他对最终可以穿外套这一事实感到非常兴奋。 |
| [42:14] | Could you– I would never even think about that. | 能不能，我什至不会考虑。 |
| [42:16] | I can’t wear a jacket? | 我不能穿外套吗？ |
| [42:19] | You know, we’re going into seven years of being paralyzed. | 您知道，我们已经陷入瘫痪了七年。 |
| [42:22] | And even though, like, my life has been better from it, | 而且，尽管，我的生活因此而变得更好， |
| [42:26] | I feel like we all never forgave the person that did this to me. | 我觉得我们所有人都永远不会原谅对我这样做的人。 |
| [42:30] | And, um, | 而且，嗯， |
| [42:32] | I got to see him yesterday. | 我昨天见到他。 |
| [42:35] | We were face to face, | 我们面对面 |
| [42:37] | and it gave a lot of clarity. | ，它给出了很多清晰度。 |
| [42:40] | I freed myself from so much last night, | 我昨晚从很多事情中解放了自己， |
| [42:44] | I wanna give you the ability to be free from all of this, too. | 我也想给你摆脱所有这些的能力。 |
| [42:50] | Even though you can’t get that seven years back, | 即使您无法回到那七年前， |
| [42:53] | you can start your journey now of living… | 您可以开始自己的生活之旅… |
| [42:57] | your life again, | 再度生活， |
| [42:59] | and you don’t have to worry about me. | ，您不必担心我。 |
| [43:03] | You’ve allowed me to vent when I needed to. | 当我需要时，您已经允许我发泄。 |
| [43:06] | You’ve literally been there | 你真的去过那里
每天 |
| [43:08] | every day. | 。 |
| [43:11] | Thank you. | 谢谢。 |
| [43:21] | -Oh. | -哦。 |
| [43:23] | It’s sort of a sense of release and closure for Mom, too. | 妈妈也有一种释放和封闭的感觉。 |
| [43:26] | It’s like a positive ripple effect. | 就像是正面的涟漪效应。 |
| [43:28] | Oh, yeah. | 哦，是的。 |
| [43:29] | – Check me out! – Wow! | -检查我！ – 哇！ |
| [43:31] | Wow, look at you, Wesley. | 哇，韦斯利，看着你。 |
| [43:33] | Uh-uh. Look at him. | 嗯 看着他。 |
| [43:35] | Mm, mm, mm! | 嗯，毫米，毫米！ |
| [43:36] | Oh, he looks so handsome! | 哦，他好帅！ |
| [43:39] | Tan, that suit. | Tan，那套西装。 |
| [43:41] | You did good. | 你做得很好。 |
| [43:48] | Oh, that’s nice! | 哦，太好了！ |
| [43:50] | That’s nice! | 很好！ |
| [43:51] | Make some noise for Wesley Hamilton! | 为韦斯利·汉密尔顿（Wesley Hamilton）吹个响！ |
| [43:58] | Let’s go! | 走吧！ |
| [44:00] | Let’s go! | 我们走吧！ |
| [44:05] | This event is poppin’. | 此事件是poppin’。 |
| [44:07] | -Hey, looking clean, man. -Hey! Hey! | -嘿，看起来很干净，伙计。 -嘿！ 嘿! |
| [44:10] | How does it feel to have the fresh hair? | 拥有新鲜的头发感觉如何？ |
| [44:13] | – It feels liberating. -Yeah. | -感到解放。 是的 |
| [44:15] | You look awesome with your haircut. | 你的发型看起来很棒。 |
| [44:16] | Hey, you know! | 嘿，你知道！ |
| [44:17] | Look at that gorgeous smile just illuminating from his inside. Oh! | 看着那灿烂的笑容从他的内心照亮。 哦! |
| [44:21] | -All right, all right, all right. | -好吧，好吧，好吧。 |
| [44:24] | – Man. Oh, man. – You look good! Woo! | – 人。 天啊。 – 你看起来挺好的！ ！ |
| [44:28] | I don’t think I could ever be this clean, you know? | 我想我永远不会这么干净，你知道吗？ |
| [44:31] | It might not show my guns right now, but y’all know what’s real. | 它可能不会立即显示我的枪声，但是你们都知道真实的东西。 |
| [44:36] | Never a bad opportunity to pass out on a comment about his guns. | 从来没有一个不好的机会发表关于他的枪支的评论。 |
| [44:40] | First of all, thank you, everybody, for being here. | 首先，谢谢大家。 |
| [44:42] | Um, it’s truly an honor to see… | 嗯，很荣幸看到… |
| [44:45] | everybody | 大家
支持该组织的 |
| [44:46] | that supports this organization. | 。 |
| [44:49] | I came from somewhere where… | 我来自某个地方… |
| [44:52] | I wasn’t surrounded by five gay guys. | 我并没有被五个同性恋者包围。 |
| [44:56] | -You’re gay? | -你是同性恋吗？ |
| [44:58] | And what I found was that all of us… | 我发现我们所有人都… |
| [45:02] | kind of face the same thing. | 面对同样的事情。 |
| [45:04] | And it was that society seen us differently. | 这是社会对我们的看法不同。 |
| [45:07] | When I talk about acceptance, | 当我谈论接受时， |
| [45:10] | seeing five guys that accepted who they were, | 看到五个人接受了他们的身份， |
| [45:13] | and they see one guy that accepted who he was, | 他们看到一个接受他的人， |
| [45:16] | it was just amazing. | 真是太神奇了。 |
| [45:17] | And I just wanna say | 我只想说 |
| [45:18] | we just can’t look at anybody differently. | 我们只是不能以不同的方式看待任何人。 |
| [45:21] | It’s all about love. | 都是关于爱的。 |
| [45:23] | I’m a new me today. | 今天我是新手。 |
| [45:24] | And I just want everybody to know is that, yeah, I am disabled, | 我只想让所有人都知道，是的，我是残疾人， |
| [45:28] | but not really. | 但不是。 |
| [45:37] | -I love Wesley! – Me, too. | -我爱韦斯利！ – 我也是。 |
| [45:40] | I didn’t give credit where credit was due. | 我没有在应得的额度上给予信用。 |
| [45:42] | The woman that actually was there for me through it all… | 整个过程中真正在我身边的那个女人… |
| [45:47] | I’m talking about my mom. | 我在说我妈妈。 |
| [45:49] | And I want her to come up here… | 我要她来这里… |
| [45:55] | Because… | 因为… |
| [45:58] | she gave me the love… | 她给了我爱…
当我不爱自己时，我需要的 |
| [46:02] | that I needed when I didn’t love myself. | 。 |
| [46:05] | So, I just wanted to give credit to my mom | 所以，我只想感谢我妈妈 |
| [46:09] | ’cause this is– this is my backbone. | ‘因为这是-这是我的骨干。 |
| [46:14] | I love you. | 我爱你。 |
| [46:18] | What an incredible man. | 真是一个不可思议的人。 |
| [46:19] | -Yes. -Guys, to Wesley. | -是。 你们好，韦斯利。 |
| [46:20] | -Yes, to Wesley. -Disabled but not really. | -对，韦斯利。 -已禁用，但不是。 |
| [46:23] | Yes! | 是的！ |
| [46:28] | Daunted by the notion of tying your own tie? | 对自己打领带的想法感到恐惧？ |
| [46:30] | I’m gonna keep it simple for you. | 我会为您保持简单。 |
| [46:32] | The thin end on your right side, | 右侧的细头， |
| [46:33] | the thicker end on your left side. | 左侧较粗的一端。 |
| [46:35] | Make the left side longer. | 使左侧更长。 |
| [46:37] | About three or four inches down | 大约下三四英寸 |
| [46:38] | is where you’re going to cross the thinner end. | 是您将越过薄弱环节的地方。 |
| [46:41] | With the thicker end, you’re gonna spin it around, | 末端较粗，您会旋转它， |
| [46:44] | and then feed it over. | 然后喂它。 |
| [46:46] | Tuck it through the loop, | 将其塞入循环中 |
| [46:48] | and pull. | 拉。 |
| [46:49] | Then, simply pull the thinner end up, | 然后，只需将较薄的一端拉出， |
| [46:52] | bring your collar down for one final adjustment, | 降低领子以进行最后的调整， |
| [46:55] | and that is how you tie a simple knot. | 这就是你打一个简单的结的方式。 |