The Pickup Game(搭讪游戏)[2019]电影台词本阅读、下载和单词统计

电影名称：搭讪游戏
英文名称：The Pickup Game
年代：2019

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时间	英文	中文
[00:15]		总监 大红
[00:21]	Thanks, guys.	谢谢各位
[00:22]	Have a seat, make yourself comfortable.	大家请坐 随意些 别拘束
[00:24]	Today, I’m gonna teach you, I’m gonna talk about,	今天 我会教你们 我会给你们讲讲
[00:28]	and I’m gonna share some experiences with you,	我要和你们分享一些经验
[00:31]	about everything you need to know about game.	你们所需要知道的关于游戏的一切
[00:35]	Okay. So after this, you’ll be able to approach women,	在这之后 你就能接近女人
[00:38]	talk to girls, have a great conversation,	和年轻女孩们交谈 愉快地交谈
[00:40]	end up having sex with them.	最后和她们做爱
[00:42]	You’re gonna have all that knowledge after today.	今天你将会学到所有这些知识
[00:45]	What’s your name?	你叫什么名字
[00:46]	Do you remember mine?	你记得我的名字吗
[00:47]	Yes, Maximilian.	对 马克西米利安
[00:49]	I know this is totally random but	我知道这完全是缘分
[00:50]	I was going over there, right?	我本来要去那的 好吧
[00:51]	I saw you walking with the shake.	但我看你拿着奶昔走在路上
[00:52]	You have this very kind of artsy vibe.	你浑身散发着一种艺术气息
[00:54]	I’m sorry, I’m Justin, sorry to be rude.	抱歉 我是贾斯汀 不好意思失礼了
[00:57]	Playing it safe is something a bad-ass motherfucker	王八蛋才不知道
[00:59]	does not know, okay?	要小心谨慎 好吗
[01:00]	Fuck playing it safe.	要他妈小心谨慎
[01:02]	I’m gonna fuck this girl or I burn it to the ground.	我要跟这女孩上床 不然我就把她彻底摧毁
[01:05]	Wait with me two seconds.	等我两秒
[01:09]	You’re scary.	你太可怕了
[01:10]	You’re crazy, you know you’re crazy, right?	你疯了 你知道你疯了 对吧
[01:12]	A lot of men have gone through a lot of pain barriers	很多男人都经历了许多痛苦的障碍
[01:16]	to hire someone like us	才雇到像我们这样的人
[01:18]	and to put their life in our hands.	并把他们的生命交到我们手中
[01:21]	You’re just using me.	你只是在利用我
[01:23]	I’m using you for what?	我利用你干吗
[01:25]	I don’t know, for company or something.	我不知道 陪伴慰藉什么的
[01:27]	So, here’s the thing	事情是这样的
[01:28]	For a business venture.	为了商业投资
[01:30]	No, no, hold on, hold on.	不 不是 等等 等等
[01:31]	It’s a system.	这是个系统
[01:31]	If other guys can make it work, it’s down to you.	如果其他人能成功 你也可以
[01:34]	Remember, she’s got her system.	记住 她有她的一套
[01:36]	It’s called lots of fucking makeup, push-up bras, lipstick.	就是一大堆该死的化妆品 聚拢胸罩 口红
[01:39]	All the things that enhance what she is not.	所有这些都能改善她的缺憾
[01:42]	Most people don’t even know what pickup is.	大多数人甚至不知道搭讪是什么
[01:43]	Most people don’t even know that there is an industry.	大多数人甚至不知道这是个行业
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[01:46]	But actually, this is a multi-million dollar industry	但事实是 这已是一个价值数百万美元的
[01:50]	that’s global, that has entire communities online.	全球化的行业 有着一整个线上的群体
[01:54]	And it’s a world that’s hidden from women.	这也是一个对女性隐藏着的世界
[01:58]	If people call this manipulation,	如果人们称之为操纵
[01:59]	then I just say,	那我只能说
[02:01]	okay.	没错
[02:05]	Which hotel?	去哪家酒店
[02:08]	Let’s go to my room.	去我房间吧
[02:18]	I understand that the idea that there’s a system	我了解有这样一套体系
[02:20]	when it comes to meeting a woman and attracting women,	能在结识和吸引女人方面起作用
[02:22]	that can just like,	那就像是
[02:23]	completely get a girl anytime,	能让你随时完全得到一个女孩
[02:26]	it’s a scary thing.	这是一件可怕的事情
[02:27]	And not only that, society could look at it in a bad way	不仅如此 社会虽以不好的眼光看待它
[02:30]	but guess what?	但你猜怎么样
[02:31]	We’re not the mainstream	我们不是主流
[02:32]	nor do we care to be the mainstream.	我们也不在乎成为主流
[02:35]	You know, I mean, the less people that know about it,	我意思是 知道它的人越少
[02:37]	the better it is, right?	就越好 不是吗
[02:40]	I don’t like the thought that a girl can be tricked	我一点也不喜欢这种想法
[02:42]	and manipulated into bed, at all.	去欺骗女孩 操纵女孩上床
[02:45]	But the evidence is there, that actually,	但确有事实证明
[02:49]	they can be.	她们会被这样
[02:51]	This is all earned.	这都是靠我自己得来的
[02:53]	Okay, I spent a lotta time and a lotta sweat and tears	我花了大量时间 很多汗水和眼泪
[02:56]	figuring out how to do this.	才弄清楚其中的奥义
[03:04]	No, it’s okay.	不用 没事
[03:06]	This idea that if you learn this programming,	如果学了这种课程
[03:08]	you can get this girl to react in this certain way,	你就能让女孩做出某些这样的反应
[03:11]	is horrifying.	这种想法太可怕了
[03:17]	Most men have this inner desire	大多数男人都有
[03:18]	to want to sleep with women or have sex with women.	想和女人睡觉或发生性关系的内在欲望
[03:21]	So, when they read things like,	所以 当他们读到像这样的话
[03:23]	“You would have a girl begging to suck your dick.”	“你会有个女孩乞求着吮吸你的鸡巴”
[03:25]	Whilst they might logically think to themself	而他们可能只会在逻辑上思索
[03:28]	that they would not like to associate themselves with that.	但并不愿意把自己和那个联系在一起
[03:30]	Deep down, that appeals to most guys.	这对大多数男人内心深处都极具有吸引力
[03:33]	And that’s what gets them to buy pickup products.	这便是促使他们购买搭讪产品的原因
[03:35]	And if you didn’t get them to buy pickup products,	如果你没法让他们购买搭讪产品
[03:38]	you don’t have pickup companies making $100 million a year.	你就没有一年能赚1亿美元的搭讪公司
[04:11]	You guys are all ready?	你们都准备好了吗
[04:12]	Okay, why don’t you go ahead, Tracy?	好 你继续吧 特蕾西
[04:14]	Please describe to me briefly how you’re self-employed.	请简要描述一下你是如何自主创业的
[04:18]	Well, I started out,	我先说
[04:21]	I have my own cleaning service	我有自己的清洁服务公司
[04:24]	and I’ve been in it for about three years.	我已经在这个行业已经干了三年了
[04:27]	For most men dating is a form of gambling.	对大多数男人来说 约会是一种赌博
[04:31]	They’re rolling the dice hoping that they’re gonna get lucky.	他们掷骰子以求走运
[04:34]	If you were getting on an airplane	如果你在飞机上
[04:36]	and stuck your head in the cockpit and said to the pilot,	把头伸进驾驶舱对飞行员说
[04:39]	“How are you gonna make sure we get to Dubai?”	“你怎么保证我们能到达迪拜?”
[04:42]	And he quite seriously said,	他很严肃地说
[04:44]	“I don’t know, maybe we’ll get lucky,”	“我不知道 也许我们会走运”
[04:45]	and he meant it, you’d get the fuck off the plane.	但他真正意思是 你他妈的给我滚
[04:48]	Correct?	对吗
[04:49]	How many of you have ever even had a woman,	你们中有多少人曾有过一个
[04:51]	you just didn’t care and she liked you?	你根本不在乎她却喜欢你的女人
[04:52]	Raise your hand.	有就举手
[04:54]	Now, how many women have you ever had a real crush on them	现在 你曾有多少个真正迷恋过的女人
[04:56]	and no matter what you did, they just didn’t like you?	但不管你怎么做 她们就是不喜欢你
[04:59]	Why?	为什么
[05:00]	There’s a reason for it and it’s got to do with energy.	这是有原因的 这与你的能量有关
[05:02]	Talking to women was one of my biggest fears in life.	和女人交谈是我一生中最害怕的事情之一
[05:06]	Before I couldn’t even go up to an old lady	以前我甚至不能靠近一个老太太
[05:09]	and ask her for directions.	向她问路
[05:11]	And I find out, oh, hey, there’s this whole community	然后我发现 还有这样一群人
[05:14]	actually trying to get better with women	和我有同样的问题
[05:16]	that have my same problem.	都在努力地和女性搞好关系
[05:18]	When I first started teaching, I had no idea	当我刚开始教学的时候 我完全不知道
[05:20]	that when a guy came to talk to you in a bar,	一个男人来酒吧跟你搭讪时
[05:23]	that had taken courage to come to do that.	他需要鼓起多么大的勇气
[05:25]	It wasn’t uncommon to meet someone who was sort of 25	我经常遇到差不多25岁了
[05:27]	and had never been with a girl.	还从未和女孩在一起过的人
[05:29]	And I’d think, wouldn’t it be nice	我想 如果每个人都有信心
[05:30]	if everybody had the confidence,	当他们恰好还是单身时
[05:32]	if they see someone attractive, and you’re single,	看到一个有魅力的人 能径直过去搭讪
[05:35]	to go over and start a conversation?	这样不是很好吗
[05:39]	I wanted to help guys have the confidence to talk to girls.	我想帮助男生塑造信心去和女生交谈
[05:46]	But then when you start teaching	但当你开始教学时
[05:49]	you see this other side of it.	你就会看到它的另一面
[05:51]	There’s a dark side.	黑暗的一面
[05:53]	There really is.	真的如此
[05:55]	I don’t think that a lot of people understand	我认为很多人都不知道
[05:58]	that there is this real subculture,	这种真实的亚文化的存在
[06:00]	and what their teachings are, and what the beliefs are.	以及他们的教义是什么 信仰是什么
[06:03]	When she tells me, “I have a boyfriend,” right?	当她告诉我”我有男朋友”的时候
[06:06]	Still fucking dead in her face, you know, I don’t give a shit.	仍然要牢牢地盯着她 我才不在乎
[06:09]	I, I ignore that, push it over there,	我 我会忽略这句话 把它放到一边
[06:13]	let’s get back to the conversation.	让我们继续谈下去
[06:19]	I do it in the Rec Center.	我是在健身中心做
[06:21]	Charming a girl in 60 seconds.	在60秒内让一个女孩迷上你
[06:22]	That became my hallmark.	那成了我的标志
[06:24]	Literally in a session I would get like, 30 numbers	每次课程过后我都会收到30个
[06:27]	from very attractive women.	漂亮女人的电话号码
[06:32]	Afterwards I coached.	后来我执教
[06:33]	Sleeping with a woman is stacking many subtle behaviors	和女人上床会把许多微妙的行为
[06:36]	end to end.	从头到尾叠加在一起
[06:37]	They would pay me $1,000	他们会付我1000美元
[06:39]	and at the end $2,000 for an afternoon.	最后一个下午付2000美元
[06:40]	And then we’d go out and some of them were like,	然后我们出去实践 他们之中有些人会说
[06:43]	“What the fuck?”	“搞什么鬼”
[06:44]	I mean, because I was a machine.	我是说 因为我是一台机器
[06:46]	A lot of confidence, and alpha male behavior	需要非常自信 还有阿尔法男性的行为
[06:50]	and proactivity is knowing that it’s my right	主动就是知道我有权
[06:54]	to go after this girl.	去追这个女孩
[06:56]	There was no emotional register.	我不是情感记录者
[06:58]	I was an executor.	我是个处刑者
[06:59]	There were hundreds of women.	这里记录了上百个女人
[07:02]	I would sometimes have three dates a night.	有时一晚上我有三次约会
[07:05]	I mean, it was like full on man.	我意思是 那对于男人而言很忙碌
[07:09]	Now, I’m settled down and married.	现在 我已经安定下来并结婚了
[07:11]	I closed that chapter of my life	我关上了生命里的那一章
[07:13]	and then you guys showed up with all your equipment	然后你们带着你们这些设备出现了
[07:15]	wanting to like, pry that open.	想要把它重新撬开
[07:16]	I feel like a war criminal and you’re some nosy journalist	我觉得自己像个战犯 而你
[07:19]	who’s coming wanting to expose me.	是个好管闲事的记者 想要揭发我
[07:25]	It still really surprises me how many people	但确实让我很惊讶
[07:28]	have absolutely no idea this industry even exists.	还有这么多人完全不知道这个行业的存在
[07:32]	I don’t know how it’s managed to stay so underground.	我不知道它是如何保持隐秘的
[07:36]	We’re talking about a multi-million dollar industry	我们说的是一个价值数百万美元的行业
[07:40]	that’s all over the world	它遍布世界各地
[07:41]	with loads and loads of people teaching.	有很多人讲课
[07:44]	And loads and loads of students.	有很多学生学习
[07:46]	Entire online communities of people.	拥有着一整个线上群体
[07:49]	I guess, because there’s not really an incentive	我猜 是因为没有真正的动机
[07:52]	for it to come out.	能让它光明正大地出现
[07:54]	But it all started back in the ’80s	但这一切都要追溯到80年代
[07:56]	with just this one guy.	当时有这样一个人
[08:04]	Meet Ross Jeffries.	这是罗斯·杰弗里斯
[08:06]	Ross teaches other men how to get women into bed.	罗斯要教其他男人如何哄女人上床
[08:14]	I was a very, very, I would say,	那是我是个非常 非常
[08:17]	ungainly teenager and young man.	可以说是笨拙的年轻男人
[08:20]	I was 6’2 and weighed 127 pounds.	我身高188厘米 体重127磅
[08:23]	I was emaciated and very low self-esteem,	我瘦骨嶙峋 很自卑
[08:26]	and couldn’t get a girlfriend.	找不到女朋友
[08:27]	I was always the guy who was the big brother,	我总是扮演大哥哥
[08:29]	or the best friend.	或最好的朋友之类的角色
[08:31]	I actually used to keep a scrapbook of the rejection notes.	我过去经常做记录自己被拒绝的剪贴簿
[08:35]	And, it was very painful.	那样做很痛苦
[08:36]	I remember	我记得是
[08:37]	walking on Bruin Walk at UCLA	在加州大学洛杉矶分校的布鲁恩步道散步
[08:39]	after like, the fifth or sixth date cancellation	在第五次还是第六次约会取消后
[08:43]	and yelling, when am I gonna solve this?	我大喊 我什么时候能解决这个问题
[08:45]	Then around 1987	而后在1987年左右
[08:47]	I stumbled on my first NLP book.	我无意中发现了我人生里的第一本NLP书
[08:51]	Today I wanna talk about	今天我想谈谈关于
[08:52]	Neuro Linguistic Programming or NLP as conversational hypnosis.	神经语言程序学或者理解为对话催眠
[08:58]	Some of the ways that we use hypnosis in NLP	以及运用在NLP中的一些催眠技巧
[09:01]	include anchoring.	包括心锚
[09:03]	Anchoring is an NLP technique	心锚是一种NLP技巧
[09:05]	you can use to anchor a person to you	你可以锚定某个人
[09:07]	to believe that you have certain attributes.	使他相信你有某些特性
[09:10]	Motivated, for example.	比如 上进
[09:11]	Honest, loving, or powerful.	诚实 有爱心 强大
[09:15]	We can anchor people to have rapport with us.	我们可以锚定人们与我们保持融洽的关系
[09:18]	There are all sorts of uses for anchors.	心锚有各种各样的用途
[09:20]	Now, my understanding	现在 我认为
[09:22]	is that you’re not going to use this technology	你不能在任何不应该使用的地方
[09:24]	for anything that you shouldn’t.	使用这项技巧
[09:28]	I thought, ah, this is good stuff.	我以为 这是个好东西
[09:30]	I can use this to get over my own shyness.	我可以用这个来克服我自己的害羞
[09:32]	My own difficulty.	我的个人困难
[09:35]	And there’s also some techniques there	这里还有一些技巧
[09:37]	for influence and persuasion.	利于影响和说服的技巧
[09:39]	But no one had ever applied it towards seduction.	但从来没人把它用于诱惑
[09:42]	I thought, I’m gonna be the person who did it.	我想 我就是做这件事的那个人
[09:43]	Ross, what do women really want?	罗斯 女人真正想要什么
[09:46]	I don’t care what they want.	我不在乎她们要什么
[09:48]	I only care what they respond to.	我只关心她们的反应
[09:50]	There’s what women say they want,	女人会说出她们想要的是什么
[09:51]	there’s what women think they want,	女人也会思考她们想要的是什么
[09:53]	and then there’s what they actually respond to.	也有她们真正会回应的
[09:55]	I’m interested in what works on the street	我感兴趣的是 当约会和配对的时候
[09:58]	when it’s time to date and mate.	什么能在现实生活中起作用
[10:00]	And what women actually respond to	而且 女人真正会回应的
[10:02]	is not what they say they want.	并不是她们说的她们想要的那些
[10:03]	So, what do they respond to?	所以 她们会对什么有回应呢
[10:04]	They really respond to a guy who’s a challenge.	她们会对一个具有挑战性的男性做出回应
[10:07]	A guy that’s a question mark, a guy who keeps them guessing.	一个带着问号的人 一个她们猜不透的人
[10:13]	In 1988 I self-published a book called,	1988年 我自己出版了一本书 叫
[10:15]	“How To Get The Women You Desire Into Bed.”	《如何和你渴望的女人上床》
[10:17]	It got me on all sorts of talk shows.	它让我上了各种脱口秀节目
[10:21]	It’s the subtitle that really got people.	它的副标题吸引了大家
[10:23]	“A Down And Dirty Guide To Dating And Seduction”	“一部关于约会和诱惑的下流指南”
[10:25]	“For The Man Who’s Fed Up With Being Mr. Nice Guy.”	“献给那些已经厌倦了做好人的男人”
[10:29]	It talked about how to use self-hypnosis	它讲的是如何使用自我催眠
[10:31]	and how to use hypnotic techniques to get women all excited.	以及如何使用催眠技巧让女性兴奋起来
[10:36]	I’m talking for the little guy out there	我是在为那些弱势的伙计们说话
[10:38]	who gets his head kicked in and always winds up	他们经常被一脚踢开
[10:41]	being the buddy, the big brother and hears,	最后都变成了好伙伴 老大哥 聆听者
[10:43]	“Let’s be friends.”	“让我们做朋友吧”
[10:44]	You want a friend, lady?	女士 你想要个朋友吗
[10:45]	Get a dog.	养条狗吧
[10:46]	And here’s the thing.	事实就是这样的
[10:49]	Ross.	罗斯
[10:49]	I think you’re gonna end up a very lonely man.	我想你会孤独终老的
[10:57]	When I started this, there were no cellphones.	当我开始做这个的时候 还没有手机
[10:59]	There was no Twitter, no internet.	没有推特 也没有网络
[11:01]	No Facebook.	没有脸书
[11:03]	Tapes, we had cassette tapes.	只有磁带 我们有盒式磁带
[11:05]	There was no digital nothing.	没有数字化的东西
[11:07]	Our “Speed Seduction” catalog was literally mailed to you.	我们的 “加速诱惑” 目录是邮寄给你的
[11:11]	We mailed it.	我们邮寄它
[11:13]	We got on the internet in 1991.	我们在1991年进入网络
[11:15]	Then I got seduction.Com in 1994.	我在1994年建立了诱惑网
[11:19]	Back then they had one search engine.	那时他们只有一个搜索引擎
[11:21]	You pretty much had to know the URL	你必须得知道
[11:24]	of the site you wanted to go to.	你想去的网站的URL
[11:35]	I was 19 when I got into it.	我19岁的时候进入了这个网站
[11:38]	I was sitting in a pub called	我当时坐在一个酒吧
[11:39]	The Round Table in Leicester Square,	这个酒吧叫做莱斯特广场的圆桌
[11:41]	and a friend said to me,	一个朋友和我说
[11:43]	“Hey, you should read Ross Jeffries newsletters.”	“你得读读罗斯·杰弗里斯的简报”
[11:45]	And then later on he gave me the cassette to listen to.	后来他给了我磁带让我听
[11:49]	My only idea of how to meet people	对于如何认识别人 我唯一的想法就是
[11:52]	would be go to loud, horrible clubs	去嘈杂的乱糟糟的俱乐部
[11:56]	and try to dance near people and hope they notice me.	试着靠近人们跳舞 希望他们能注意到我
[12:00]	And, yeah, as we all know,	确实 我们都知道
[12:02]	that doesn’t really work that well.	这并不是很有效
[12:16]	My name is Erik Von Markovik,	我叫埃里克·冯·马克奥维克
[12:18]	commonly known to the world as Mystery.	在这个圈子大家叫我神秘人
[12:21]	And we’re gonna do a little experiment.	我们要做个小实验
[12:24]	Hey Siri,	嘿 Siri
[12:25]	show me a picture of a pickup artist.	给我看张搭讪艺术家的照片
[12:28]	Here are some images of a pickup artist	这里是一些搭讪艺术家的照片
[12:30]	I found on the web.	我在网络上找到的
[12:32]	They’re all of me.	这些都是我
[12:35]	There’s one.	这有一张
[12:40]	There was something called newsgroups.	有一种叫新闻组的东西
[12:43]	And Ross had created his own newsgroup	罗斯建立了属于他自己的新闻组
[12:45]	called alt.Seduction.Fast.	叫做快速诱惑小组
[12:48]	This is before Facebook groups.	这是在脸书群组之前
[12:50]	Fast Seduction was his company name	快速诱惑是他的公司的名字
[12:53]	and there were about 40 members.	那时有大概40个会员
[12:57]	When I first got online and found about newsgroups	当我第一次上网发现新闻组的时候
[12:59]	I stumbled upon alt.Seduction.Fast.	我无意中发现了快速诱惑小组
[13:02]	It was a niche, and I found that fascinating.	这很小众 我发现它很吸引人
[13:05]	Finding out that there was small burgeoning community,	发现有小型的新兴社区
[13:08]	and I started growing it.	我开始壮大这个社区
[13:09]	I started responding to questions that I had answers to.	我开始回复那些我能回答的问题
[13:16]	I had learnt by myself and gotten a few girls in my life	我靠自学 在过去的几年里
[13:19]	over the course of a few years,	交到了几个女朋友
[13:21]	performing magic in night clubs.	在夜店展示自己的魅力
[13:23]	I was actually paid to be there,	是夜店雇我去的
[13:25]	to be a point of interest, right?	为了增加亮点 对吧
[13:28]	I taught other guys up in Toronto that which I know,	我还在多伦多教其他认识的人
[13:31]	specifically tactics and strategies	特别教策略和技巧
[13:34]	and I did it for shits and giggles.	我这样做是为了逗乐
[13:37]	That’s mid-air appearance.	这就是硬币扔到半空中的样子
[13:39]	That’s all I’m saying.	这就是我要说的
[13:40]	There’s something to that.	这是有道理的
[14:00]	The old days of discovering pickup material	我以前找到搭讪相关材料的时候
[14:02]	were just like coming across this secret treasure	就像偶然发现了个秘密宝藏
[14:05]	that no one else knew about.	别人都不知道它
[14:08]	You would think, “Wow, I just learned this secret language.”	你可能会想”我刚学了门神秘的语言”
[14:11]	“I have this special superpower now	“我现在有这种特殊的超能力了”
[14:14]	“that none of my friends have.”	“我的朋友都没有”
[14:16]	I noticed I was more arrogant with women.	我注意到我对女人更加傲慢
[14:18]	I wasn’t afraid to talk to them.	我不怕和他们说话
[14:20]	That was a big thing for me.	这对我来说是个大进步
[14:22]	And, I was no longer intimidated by other men,	我不再被其他男人吓倒
[14:24]	because I felt I had a superpower, in a way.	因为我觉得自己在某些方面有超能力
[14:29]	At least that’s what it was like at the beginning.	至少一开始是这样的
[14:38]	I was up in Toronto and I’d wanted to live in Hollywood.	我那时在多伦多 我想住在好莱坞
[14:40]	So, I created Project Hollywood.	所以 我创建了好莱坞计划
[14:42]	That’s a nice town, filled with beautiful women.	那是个漂亮的城镇 到处都是美女
[14:45]	I wanted to meet them.	我想认识她们
[14:47]	I had some Hollywood aspirations that I wanted to pursue.	我有一些想要追求的好莱坞梦想
[15:03]	Project Hollywood was a collaboration.	好莱坞计划是一个合作项目
[15:06]	I wanted to live in a nice, big place	我想住在一个又大又好的房子
[15:07]	and I wanted to share it with others.	我也想和别人一起住
[15:09]	And so, we had five guys all move in together.	所以 我们五个人一起住了进来
[15:15]	Everyone that lived in that house was a pickup artist.	住在那房子里的每个人都是搭讪艺术家
[15:19]	We had Papa, we had Owen, also known as Tyler Durden,	我们有帕帕 有欧文 也被称为泰勒·德登
[15:23]	or just TD.	或者就是TD
[15:24]	Myself, Herbal T,	我自己 还有赫伯·T
[15:27]	and Neil Strauss, A.K.A. Style.	以及尼尔·施特劳斯 又被称为型男
[15:34]	Neil was a writer and went and done interviews	尼尔是个作家 曾经采访过
[15:36]	with Courtney Love and they got on very well.	科特妮·洛芙 他们交谈的很好
[15:39]	So, she was invited to stay with us.	所以 我们邀请她和我们住在一起
[15:42]	We had a rockstar secretly living in our house	有个摇滚明星偷偷住在我们家里
[15:45]	surrounded by pickup artists.	周围都是搭讪艺术家
[16:00]	We lived just two minutes from Sunset Boulevard.	我们住的地方离日落大道只有两分钟
[16:03]	It’s the Hollywood dream.	这里是好莱坞的梦幻之地
[16:04]	Beautiful house right by all the night clubs, restaurants,	这座漂亮的房子就在所有夜店 餐馆旁
[16:07]	lots of social environments	有很多社交的地方
[16:09]	with which to interact with people.	能和别人打交道
[16:11]	Project Hollywood became the focus of the pickup world.	好莱坞计划成了搭讪世界的焦点
[16:14]	Everybody who was into pickup followed it.	喜欢搭讪的人都关注它
[16:17]	You had this whole online forum of thousands and thousands,	这个在线论坛有成千上万的人
[16:21]	all following what these guys were doing in Hollywood	关注着这些人在好莱坞做了些什么
[16:23]	and then doing the same thing in their own towns or cities	然后在他们自己的城镇做同样的事
[16:26]	and sharing their experiences.	分享他们的经历
[16:28]	It was essentially a laboratory for guys to go out	它本质上是一个让大伙走出去的实验室
[16:30]	and try different tactics and techniques.	尝试不同的策略和技术
[16:32]	If you went out and tried something,	如果你出去尝试了一些
[16:34]	you would write a field report with the details.	你要写一份详细的实地报告
[16:37]	And then, if you got laid,	然后 如果你上床了
[16:38]	you’d write what they called a Lay Report.	你要写一份所谓的上床报告
[16:43]	They invited me to be in that house.	他们邀请我去那所房子
[16:44]	I said, I’m not gonna live in a frat house.	我说 我不会住在像兄弟会的房子里
[16:46]	I’m not a college boy.	我不是个大学生
[16:47]	They stayed out to all hours of the night,	他们整夜呆在外面
[16:49]	they lived a drunken lifestyle,	他们过着醉醺醺的生活
[16:52]	they were living like bums.	像流浪汉一样的生活
[16:59]	I always loved living in a theatrical family,	我一直喜欢住在一个戏剧型的家庭
[17:02]	creating an extended family with friends.	与朋友建立一个大家庭
[17:05]	Project Hollywood worked for the longest time.	好莱坞计划运作时间最长
[17:09]	At least up until a point where	最后结束是因为一件事
[17:11]	a roommate of mine, Herbal T,	我的一个室友 赫伯·T
[17:13]	ended up having sex with a girlfriend of mine	到头来和我的女朋友上床了
[17:17]	that we had just broken up that day.	那天我们刚刚分手
[17:21]	I heard it.	我都听见了
[17:22]	It was a room near the kitchen.	他们在一个靠近厨房的房间
[17:25]	It really affected me emotionally,	这件事真的在情感上影响了我
[17:27]	and I’ve never felt jealousy with that much weight.	我从来没有那样的嫉妒过
[17:31]	I didn’t have tools to handle that.	我没有办法来处理这个
[17:33]	I was talking about suicide.	我指的是自杀
[17:35]	Neil took that seriously, as he would as a good friend,	尼尔对此很认真 他一直是个好朋友
[17:37]	and he took me to a hospital.	他带我去了医院
[17:43]	He wrote about that.	他写了这方面的内容
[17:45]	That very thing.	就是这件事
[17:46]	But I remember all of it, yeah.	但我记得所有的一切
[17:52]	It’s interesting, really, because you’ve got	这真的很有趣 因为有一个
[17:54]	an underground industry and then you’ve got	这样的地下产业 还有个
[17:56]	an undercover journalist exposing this industry.	一个揭露这个行业的卧底记者
[18:08]	When Neil wrote The Game, he knew.	当尼尔写《猎艳游戏》的时候 他很清楚
[18:10]	When he was living among those guys,	当他和那些人生活在一起时
[18:12]	he was secretly writing about them	他偷偷地把他们的事情写下来
[18:13]	all the while pretending to be their friends.	还一直假装是他们的朋友
[18:16]	It’s a very sociopathic thing to do, isn’t it?	这是一件非常反社会的事情 不是吗
[18:19]	We’re going to do a topic	我们要做个专题
[18:19]		苏珊·麦克德 主持
[18:19]		安德莉亚·韦斯利 副主持
[18:20]	that Andrea wants to discuss today	安德莉亚今天想讨论一下这个话题
[18:21]	’cause she found this very interesting book.	因为她发现了这本非常有趣的书
[18:24]	It’s called “The Game” by Neil Strauss.	尼尔·施特劳斯的《猎艳游戏》
[18:26]	This is a man’s bible, right?	这简直是男人的圣经 对吧
[18:27]	It’s got gold pages and it’s even got	它有金页 甚至还有
[18:29]	a ribbon bookmark here.	一个丝带书签
[18:31]	The subtitle is	书的副标题是
[18:32]	“Penetrating The Secret Society Of Pickup Artists.”	“渗透搭讪艺术家的秘密社会”
[18:34]	When the teachers at the time realized	当那时候的老师们意识到
[18:36]	that this was gonna be a book,	这会成为一本书的时候
[18:38]	they were quite nervous about the industry being exposed.	他们非常担心这个行业会被曝光
[18:40]	Disarm the obstacles.	“解除障碍”
[18:41]	– I wanna know what — Disarming the obstacles?	我想知道什么是”解除障碍”
[18:44]	This sounds like a frigging FBI tactical sorta thing.	听起来像是那种FBI的可怕战术
[18:47]	What’s this one?	这是什么
[18:48]	“Isolate the target.”	“隔离目标对象”
[18:50]	Like, give me a break.	不是吧
[18:52]	There is the target, I must disarm the obstacles.	目标已确认 我必须解除障碍
[18:56]	“The Game” was really the book that put pickup on the map.	《猎艳游戏》使搭讪广为人知
[18:59]	Before “The Game” came out,	在这本书出版之前
[19:00]	pickup companies were quite underground.	搭讪公司都非常隐秘
[19:02]	There were maybe three or four companies.	可能只有三四家公司
[19:05]	And, if you were outside the industry,	而且 如果你不在这个行业
[19:08]	you wouldn’t even know it existed.	你甚至不会知道这个行业的存在
[19:10]	In fact what “The Game” did was create this industry	实际上《猎艳游戏》是创造了这个
[19:13]	that just boomed.	刚刚繁荣起来的产业
[19:14]	And these people shot to fame	这些人一炮走红
[19:16]	and everybody wanted them to teach them.	每个人都想得到他们的教学
[19:17]	And I was like, this is gonna change everything.	我当时想 这会改变一切
[19:19]	Oh, no.	不
[19:21]	But it didn’t, it just opened up,	但事实并非如此 它只是打开了大门
[19:23]	people wanting to hire me.	很多人想雇用我
[19:30]	What’s up?	大家好
[19:31]	Bruce Wayne with Justin Wayne Dating.	我是贾斯汀·韦恩助你约会的布鲁斯·韦恩
[19:32]	What’s up?	大家好
[19:33]	It’s Justin Wayne, and I have another Q&A.	我是贾斯汀·韦恩 问答时间到
[19:35]	My name’s Shaun Michael.	我叫肖恩·迈克尔
[19:36]	For those that know me, A.K.A. Discovery.	认识我的朋友都知道 我又叫发现者
[19:38]	I’m Paul Janka, this is “Beyond The Digits.”	我是保罗·詹卡 这是”超越数字”
[19:42]	You had dozens of companies forming,	有几十家公司迅速成立
[19:44]	trying to capitalize on the popularity of that book.	想利用那本书的热度 从中捞一笔
[19:48]	Any company which had any association with pickup or “The Game,”	任何与搭讪或《猎艳游戏》有关系的公司
[19:52]	was successful.	都很成功
[19:53]	Are we all ready to settle in?	都准备好了吗
[19:55]	Where’s Beckster?	贝克斯特在哪
[19:56]	I’m here.	我在这
[19:59]	You’ve met, Danny.	你见过了 这位是丹尼
[20:00]	Yeah, oh yeah, I met ’em all.	是啊 我都见过
[20:02]	Okay, very good then.	好的 那很好
[20:04]	Take a seat guys.	大家坐下吧
[20:05]	Yep, let’s all settle in.	是啊 都坐下来
[20:08]	I created a company called Social Dynamics.	我创建了一家叫社会动力学的公司
[20:12]	And then, my lead coach, Tyler Durden, and Papa	然后 我的主导师泰勒·德登和帕帕
[20:16]	decided to take my mailing list,	决定拿走我的邮寄名单
[20:18]	find out who those people were,	找出那些人的信息
[20:20]	and without telling me, create their own sales letter.	在我不知情的情况下 他们写了销售邮件
[20:23]	And they sold to the very people	他们向在我客户清单上的人
[20:25]	that were on my customer list.	销售产品
[20:28]	And the company’s name was RSD, Real Social Dynamics.	他们的公司叫RSD 真实社会动力学
[20:32]	Mystery originally called his stuff Social Dynamics.	神秘人最初把他的公司起名为社会动力学
[20:34]	Tyler came along and with his partner, Papa,	后来泰勒和他的合伙人帕帕来了
[20:38]	created their own business, Real Social Dynamics.	创造了他们自己的公司 真实社会动力学
[20:41]	They stole it from right out from under him.	他们盗窃了他的想法 釜底抽薪
[20:42]	Jackasses.	混蛋们
[20:44]	Forgiven, it was a long time ago.	原谅我 那是很久以前的事了
[20:47]	They were studious, they were industrious.	他们很”勤奋刻苦”
[21:01]	Your speaker this evening	今晚的演讲者
[21:02]	comes from a faraway land in the middle of the alps.	来自遥远的阿尔卑斯山中部
[21:05]	The 5,000 person cow town he grew up in	他在一个5000人的养牛小镇长大
[21:07]	didn’t offer much opportunity,	那里没有什么机会
[21:10]	so he chose to get out, learn to become a man,	所以他选择走出去 学会做个男人
[21:13]	and master the skill of getting with women	掌握和女人相处的技巧
[21:16]	who some might call out of his league.	尤其是那些觉得你配不上她们的女人
[21:18]	Now, he’s touring the world,	现在 他正在环游世界
[21:20]	teaching thousands of men to get laid.	教成千上万的男人如何上床
[21:23]	If you want an amazing sex life,	如果你想要一个美妙的性生活
[21:26]	if you want to get your shit together and thrive,	如果你想让你的老二振作兴旺
[21:29]	then please give a warm applause and welcome RSD Maximilian!	那就请热烈鼓掌 欢迎RSD 马克西米利安
[21:48]	Thanks so much for this warm, very, very warm welcome.	非常感谢你们的热情欢迎
[21:50]	Thanks for so much for all of these familiar faces.	很感谢现场这些熟悉的面孔
[21:53]	Thanks a ton for all these new faces.	更加感谢很多的新面孔
[21:55]	Who would’ve thought, who would’ve thought?	谁会想到呢 谁会想到呢
[21:58]	Being good with girls is a skill just like any other skill.	与女孩好好相处的技能就和其他技能一样
[22:03]	If you say like,	如果你说
[22:03]	“Okay, I’m teaching guys how to get good with women.”	“我在教男人如何和女人相处融洽”
[22:06]	People are like, “Why do you have to put in some strategies now?”	人们会觉得”为什么这还得要有策略呢”
[22:09]	“That’s weird, I don’t like that, that’s creepy.”	“太奇怪了 我不喜欢那样 太诡异了”
[22:14]	I think Arnold Schwarzenegger said,	阿诺德·施瓦辛格曾经说过
[22:15]	“If everybody likes you, you’re doing something wrong.”	“如果所有人都喜欢你 那你就做错了”
[22:19]	You don’t wanna be liked by everybody,	你不想被所有人喜欢
[22:20]	you wanna be loved by a lot of people,	你想被很多人爱
[22:22]	and hated by a lot of people, you know what I mean?	也被很多人恨 你懂我的意思吗
[22:25]	Gentlemen, if you wanna switch your phones off now?	先生们 现在可以关掉你们的手机吗
[22:28]	I mean really properly off, and no recording.	我是说 完全关机 不能录音
[22:30]	Look, we have to take this gentlemen right here	听着 我们得把这位先生
[22:32]	and turn him into a master pickup artist.	变成一个大师级搭讪艺术家
[22:36]	And I’m gonna tell you the three biggest concerns from my point,	我会说出我最大的三个问题
[22:39]	and hands up if you agree with that.	如果你也是这样就举手
[22:40]	Number one, I’m afraid.	第一 我害怕
[22:41]		通常是因为他们认为
[22:41]		自己会被残忍或无礼地拒绝
[22:43]	Approach anxiety.	接触恐惧症
[22:44]	That’s what it’s called. AA, Approach Anxiety.	这就是它的专用名称 AA 接触恐惧症
[22:46]	You need to learn how to handle it	你需要学会如何应对
[22:48]	or you need to get rid of it.	或者你需要摆脱这种恐惧
[22:49]	I’m sure we can all relate to the hot girl walking by,	我确定我们都能和路过的辣妹搭上话
[22:52]	I’m stationary, and I’m thinking,	我站在那不动 我在想
[22:54]	“Second one, second two, second three.”	“一秒 两秒 三秒”
[22:56]	Obey the three second rule.	遵守三秒原则
[22:57]	You see the girl, three seconds, you must be approaching.	你看见一个女孩 三秒之内必须上前接近
[22:59]	You might not know what to say.	你可能不知道该说什么
[23:01]	Your stomach is eating your testicles	你的胃正在吞噬你的睾丸
[23:03]	for a bit of encouragement and nourishment,	来获得一点激励和营养
[23:05]	but at least you’re moving over.	但至少你要走过去
[23:07]	You need to go out to bars,	你得去酒吧
[23:09]	you need to go out to nightclubs,	去夜店
[23:10]	you need to go out to the grocery store and talk to women.	去杂货店 和女人交谈
[23:17]	Just have fun.	只是找点乐子
[23:18]	You see, the best way for me to really be myself	你看 让我真正活出自己的最好方式
[23:22]	is to do silly things and do things that make me have fun.	就是做一些傻事 做让我开心的事
[23:26]	And sometimes, you get rejected and that’s okay.	有时候 你会被拒绝 但没关系
[23:30]	Hi, how are you?	嗨 你好吗
[23:34]	And then you do silly stuff like that.	你做了像这样的傻事
[23:36]	You can re-approach too.	你也可以再次接近
[23:38]	Sorry for weirding you out.	很抱歉让你感到不适
[23:40]	That’s okay.	没关系
[23:42]	I’m Andrew, by the way.	顺便说一句 我是安德鲁
[23:44]	I promise I’m…	我发誓我
[23:48]	Where are you guys from?	你们是从哪里来的
[23:52]	Okay, okay, I’m not that annoying guy that always…	好吧 我不是那种烦人的家伙
[23:55]	I don’t know why I wanna talk to you.	我不知道我为什么想跟你说话
[23:57]	I think, I don’t know.	我想 我不知道
[24:00]	Oh okay, whatever.	好吧 算了
[24:01]	And then, if you re-approach and you suck anyways,	如果你再次接近 但还是搞砸了
[24:04]	it doesn’t matter.	也没关系
[24:06]	Who here has ever been rejected?	这里有谁被拒绝过
[24:08]	Say “I”.	说”我”
[24:09]	I.	我
[24:10]	Oh my God, so loud.	我的天 声音可真大
[24:12]	I actually have got a really unusual perspective on the industry.	其实 我对这个行业有着非同寻常的看法
[24:15]	Mostly, because I’m a girl.	主要因为我是个女孩
[24:17]	What drew me to be a part of this was the fascination of it.	吸引我参与其中的是这件事的魅力
[24:21]	I was fresh out of a psychology degree.	我刚从心理学专业毕业
[24:23]	I was really interested in human interaction and human behavior.	我对人与人之间的互动和行为很感兴趣
[24:27]	All of the guys teaching were really	这些讲课的男人们都只对
[24:29]	only interested in what works.	什么有效果感兴趣
[24:31]	I was more interested in why it worked.	而我对它们为什么有效果感兴趣
[24:34]	Why are men shit with women?	为什么女人不想和你在一起
[24:36]	One of the basic ones is ’cause you’re boring to listen to.	一个基本的原因就是 听你说话很无聊
[24:40]	But, you can work on it, it’s not about looks,	但是 你可以努力 这不是外表的问题
[24:43]	it’s about identity.	这是身份的问题
[24:45]	You create that, I guarantee you will have choice,	你创造身份之后 我保证你会有选择的
[24:50]	and that choice is very, very rewarding.	而那个选择会有很大的回报
[24:53]	A lot of the industry works,	这个行业就是这样运作的
[24:55]	and this is how the stuff in “The Game” works,	《猎艳游戏》也是这样教的
[24:57]	by creating a persona	通过创造一个典型人物
[25:00]	and teaching somebody how to be that person.	然后教别人如何成为那样的人
[25:04]	This is Max from Real Social Dynamics.	我是来自真实社会动力学的麦克斯
[25:05]	Today, I’m gonna talk to you about	今天 我要和你们聊聊
[25:07]	how to be a badass motherfucker.	如何成为一个牛逼的杂种
[25:14]	We’re going to be getting the girls chasing us.	我们要让女孩们追我们
[25:17]	In all our way of being we’ll be conveying to them	在我们的一切表现中 我们会向她们传达
[25:21]	that we’re accustomed to beauty, right?	我们习惯了美丽 对吧
[25:24]	So they’re gonna need a lot more that their looks alone	所以为了赢得我们 她们需要的
[25:25]	in order to win us over.	不仅仅是外表
[25:27]	‘Cause beauty is their financial value initially.	因为美丽是她们的经济价值
[25:30]	Do you see how I’ve instantly become the prize in that statement?	你知道我为什么一下子就成为了那种人吗
[25:33]	But it has a shelf life.	但美丽是有保质期的
[25:36]	From the age of 30 plus, it starts to depreciate.	从三十岁开始 美丽就会贬值
[25:39]	That’s the game plan.	这就是游戏计划
[25:41]	That’s the narrative for all pickups.	这是所有搭讪者们的故事
[25:43]	You need to choose the target.	你需要选择目标
[25:45]	But to get to the hot one, you gotta win over her friends.	但要得到辣妹 你必须赢得她朋友的芳心
[25:48]	Engage everyone in the group.	认识交际圈内的每个人
[25:50]	The little ugly one, the fat one, everyone gets engaged,	丑女 胖妞 你要接触每个人
[25:53]	’cause the hot one is used to getting more interest.	因为辣妹往往会对做出反常行为的男人
[25:55]	Do the opposite, it’s gonna confuse her, hold on.	更感兴趣 这会使她困惑
[25:57]	She’s gonna then want to interject a little bit more,	接下来她就会想插入你们的关系
[25:58]	then you get to tease and challenge.	然后你就可以挑逗和挑战了
[26:00]	It does work, I wish it didn’t.	确实有用 我希望它没用
[26:02]	It works because it’s not what girls are used to.	它有用是因为这不是女孩们习惯的方式
[26:06]	Lock-in within one to three minutes.	在一到三分钟内锁定套牢
[26:08]	I wanna lean back against a wall, or a table, or a bar,	我想靠在墙上 桌子或吧台上
[26:12]	looks like they’re gaming me	看起来像她们在争取我
[26:13]	as opposed to me being the guy leaning in.	而不是我在争取她们
[26:15]	Your lock-in was like this,	你刚刚的锁定套牢姿势是这样的
[26:17]	but it shoulda been like this.	但应该是这样的
[26:20]	Or better, if that’s your target, like this,	或者更好 如果这是你的目标 像这样
[26:23]	where they have to earn you turning	她们必须争取让你转过来
[26:24]	and showing more interest.	表现出更多的兴趣
[26:26]	It makes the girl realize that you’ve got high value.	这让女孩意识到你有很高的价值
[26:28]	It’s a high value of male behavior to do that.	这样体现了男性行为的高价值
[26:30]	80% of attraction is Demonstrating Higher Value.	80%的吸引力是展现更高的价值
[26:33]	That’s what DHVing is.	这就是DHV
[26:34]	The art of storytelling and bragging without bragging.	讲故事的艺术 夸大而不是吹嘘的艺术
[26:38]	When people hear the term pickup	当人们听到搭讪这个词
[26:40]	they often think about some sort of really smooth guy	他们经常会想到一些非常圆滑的男人
[26:42]	walking into a bar, delivering a one liner,	走进一家酒吧 说一句台词
[26:44]	but actually, it’s more of a process, really.	但实际上 这更像是一个过程 真的
[26:49]	You got Attraction, Comfort, and Seduction.	你有吸引力 舒适感 诱惑力
[26:56]	People say “Just be yourself and say whatever comes to mind.”	人们说”做你自己 想说什么就说什么”
[26:58]	If be yourself was working,	如果做你自己成功了
[27:00]	you wouldn’t fucking be here in the first place.	你就不会在这里了
[27:02]	There is a structure to solid pickup,	搭讪有一个固定的模式
[27:05]	a narrative arc from meeting a girl	从遇见一个女孩后的开始叙述
[27:07]	to beginning a sexual relationship.	到一段性关系的开始
[27:09]	That arc follows a series of phases.	这个过程遵循一系列的阶段
[27:13]	As complex as it might sound,	虽然听起来很复杂
[27:15]	this is what happens in normal courtship.	但这就是正常求爱的过程
[27:18]	Each phase has an objective,	每个阶段都有一个目标
[27:19]	I’m gonna name them now.	我现在就给它们命名
[27:21]	A1, open.	第一阶段 开场
[27:25]	I’ve gotta be able to open	我必须要能开始对话
[27:26]	and I’ve gotta be able to stimulate fast.	我必须快速激发这个过程
[27:28]	An opener is essentially a conversation starter.	开场白本质上是一段谈话的开始
[27:32]	Something silly like, “You look like a teacher.”	一些可笑的话像”你看起来像个老师”
[27:34]	But, that’s good enough to start a conversation.	但是 这足以开始一段对话
[27:41]	No. No, it’s Wass.	不 是沃斯牌的
[27:52]	-I’m Maximilian. -I’m Natalie,	– 我是马克西米利安 – 我是娜塔莉
[27:53]	-Nice to meet you, Maximilian. -Hi.	– 很高兴认识你 马克西米利安 – 嗨
[27:56]	We’ve got, what’s known as, the FTC,	我们在用叫做FTC的方式
[27:58]	False Time Constraint.	假性时间限制
[28:01]	If, for instance, I were to stand up and kick my chair in	比如说 如果我站起来把椅子踢回去
[28:04]	as if I was about to go, that’s a false time constraint.	好像我要走了 这就是一个假性时间限制
[28:06]	It’s not verbal,	这不是语言的
[28:07]	it’s a non-verbal false time constraint.	而是非语言的假性时间限制
[28:09]	I can only stay a second, I have my friends here.	我只能呆一会儿 我有朋友在这里
[28:10]	May I?	可以坐会吗
[28:12]	Ask for permission to sit down.	请求允许坐下
[28:15]	And I’m back, right?	我又回来了 对吧
[28:17]	It looks like I’m about to go and then I can come back,	看起来我要走了 然后我又回来了
[28:20]	and, “Oh, okay, get this.”	然后说”好吧 拿着这个”
[28:28]	Something you might say,	你可能会说
[28:30]	something that the pickup companies might teach you	搭讪公司可能会教给你的是
[28:32]	are these things called negs.	这些被称为否定的东西
[28:34]	Negs are negative comments or backhanded compliments	否定是负面评论或反讽
[28:37]	you might say to a girl, like —	你可能对一个女孩说 像这样
[28:45]	Like you could say, “Nice shoes.”	就像你可以说”鞋子不错”
[28:47]	And where do you go from there?	然后你接下来要怎么做
[28:48]	That’s the compliment.	这只是恭维
[28:49]	“Nice shoes.”	“鞋子不错”
[28:51]	“Thanks, my boyfriend bought them for me.”	“谢谢 我男朋友给我买的”
[28:52]	And she shuts you down.	她就让你闭嘴了
[29:08]	‘Cause when you first approach a girl,	因为当你第一次接近一个女孩时
[29:09]	you’re doing most of the talking.	大部分的时候都是你在说
[29:10]	Now, at some point, you really have to get it equalized	现在 某些时候 你必须要保持平衡
[29:14]	and get her to invest in you.	让她把心思放在你身上
[29:16]	Qualification is a tool you’re gonna use here.	资格获取是你在这里要用到的工具
[29:18]	I want to get her to try to prove herself	我想让她用不同的方式
[29:21]	worthy to me in different ways, okay?	证明自己对我有价值 好吗
[29:22]	Challenge her a little bit.	挑战一下她
[29:24]	That’s called qualifying.	这叫做获取资格
[29:25]	You get to reward her.	你得奖励她
[29:27]	Wow, you do that?	你真的这么做了吗
[29:28]	Check you.	看看你们自己
[29:29]	Guys that don’t do that are the guys who are not getting laid	谁不这么做谁就是不想上床
[29:32]	because they’re just trying to impress.	因为他们只是想给人留下深刻印象
[29:44]	Game works best on people with insecurities.	这个游戏对缺乏安全感的人最有效
[29:46]	It plays on insecurities.	它利用了不安全感
[29:49]	That’s why it works.	这就是它起作用的原因
[29:53]	It works on girls who are putting on an act themselves	它适用于那些表现得
[29:56]	of being more confident than they really are.	比实际更自信的女孩
[29:58]	When a guy cuts through that to her vulnerable self,	当一个男人利用这一点贯穿了她的脆弱
[30:03]	that’s where it works and the power shifts.	这样它就起作用了 主导权就会转移
[30:06]	You know when a women really knows that she wants you,	当一个女人真的知道她想要你的时候
[30:10]	when she recognizes that another women likes you too.	当她意识到另一个女人也喜欢你的时候
[30:13]	That’s called a jealousy plot line.	这叫做嫉妒情节线索
[30:15]	I used to leave a Gucci shoe	我曾经放了一只古驰鞋
[30:18]	an old spare Gucci shoe	一只旧的备用古驰鞋
[30:20]	at the door, and girls all said, “Whose is that?”	在门口 女孩们都说”那是谁的”
[30:22]	“I don’t know, some girl left it sometime.”	“我不知道 有个女孩什么时候把它忘了”
[30:24]		阶段2 舒适
[30:25]	Comfort is a natural phase.	舒适是自然发展的阶段
[30:27]	I’m not gonna go into loads of details.	我不想谈太多的细节
[30:29]	Build an emotional connection, then a physical.	建立一种情感上的联系 然后是身体上的
[30:31]	When you feel that emotional connection,	当你感受到这种情感联系时
[30:32]	that is the moment that kissing should occur.	那是接吻的时候
[30:35]	If you don’t do some sort of physical escalation then,	如果你不做一些身体上的亲密接触
[30:40]	you will pay the price later on.	以后你会付出代价的
[30:42]	ABC, always be closing.	ABC 一定要达成
[30:43]		积极追求某一特定的结果
[30:43]	What do I mean by closing though?	我说的达成是什么意思
[30:45]	What is a close?	什么是达成
[30:46]	It’s not just a number.	不仅仅是一个数字
[30:48]	It’s a future plan.	这是未来的计划
[30:50]	It’s bouncing to another bar.	虽然总是会面对阻碍
[30:53]	It’s many stages.	要面临很多阶段
[30:55]	But always have to be moving forward and closing.	但总要向前走 不断接近
[30:59]	Isolating, exactly.	孤立 没错
[31:01]	And the next phase is seduction.	下一个阶段是诱惑
[31:04]		阶段3 诱惑
[31:05]	S1 is called foreplay.	诱惑的第一阶段被称为前戏
[31:06]	Just the natural phases.	只是自然阶段
[31:09]	The next phase is LMR, Last Minute Resistance.	下一个阶段是LMR 最后一分钟的阻力
[31:12]	The point of no return before sex occurs.	做爱前的不归路
[31:12]		最后一分钟的阻力
[31:14]	This is that emotional wiring that says,	这是一种情感上的联系
[31:16]	“Oh fuck, if I fuck this guy, I might get pregnant,	“操 如果我跟这个人做 我可能会怀孕”
[31:19]	“I might get in trouble.”	“我可能会有麻烦”
[31:20]	It’s an emotional thing, it’s not rational.	这是情绪化的事情 不理智
[31:22]	She really wanted to fuck you,	她真的很想跟你做
[31:23]	but she’s gonna get that sting.	但她会被情绪刺痛
[31:24]	The worst thing you could do is be Mr. Over Reactive,	你能做的最糟糕的事是成为反应过度先生
[31:28]	Mr. “Okay No Worries,” and “I thought it was on,”	“好吧 不用担心”和”我以为是开着的”
[31:30]	and make it a big drama.	把事情弄得很复杂
[31:32]	Sometimes, they might just do it to see	有时候 她们这么做可能只是想看看
[31:35]	if your emotional circuitry is a bit mis-wired.	你的情绪系统是不是有点不对劲
[31:38]	You have to know the difference	你必须知道真实的反抗
[31:40]	between real resistance and unreal resistance,	和不真实的反抗之间的区别
[31:44]	A.K.A. Token resistance.	也就是 象征性抵抗
[31:46]	They might literally, “Oh, slow this down.”	她们可能真的在想”慢慢来”
[31:49]	“Yeah, it’s not big deal.”	“这没什么大不了的”
[31:50]	“Come on, tell me about yourself.”	“来吧 说说你自己”
[31:51]	Pull her in, create tension.	把她拉进来 制造张力
[31:54]	You grab her and then push her away gently,	你抓住她然后轻轻地把她推开
[31:56]	just being playful.	只是好玩而已
[31:57]	Build that sexual tension and then escalate again.	建立性张力 然后再次升级
[32:00]	Her logical mind has to give at least some objections	她的逻辑思维至少要提出一些反对意见
[32:04]	even though she’s really aroused already	尽管她已经很兴奋了
[32:06]	and she actually wants you to lead her.	她真的想让你来主导她
[32:09]	But expect that there is this last minute resistance.	但是 我们期待着最后一刻的阻力
[32:12]	If you have enough openers,	如果你有足够的开场白
[32:13]	you have enough false time constraints,	你有足够的假性时间限制
[32:15]	you have enough negs,	你有足够的否定
[32:16]	enough qualifier questions,	足够的资格问题
[32:19]	and you have enough comfort building material,	你有足够舒适的环境
[32:21]	you learn the structure, anybody can do this.	你学会了模式 任何人都能做到
[32:23]	Open, neg, qualify, move, comfort.	开场 否定 资格 移动 舒适
[32:27]	Boom.	嘭
[32:28]	Meet the objectives of each phase	达到每个阶段的目标
[32:30]	and you get the girl, that’s how that works, right?	你就得到了那个女孩 就是这样的 对吧
[32:36]	A lot of what these people are teaching you,	这些人教给你的很多东西
[32:37]	it’s almost like the rat brain experiments	就像老鼠的大脑实验
[32:40]	where if the rat goes down one pathway, you give it a treat,	如果老鼠走了一条路 给它奖励
[32:44]	if it goes down the other,	如果它走了另一条路
[32:45]	they give it a shock.	会给它电击
[32:45]	They’re treating women	他们在训练女人
[32:47]	as if they’re stimulus response machines,	好像她们是刺激反应机器
[32:49]	using reward and punishment.	使用奖惩来刺激她们
[32:51]	Oh, now I’m gonna neg her, now I’m gonna reward her.	现在我要否定她 现在我要奖励她
[32:54]	We’re going out with some friends for dinner now, good.	我们现在要和几个朋友出去吃晚饭 很好
[32:56]	So, they’re busy.	所以 他们很忙
[32:57]	This is how they think about people,	这就是他们对人的看法
[32:59]	as lab experiments.	就像实验室里的实验一样
[33:03]	Try to think outside the box.	试着跳出框框思考
[33:04]	Don’t just try to use this tactic or that tactic.	不要只想用这个或那个策略
[33:07]	Think, “Okay, what can I do to fuck this girl?”	想一想”我做什么能操到这个女孩”
[33:09]	“What can I do to learn?”	“我能做些什么来学习”
[33:10]	“What can I do to push the situation a little bit more?”	“我能做些什么来进一步推动情形的发展”
[33:12]	“What can I do to win over the whole club?”	“我做些什么能超过整个夜店里的其他人”
[33:16]	“What can I do to be fucking awesome?”	“我该怎么做才能很棒”
[33:18]	“What can I do to have fun?”	“我该怎么做才能玩得开心呢”
[33:19]	I was at university.	我当时在上大学
[33:22]	I had an interest in learning about women	我对如何了解女人 或者学会
[33:24]	or learning to be better with women,	如何更好地与女人相处很感兴趣
[33:26]	and I had this knowledge on what people did	我对人们在网上交易中的
[33:28]	in online businesses.	所作所为了如指掌
[33:30]	So, I had this idea that what if I contacted	因此 我有了个想法 我是不是可以联系
[33:33]	some pickup companies and in exchange for learning more	一些搭讪公司 用好处跟他们换取
[33:36]	about how to be better with women,	学习如何更好地与女人相处
[33:37]	I gave them some help with marketing.	我在营销方面给了他们一些帮助
[33:40]	With those first clients,	和第一批客户一起
[33:42]	it was like working with your heroes.	就像在和你崇拜的英雄们一起工作
[33:45]	I wanted to be like them,	我想和他们一样
[33:46]	I wanted to have that level of confidence.	我想要有那种程度的自信
[33:49]	I even changed the way I spoke	我甚至改变了说话的方式
[33:50]	to sound a bit more like them.	为了听起来更像他们
[33:53]	I was so grateful to be learning	我当时很感激能去学习到
[33:54]	about how to pick up women or just be better,	关于怎么搭讪女生或者让自己更好
[33:56]	even just get a girlfriend.	甚至是怎么找个女朋友
[33:58]	I thought, if I can learn from these guys how to do that,	我想 如果我能从这些人身上学到怎么做
[34:01]	it will all be worth it,	这一切都是值得的
[34:02]	and I will help them as much as they want.	我会尽他们所想的帮助他们的
[34:05]	Hey! Was geht ab?	大家好
[34:06]	This is Max from Real Social Dynamics	我是来自真实社会动力学的麦克斯
[34:08]	and today, we’re in Cologne, Germany.	今天 我们在德国科隆
[34:10]	In this video, I want to talk about the three easy steps	在这段视频中 我想谈谈三个简单的步骤
[34:13]	that you need to do in order to get from opening the girl,	你需要做的就是打开那个女孩的思想
[34:16]	all the way to engaging in sexual activities with the girl.	一直到和女生发生性关系
[34:20]	And first and foremost, most important point here,	首先 最重要的一点是
[34:22]	is comfort.	舒适
[34:24]	You have to be comfortable with yourself.	你必须对自己感到舒适
[34:29]	Figuring out how to get customers	想要在一个
[34:31]	in an industry that isn’t socially accepted	不被社会接受的行业里获得客户
[34:32]	is very difficult.	并非易事
[34:34]	You can’t just take out a magazine ad saying,	你不能只在杂志上登广告说
[34:36]	“Hey, let’s teach you how to pick up women.”	“我们来教你如何与女人搭讪”
[34:39]	Before, you had “The Game”,	以前 你有《猎艳游戏》
[34:40]	and lot of people found out about pickup through that.	很多人都是通过这本书学会搭讪的
[34:43]	Now, what tends to happen is someone will be	现在 人们倾向于
[34:45]	sitting at their computer watching some random YouTube video,	坐在电脑前观看油管的随机视频
[34:48]	and in the related videos,	在相关视频中
[34:50]	you’ll see a thumbnail which says,	你会看到一个缩略图 写着
[34:52]	“How to get a girl to like you?”	“如何让女生喜欢你”
[34:54]	And you will just click it	你肯定会点开看的
[34:55]	because, what guy isn’t interested in that?	因为 谁会对这类内容不感兴趣呢
[34:58]	And you’re then presented with this 20 minute speech	然后你会看到一个搭讪讲师的
[35:01]	by some pickup instructor,	20分钟演讲视频
[35:03]	and you watch it,	你看了之后
[35:04]	and you go, “This is interesting.”	觉得”很有意思”
[35:06]	And you click on another video, and it’s like,	然后你点击另一个视频 比如
[35:09]	“How to get laid.”	“怎么上床”
[35:10]	Every pickup seminar you went to	你参加的每一个搭讪研讨会
[35:12]	or every pickup company you saw online	或者在网上看到的每一家搭讪公司
[35:14]	would have infield videos of them actually	都会有将教学内容付诸实践的
[35:17]	using the stuff that they were teaching.	实战视频
[35:19]	And you would see them talking to women in nightclubs.	你会看到他们在夜店和女人聊天
[35:22]	I love you.	我爱你
[35:23]	You would see them kissing them,	你会看到他们和女生接吻
[35:24]	or taking them home, or even just flirting with them.	或者带女生回家 或者只是单纯地调情
[35:27]	And you would think like,	然后你就会想
[35:28]	“Wow, I want to be able to do that.”	“真希望自己也能这样”
[35:31]	And when you saw someone do that,	当你看到别人搭讪成功的时候
[35:32]	that was all the proof you needed that their stuff worked.	你就会相信搭讪技巧真的有效
[35:42]	All right, so, we’ve already had over 200 million views	好了 隐藏摄像头拍摄的搭讪视频
[35:44]	from recording what you call hidden camera pickup videos.	已经拥有了超过2亿的浏览量
[35:48]	You just press a simple button like this.	你只要按一下这个按钮
[35:51]	And the light comes on.	灯就亮了
[35:53]	You can see the light here.	你可以看到这里的光
[35:55]	And then, I put this across here.	然后 我把它戴上
[35:58]	And yeah, it’s actually recording right now.	是的 它其实现在就在录像
[36:01]	Hey guys, it’s Mystery.	小伙伴们 我是神秘人
[36:02]	And Beckster.	我是贝克斯特
[36:04]	And we are here to tell you about	我们在这里向你介绍
[36:04]	the Golden Ticket Pickup Artist event.	金奖券搭讪艺术家训练营活动
[36:07]	Three days, two nights, August 4th, 5th, and 6th.	三天两夜 8月4日 5日和6日
[36:11]	This bootcamp will kick you in the ass	这个训练营会让你大开眼界
[36:13]	and get you going, will get you started.	教你快速入门 勇敢实践
[36:16]	A bootcamp is where a student will pay	训练营的运作方式是
[36:19]	$1,000 to even $3,000 to spend	每个学生支付1000至3000美元
[36:22]	an allotted amount of time with a pickup instructor.	在指定时间内接受搭讪导师的指导
[36:25]		票券类型及付款信息 您可以选择通过贝宝 现金或比特币在活动平台上支付全款 订金 500美元留位费 后期将在票款中扣除 余款在活动前通过贝宝或比特币支付 订金恕不退还 研讨会票 1200美元 仅参加为期三天的研讨会内容 不含实战训练 校友票 2900美元 仅限已参加过训练营的客户 通用票 3500美元 在活动平台上全款付清 或支付500美元定金 并通过现金 比特币或贝宝支付3000美元尾款
[36:26]	The pickup instructor will typically take you infield,	搭讪导师通常会带你去实战
[36:29]	where they will instruct you to approach women.	在那里 他们会指导你接近女生
[36:31]	But, a bootcamp is essentially,	但是 训练营的本质是
[36:34]	you pay some money for two days with an instructor	你付一些钱 和导师一起呆两天
[36:37]	to learn how to pickup women.	学习如何搭讪女生
[36:40]	So, we’re gonna meet the boys now.	好了 我们现在就去和男生见面
[36:41]	I’m gonna take them infield, get them in set,	我要带他们去实战 帮他们分好组
[36:43]	get them warmed up, and then critique them,	让他们热情起来 然后点评他们的表现
[36:46]	and then the real game can start.	然后真正的比赛就可以开始了
[36:51]	All good?	一切顺利吗
[36:52]	Yeah, fuck yeah.	是的 是的
[36:53]	You look good.	你看起来不错
[36:54]	Hey man, you good?	嘿 伙计 你还好吗
[36:56]	– Of course, how are you? – Remember to smile.	-当然 你好吗 -记得微笑
[36:57]	Approaching anxiety is beating you now, just start walking.	你们肯定都坐立不安了 开始走过去吧
[37:00]	Walk, walk, walk with me, walk, walk.	走 走 跟我走 走 走
[37:03]	Put your hands on down.	把手放下
[37:04]	Walk, where are you gonna go?	走吧 你要去哪里
[37:05]	Pick a set.	选一个组
[37:06]	Come on.	来吧
[37:09]	Don’t be an excuse artist, be a pickup artist.	别当借口艺术家 当个搭讪艺术家
[37:11]	Two set coming.	两人一组 过来
[37:14]	Guys, open immediately.	各位 快点行动起来
[37:17]	Guys.	各位
[37:19]	Guys, open immediately.	各位 快点行动起来
[37:21]	Can I take a piss first?	我可以先上个厕所吗
[37:22]	– I’m absolutely bursting. – Yeah, yeah, of course.	-我快憋不住了 -是的 是的 当然
[37:24]	And then I will open.	然后我就行动
[37:37]	“You have the second best shoes I’ve seen today.”	“你的鞋是我今天看到的第二漂亮的”
[37:41]	And then say, “What are they, leopard?”	然后问”是什么 豹纹的吗”
[37:50]	“Who are your friends, are they cool?”	“哪些是你的朋友 她们人好吗”
[37:52]	is a good opener.	是一个很好的开场白
[37:53]	Go.	去吧
[37:55]	“Hey Eric, who are your friends, are they cool?”	“埃里克 哪些是你的朋友 他们人好吗”
[37:56]	Go, go, don’t think, don’t think.	去 去 别想太多 别想太多
[37:59]	You’re thinking, don’t think.	你在胡思乱想 别想太多
[38:01]	All right, you come with me.	好了 你跟我来
[38:06]	At the bar,	在吧台那边
[38:08]	say to her, “Don’t get me one, I can get my own.”	对她说”不用帮我买 我可以自己买”
[38:20]	Right outside, where that canopy is,	就在外面 天篷下面
[38:24]	that’s where a load of the boys have bounced two sets	那是很多男生合并组合的地方
[38:26]	two groups of women.	两组女生
[38:29]	Get your own group, merge it in.	召集和你聊得来的女生 把她们汇聚起来
[38:32]	Now we merge all three sets.	现在我们汇聚这三个组合
[38:34]	We start becoming the life of the party.	我们就成了今天派对的主角
[38:44]	From what I saw, it looked like you were chasing them,	据我所见 你们好像在追她们
[38:46]	and they knew it, and then they peeled away.	她们知道了 然后就溜走了
[38:48]	Did you leave the set?	你离开那组女生了吗
[38:52]	No, go back in.	不 回去
[38:53]	Remember, always stay in as long as you can.	记住 尽可能待久一点
[38:55]	Yes.	对
[38:56]	Stay in as long as you can.	尽可能待久一点
[38:57]	Doesn’t matter.	没关系
[38:59]	Why? Do you wanna leave on a good note	为什么 胜利在望的时候
[39:01]	when you could win the game?	你不想留下一个好印象吗
[39:03]	Yes.	是的
[39:04]	Go back.	回去
[39:05]	Say, “Guess what?”	说”你猜怎么着”
[39:05]	“How rude of me.”	“我真没礼貌”
[39:06]	“I shouldn’t have left you straight away.”	“我不该丢下你们直接走掉”
[39:10]	A lot of guys leave set	很多人在还处于朋友阶段时
[39:12]	when they’re still in the friend zone,	就在中途放弃了
[39:14]	and they’re like, “Oh, I’d like to feed my ego “by	他们会说”我给她们留下了不错的印象”
[39:16]	leaving on a nice note knowing that people like me.”	“我的自尊心已经得到满足了”
[39:19]	And then, go home alone.	然后 一个人回家
[39:21]	What’s the point in that?	这有什么意义
[39:22]	Go back in.	回去
[39:24]	Show them you got some balls.	让她们看看你是有种的
[39:25]	That’s what they respect.	这才是她们所尊重的
[39:26]	Someone with some courage, conviction,	她们尊重有勇气 有信念的人
[39:28]	and does what they wanna do in life.	为目标而奋斗的人
[39:32]	Well, how was last night?	昨晚怎么样
[39:34]	That’s what we’re gonna talk about.	这就是我们要聊的内容
[39:36]	Did it look like I was gaming, or did it look like	看起来我是在比赛
[39:38]	I was just enjoying my moments hanging out with the girls?	还是在享受和女生们在一起的时光
[39:42]	They were slowly warming up to me, but not really	她们慢慢开始对我热情 但还不够快
[39:44]	quick enough, so I actually left them there.	所以最后我自己离开了
[39:47]	I went, opened another set,	我去搭讪了另一组
[39:49]	sat down with them, chatted them up.	坐下来和她们聊天
[39:51]	And then, I could see the previous set start to warm up.	然后 我感觉前一组开始热情了起来
[39:54]	I kissed one and then the other.	我吻了其中一个 又吻了另一个
[39:56]	And then, the third friend was watching from the side,	然后 有另一个女生在旁边看着
[39:58]	and I said, “You’re feeling jealous and left out, aren’t you?”	我说”你嫉妒了 感觉被冷落了 是吗”
[40:01]	We were kissing.	我们接吻了
[40:02]	We were kissing.	我们接吻了
[40:03]	They were French.	她们是法国人
[40:03]	They were French girls.	她们是法国女生
[40:05]	Literally.	真的
[40:06]	We just started fooling about a little bit.	我们开始闲逛了一段时间
[40:08]	And then, opened a nice two German set.	然后 搭讪了两个不错的德国女生
[40:12]	Who was with me?	当时谁和我在一起
[40:13]	I think it was Michael, and Eric was there.	应该是迈克尔 埃里克也在场
[40:18]	Exactly, but it’s just to invite them out	没错 但只是邀请她们
[40:20]	to something you’re already doing.	加入你已经在参加的活动
[40:21]	Like, “I’m at the W Hotel, come get some sun.”	比如”我在W酒店 一起来晒晒太阳”
[40:24]	When do you call them?	你什么时候给她们打电话
[40:25]	Do you wait the obligatory two days?	必须等两天吗
[40:27]	– No, no. – As soon as possible.	-不 不 -尽快
[40:29]	while it’s hot.	趁热打铁
[40:31]	Show your interest.	表现出你的兴趣
[40:31]	You’re allowed to,	你可以这样
[40:32]	especially since you got her contact information, right?	况且你已经有她的联系方式了 对吧
[40:35]	You can show interest.	你可以表现出兴趣
[40:38]	No, I didn’t.	不 没有
[40:39]	No, but they shared a cigarette,	不 但他们抽了同一支烟
[40:41]	and that was an intimate thing,	那是一件很亲密的事
[40:42]	back and forth-ing the cigarette.	你来我往 抽着烟
[40:43]	And they were handholding and arm-in-arm.	互相挽着手臂 双手交握
[40:50]		2小时视频 25英镑并赠送礼品 5小时视频 75英镑 3天训练营 2500英镑 1星期脱产训练 5000英镑 6个月导师指导 7500英镑 1年会员 10000英镑
[40:51]	Now, you can’t often sell someone	现在 你不可能一下子
[40:53]	a bootcamp straight off the bat, right?	就把训练营推销给别人 对吧
[40:55]	To try and demand $1,000 or $3,000 from someone	想要从一个初识者那里拿到
[40:59]	who has just heard about you is very difficult.	1000甚至3000美元是非常困难的
[41:01]	So, what you do in business is you ease people in slowly.	所以 做生意时 要循序渐进
[41:05]	You start with free content.	从免费内容开始
[41:07]	Then, you sell them something that’s maybe $10.	然后 卖给他们10美元的产品
[41:11]	You might charge $10 for a seven-page guide on	一本7页的如何给女生发短信指南
[41:13]	text messages to send a girl.	可能可以卖到10块钱
[41:15]	Then, you sell them something that’s	然后 你卖给他们一些
[41:17]	maybe between $50 to $100	50到100美元之间的产品
[41:18]	because that is a small investment.	因为这是一个小数额投资
[41:21]	Now, they’re more likely to spend more money with you.	现在 他们更愿意在你这花更多的钱
[41:23]	So, then, you pitch them a	然后 你给他们推销一个
[41:24]		购买 标准会员
[41:24]		购买 优享会员
[41:24]		购买 至尊会员
[41:24]	$200 to $500 product.	200到500美元的产品
[41:26]	That might be a live event that costs that much.	可能是一个等值的现场活动
[41:27]		购买后30天内可联系总部申请无条件退款 亲自体验课程 参与训练计划 低价格高水准的课程 一定会改变您的生活 尝试 体验 并乐在其中 您不会有任何损失
[41:29]	That might be a more in-depth video course.	也可能是一个更深入的视频课程
[41:32]	Once they’ve spent that much money with you,	一旦他们在你这花了那么多钱
[41:34]	they will again feel more comfortable	他们就会自然而然地
[41:35]	spending even more money with you.	花更多的钱
[41:37]	So, then, you can sell them a	然后 你就可以卖给他们
[41:39]	$1,000 to $3,000 bootcamp	1000到3000美元的训练营了
[41:41]	because they’ve been through the video course.	因为他们已经看过视频课程了
[41:44]	They’re still not meeting women,	他们还是约不到女生
[41:45]	but they know what they need to do.	但他们清楚他们需要做什么
[41:47]	So, they come on the bootcamp to get practical experience.	所以他们来训练营积累实战经验
[41:49]	Welcome to Day game.	欢迎来日间训练课
[41:51]	Talking to girls, during the day.	在白天找女生聊天
[41:53]	Day game is different than night game.	日间训练和夜间训练不一样
[41:57]	Here, during the day, people have shit to do.	这里 人们在白天都各自忙活着
[42:00]	Many guys do like they try to do the hard stop	很多男生想要试着搭讪
[42:02]	like some girls walking past, “Hey, excuse me.”	像对身边经过的女生说 “打扰一下”
[42:04]	And the girl is like, “Whoa,” freaking out like,	然后女生就会吓一跳
[42:05]	“What’s happening?”	“发生了什么”
[42:06]	“I can’t,” “I can’t,” right?	“不” “我不要” 类似这样对吧
[42:07]	You guys got that?	你们明白了吗
[42:08]	Like, “No, no, no, no, no.”	像”不 不 我不要”
[42:09]	So, what I would do much rather is walking with.	所以 我不会只跟着走
[42:12]	And when I’m walking with,	当我跟着走时
[42:13]	there’s a big difference, as well.	这也会有很大区别
[42:15]	What does the newer guy do?	新手会怎么做
[42:16]	If the girl walks like this, he’s like, “Oh, excuse me.”	当女生这样走时 他会”打扰一下”
[42:19]	She’ll see you like totally creepy, right, behind her.	她会觉得你非常奇怪 对吧 跟在后面
[42:22]	And she gets to feel like, “Oh, this guy’s following me.”	然后她就会觉得”这人在跟踪我”
[42:24]	“What’s up?”	“怎么办”
[42:25]	What I would do is I would walk	那我就会这么走
[42:26]	one to two steps ahead of her,	走在她前面一两步
[42:27]	and I chat over the shoulder like,	和她并肩走着聊
[42:28]	“Oh, yeah, blah, blah, blah, blah.”	“是啊 吧啦吧啦聊”
[42:29]	That takes all the pressure off her.	这样会让她觉得没有压力
[42:30]	You’re walking your way.	你在走你的路
[42:31]	She’s walking her way.	她在走她的路
[42:33]	You look very nicely dressed for Miami Beach.	你穿得很有迈阿密海滩的感觉耶
[42:37]	Are you from here?	你住这的吗
[42:39]	Hi, I’m Andrew, nice to meet you.	你好 我是安德鲁 很高兴认识你
[42:41]	Sophia	索菲亚
[42:43]	Cool.	太好了
[42:44]	I thought you were cute.	我觉得你很可爱
[42:45]	I guess, I wanted to come talk to you, but…	我想跟你说话 但是
[42:48]	Yeah, I know.	我明白了
[42:50]	I’m sorry.	我很抱歉
[42:52]	It takes a lotta guts to do this.	这样做需要很多的勇气
[42:54]	It really does.	非常需要
[42:56]	Let’s be honest, and it takes desperate measures.	说实话 这只是个权宜之计
[43:00]	I had to be really desperate to get good with girls	我要极尽所能去获得女生的好感
[43:04]	to find the one in order for me to come out here.	去找到那个让我来到这的女孩
[43:09]	Excuse me.	打扰一下
[43:10]	I think you’re very cute.	我觉得你非常可爱
[43:11]	You have to talk to me for a minute.	你得和我聊会天了
[43:14]	No, you don’t, you’re right.	不 你不想 好吧
[43:16]	When I was 18-years-old,	我十八岁时
[43:18]	I went through a really bad breakup.	我经历了一场非常痛苦的分手
[43:20]	My girlfriend, she found someone else.	我女朋友和别人在一起了
[43:22]	It was easy, she was a very beautiful girl.	这很容易 她是个很漂亮的女孩
[43:25]	And then, when I wanted her back,	然后 当我挽留她时
[43:27]	she said, “No, I already have someone else.”	她说”不 我已经有别人了”
[43:29]	And that crushed me.	这很打击我
[43:31]	It crushed my ego, it crushed me as a person.	这粉碎了我的人格 甚至我整个人
[43:34]	I had a lot of social anxiety.	我有很重的社会焦虑感
[43:37]	And, for some reason, I didn’t do well with it.	因为一些原因 我没有处理好它
[43:41]	I started looking up how to get good with girls.	我开始查怎样才能获得女生的好感
[43:43]	I had heard some guy mention a book about it,	我听别人提到了一本关于这个的书
[43:46]	and I researched it on YouTube.	然后我在油管上找
[43:48]	And it really resonated with me.	它真的非常引起我的共鸣
[43:51]	Hey, these guys were kind of nerdy	这些人和我一样
[43:53]	just like me, and they did it.	都呆呆的 但他们做到了
[43:55]	Why can’t I do it?	那我为什么不可以呢
[43:58]	What I like to do, sometimes, is to just do silly things	我有时候只会做些傻事
[44:01]	and be like, hi.	像这样 你好
[44:03]	Hi.	你好
[44:04]	What’s up, what are you up to?	在干嘛呢
[44:10]	Mm, tacos.	塔可
[44:10]	Yeah.	对
[44:11]	I like tacos	我喜欢吃塔可
[44:12]	Yeah.	对
[44:14]	Barbara, where are you from?	Barbara 你是哪里人
[44:17]	I’m Colombian.	我是哥伦比亚人
[44:19]	I really like your energy.	我很喜欢你的活力
[44:21]	Yeah, you would think that if some random guy	如果随便一个人这样过来和你说话
[44:23]	went up to you like this, you’d be weirded out.	你会不会觉得很奇怪
[44:27]	How long are you guys here for?	你们要在这里呆多久
[44:32]	Cool.	太好了
[44:35]	You’re inviting me?	你在邀请我吗
[44:37]	Okay, let’s do it.	好 一起去
[44:43]	Honestly, that was such a poor approach	说实话 刚才是次很差的搭讪
[44:46]	that I didn’t think it was gonna work out.	甚至我以为它行不通的
[44:50]	That, sometimes, I’m just like, what?	有时候 我就会 什么
[44:52]	Sometimes, it’s just going up	有时候 就这么成了
[44:53]	and just being there and saying hi.	然后就站那打招呼
[44:57]	And, literally, that’s all it is.	真的 就是这么回事
[44:58]	To be honest, I only get about 5%	说实话 我上去聊的女生里
[45:03]	of the numbers of the girls that I go up to.	我只搭讪到5%而已
[45:05]	It’s rare when it actually works out.	很少能成功撩到
[45:07]	It’s very rare when I actually meet a girl,	当我见到一个女生后
[45:10]	and she likes me, and I like her.	刚好我们互相喜欢 这就更稀奇了
[45:12]	But whenever that happens, oh my God.	但是只要这种情况发生了 我的天
[45:16]	Honestly, there’s no other better feeling.	说实话 没什么比这更爽的了
[45:19]	Spending time with a girl that you connect with.	和你心仪的女生一起打发时间
[45:21]	I love it, honestly.	我太喜欢了 说实话
[45:27]	This is where I originally started in Union Square.	这是我在中心广场最开始行动的地方
[45:31]	A few years ago, way back in the day	很多年前 回到那天
[45:32]	in the dark ages of the seduction community.	在搭讪训练社区最低迷的时候
[45:36]	A lot of times, when you start talking about dating advice	很多次当你开始聊到约会的小建议
[45:38]	and things of this nature, a lot of women will kind of,	还有这方面的天性啊 很多女生
[45:40]	will have this idea that it’s easy,	会觉得就是个很简单的事
[45:42]	or it just comes natural, or just be yourself.	或者就是自然点 就是做自己就好
[45:44]	But, in reality, for women, it does come a lot easier.	但在现实中 对女生来说 的确更容易
[45:48]	Why?	为什么
[45:48]	Because, culturally, they’ve kind of been brought up,	因为在她们的文化里有教育过
[45:50]	and, every single day, guys approach the woman.	每一天都会有男人去试图接近女人
[45:54]	The guys go after the woman.	男人要去照顾女人
[45:56]	The guys pursue the women.	男人为女人买单
[45:58]	The guys tell them that they’re attractive.	男人告诉女人她们很有魅力
[45:59]	The guys hit on the girls.	男人去撩女人
[46:01]	Girls don’t usually go out of their way	女生一般不会这么做
[46:03]	to approach guys and hit on guys.	去接近男生撩他们
[46:06]	So, generally, one way that you can kind of realize	所以通常有个办法让你能辨别到
[46:09]	if somebody’s out here practicing or not,	这人是不是在实践
[46:11]	is most guys aren’t out here getting as physical	就是这里大部分人都做不到像我们那样
[46:13]	with strangers as we will, as quickly as we will.	那么快就能和陌生人有身体接触
[46:17]	When you’re not physically escalating on that stranger,	你不去多做些身体接触的话
[46:19]	you’re emphasizing the fact that you are a stranger.	就更强调了你只是个陌生人
[46:22]	You’re actually really fucking cute.	你真的太他妈可爱了
[46:24]	– Where you going? – Thank you.	-你要去哪 -谢谢
[46:25]	– Don’t turn me away. – I’m going to go.	别扔下我 我正要去
[46:26]	Two seconds, dance with me here.	就一会 在这和我跳舞
[46:27]	Dance with me here, fuck Barnes & Noble.	和我在这跳一会 去他的巴诺书店
[46:29]	Generally, you wanna get physical right away,	通常如果你想尽快有肢体接触
[46:30]	make little playful taps on the arm or whatnot,	在手臂或什么地方开玩笑地拍一下
[46:33]	or a little light handhold where you objectively,	或者在恰当的地点轻轻地挽住
[46:36]	you wanna hold that as long as she’ll allow it	她让你挽多久你就挽多久
[46:38]	and get her used to your physicality.	让她习惯你的肢体语言
[46:39]	You know why I’m this fast with you right now?	你知道我为什么现在和你进展这么快
[46:43]	Do you know why?	你知道为什么吗
[46:44]	You’re always touching the girl.	因为你一直在和女生身体接触
[46:45]	You’re always doing things as if you’re their boyfriend.	你表现得就像她们的男朋友一样
[46:47]	If you saw us a mile away,	如果你远远地看着我们
[46:48]	you would think that we were already a couple	在这段搭讪的时间里
[46:50]	in the certain phase of the pickup.	你会以为我们就是情侣
[46:51]	Maybe 15 minutes in or 10 minutes in.	可能在10分钟或15分钟之内
[46:54]	Sometimes, even sooner than that.	有时候可能更快
[46:55]	I don’t know if you’ve ever heard of–	不知道你有没有听说过
[46:56]	Should we get a coffee?	要一起喝杯咖啡吗
[46:57]	Ah, we’re going to get coffee, yeah.	好啊 我们去找个咖啡喝吧
[46:58]	Boom, boom, boom.	小心脏扑通扑通
[47:00]	What are we men attracted to?	我们男人会被什么吸引
[47:02]	What do people say?	人们怎么说
[47:03]	Looks, right?	外形 对吧
[47:05]	That’s the basic gist.	这是基本要点
[47:06]	Now, of course,	现在 当然
[47:07]	you can have an emotional connection with a girl,	你可以和女生有情感联系
[47:08]	but the first thing that pops up	但我们觉得一个女生有魅力
[47:10]	when we find a female attractive is looks.	肯定是先被外形吸引到的
[47:13]	For a girl, she’s searching for something different	对女生来说 她想找些与众不同的
[47:17]	because thousands of years ago,	因为几千年前
[47:18]	what kind of male would be the best male for her offspring,	她会找对她的后代来说哪种男性是最好的
[47:23]	the alpha male.	而阿尔法男性就是最好的
[47:24]	This is the strongest guy, this is the leader guy.	他是最强的 是领导者
[47:27]	He knows what’s up.	他清楚是怎么回事
[47:29]	He’s not gonna be some beta male,	他不是那些只能带来弱鸡后代
[47:30]	who will give me weak offspring.	那些贝塔男性
[47:32]	It’s a known fact	众所周知
[47:33]	that women respond to dominance from men.	女生对男生的强势有反应
[47:36]	If you read some of these romance novels	如果你去看一些
[47:38]	that are in the apex of a female’s mind.	完全写进女性心里的浪漫小说
[47:41]	The darkest secrets, the dirtiest, darkest secrets,	她们最黑暗的秘密 最肮脏黑暗的秘密
[47:43]	it’s always the guy being dominant, being the alpha male,	是男人总是在统治 表现得非常阿尔法男性
[47:46]	making her do things she doesn’t want to do.	强迫她做一些她不想做的事
[47:48]	It’s always that way.	总是那套路
[47:50]	The following presentation is controversial	以下内容充满争议
[47:53]	and may be offensive to some audiences.	可能引起部分观众的反感
[47:55]	Viewer discretion is advised.	请酌情观看
[47:57]	Today, we show an epic pickup video that shows	今天 我们播出一段史诗级搭讪片段
[48:00]	the full process of approaching two friends.	记录了把两个朋友撩到手的全过程
[48:04]	Taking them on dates at two separate times,	分别在不同时间和她们约会
[48:06]	and, eventually, taking each girl home.	最后 把女生带回家
[48:10]	These girls were perfect strangers that we just met.	刚见面时我们完全不认识这两个女生
[48:14]	You will see how to deal with the girls	你会看到怎样撩到
[48:16]	who are not fully into you right away.	对你还不怎么感兴趣的女生
[48:19]	These type of girls are called the “Maybe” to “No” girls.	这种类型的女生我们称为”有机会”到”不行”
[48:22]	So, now, we’ll talk about the date with the target.	所以现在 我们会谈谈怎么和目标约会
[48:24]	As soon as she comes, she starts talking about her boyfriend	当她到了后 她会开始聊她的男朋友
[48:27]	and all this nonsense, which made me wonder,	但这些都是瞎扯 我就奇怪了
[48:28]	why the fuck did you even come?	那你他妈的干嘛来
[48:30]	Lots of times, a girl’s gonna say all kind of shit to you,	很多时候 一个女生向你各种鬼扯
[48:32]	tell you you’re a player, all this stuff.	说你就是个玩家 所有这些指责
[48:33]	Your objective is not to listen to women at all. Okay?	你要做的就是绝对别听女人的话 好吗
[48:37]	Fuck what women say.	别听她瞎他妈扯
[48:39]	They don’t know what the fuck they want.	她们根本不知道自己想要什么
[48:41]	You have to show them what they want.	你必须给她们展示她们真正想要的
[48:45]	Some of these guys, they’ve had it the other way around	这里面有部分人 他们在状况外很久了
[48:48]	for so long, so, suddenly, when they’re in a position	然后忽然 他们找到路子
[48:50]	where they can sort of take a girl down a peg or two,	知道怎样去杀杀一两个女生的威风了
[48:53]	and it’s them that’s got the power for once.	然后他们突然就有了搭讪的能力
[48:55]	I think, sometimes, they can see it as payback time.	我认为有时他们把这段时期视为报复时间
[48:58]	You know, Revenge.	你知道 复仇
[49:00]	It’s a small time window to get the girl interested,	有一小段时期能得到女孩的兴趣
[49:02]	but after that point, man, my game changes completely.	但是过了那段 天啊 事情完全改变了
[49:04]	It’s all about structuring opportunities	要制造机会来
[49:07]	for her to chase me.	让女生追我是最重要的
[49:08]	The funny thing is when a woman	有趣的是当一个女生
[49:10]	has more power in a relationship,	在一段关系中更占据主导地位
[49:11]	she doesn’t know what the fuck she wants to do.	她反而不知道她到底想要什么
[49:13]	And she ends up fucking cheating on him	于是她该死的最后背叛了她的男朋友
[49:15]	breaking up for no fucking reason ’cause she’s confused,	分手只是因为该死的没原因 只是困惑了
[49:17]	and all kind of nonsense. That’s true.	以及一堆废话 这是真事
[49:19]	Hey, you know, my relationships are very fucking dominant.	你知道 我在我的关系中处于主导地位
[49:23]	Forget all the glitz and glamor with	忘记那个你想去搭讪的主要对象
[49:24]	the initial pickup that you see.	的所有诱惑和魅力
[49:26]	Obviously, I’m being nice to kind of,	很显然 我表现的很和善
[49:27]	You know, for my style, it works for me,	你知道 以我的方式 这也确实有效
[49:30]	-but that’s only the initial pickup. -Yeah, totally	– 但只针对主要对象 – 是的 确实如此
[49:31]	But, as long as they do what I say,	但是 只要她们按我说的做
[49:34]	I treat them really good.	我对她们真的很好
[49:35]	And then, when they don’t,	然后当她们不听我的时候
[49:36]	I will punish their ass in multiple ways.	我会用各种方法去惩罚她们
[49:39]	– They fucking love that shit. – Of course.	-这很符合她们的口味 -确实如此
[49:42]	Sometimes, you see this real anger come out of these guys.	有时 你真的能感受到这些人的怒气
[49:46]	Do not reward bad behavior.	不要鼓励这些坏的行为
[49:49]	She stayed out, and then you were waiting up for her.	她晚上不回家 你还等她
[49:51]	Said you’d come and collect her, she’ll didn’t phone you.	和她说你去接她 她不再给你打电话了
[49:53]	That’s like the puppy dog pissing all over your kitchen,	这就像一只小狗在你的厨房四处撒尿
[49:55]	shitting, chewing your cushions.	拉屎 咬你的毯子
[49:58]	And you walk in and go, “Have a little treat, doggie.”	然后你走进去说”小狗 随便弄”
[50:01]	You know, women deserve this.	你知道 他们认为这样做是女人应得的
[50:03]	They deserve to be taken down	她们应该顺从男人
[50:05]	because they’ve had the power all this time.	因为她们一直都占据主动
[50:07]	Because that’s their perception of it.	他们这样想是因为那是他们的看法
[50:09]	In their world, the women have had the power,	他们过去的生活里 女人们占据主动权
[50:11]	and they’ve had nothing. They’ve been the worthless one.	而他们一无所有 他们一文不值
[50:19]	I can see other girls while she can’t see other guys.	我能看其他女孩而她们不能看其他男孩
[50:25]	No, you don’t.	不 你不能看
[50:26]	That’s what I’m saying.	这就是我想说的平等
[50:28]	Like I said, she’s talking big for the camera right now,	就像我说的 她现在对着摄像机镜头放话
[50:30]	but those were the terms,	但是那些都是条件
[50:31]	obviously, that you agreed to in the relationship.	很明显 你同意这段关系中的一些条件
[50:34]	-And at any time, obviously, -Yeah…But…Even I said I	– 任何时候 显然 – 是的 但即使我说
[50:37]	you do have your rights,	你都有你的权利
[50:38]	and you don’t have to, obviously.	但很明显 那没必要
[50:40]	And if you do wanna see other people, you can,	如果你真的想去看其他人 你当然可以
[50:42]	but, then, obviously you know what happens.	但是 你显然知道会发生什么
[50:44]	I do fuck other girls besides Asian girls too.	除了亚洲女孩以外 我当时也上了其他女孩
[50:46]	I just like them ’cause they’re obedient.	我喜欢她们是因为她们很顺从
[50:48]	Good little dogs.	很棒的小狗
[50:49]	It can become, for some of them,	对于一部分的这种人来说
[50:51]	more about the respect of their male peers in the industry	相比于撩到女生而言
[50:54]	than about getting girls.	在这个产业中受男性尊重更为重要
[50:58]	And that’s a very dangerous place for it to go, as well,	当然这也是一个很危险的情况
[51:02]	because that’s when they’ll happily start degrading women	因为这时他们为了炫耀
[51:06]	to sort of show off.	开始高兴地贬低女性
[51:07]	Yo. This is Max and Julien from Real Social Dynamics.	我们是真实社交学的麦克斯和朱利安
[51:10]	Welcome to special edition “Mid weeks with Mad Max”	欢迎来到特别节目”疯狂麦克斯的一周当中”
[51:13]	where you can ask us three questions	在这里你们可以问我们三个问题
[51:14]	that as they are lifestyle, game, and random.	也就是生活方式 游戏和如何随机选择
[51:18]	At least in Tokyo, if you’re a white male,	至少在日本东京 如果你是一个白人男性
[51:21]	you can do what you want, and that’s what I realized.	就我所知 你可以做你想做的任何事情
[51:29]	Real Social Dynamics got in trouble	真实社会动力学遇到麻烦了
[51:31]	because one of the instructors, Julien Blanc,	因为他们中的一个导师朱利安·勃朗
[51:33]	uploaded a video on YouTube,	在油管上发了一个视频
[51:35]	which had some clips of him teaching some students.	有一部分是他在教学的片段
[51:38]	In the video, he made some derogatory comments about women.	在视频中 他说了一些贬低女性的话
[51:41]	And I pull her in, and she kinda laughs and giggles.	我把她拉过来 她咯咯乐得像个傻子
[51:44]	All you have to say to kinda take the pressure off	你们为了缓解气氛只需要
[51:47]	is just yell, “Pikachu,” or, “Pokemon,”	大声喊”皮卡丘”或者”宝可梦”
[51:48]	or, “Tamagotchi,” or something.	或者”拓麻歌子”或其他的什么
[51:50]	So, that was my opener, I went	这就是我的开场白 我会
[51:52]	“Pikachu, Pikachu, Pikachu,” like that.	这样喊”皮卡丘 皮卡丘 皮卡丘”
[51:53]	And there were some clips of him grabbing women’s heads	视频中还有他拽着女人头发
[51:57]	and putting them on his crotch.	然后把她们的头拽向他的胯部的镜头
[51:58]	I’m romping through the streets just grabbing girls.	我在街上蹦蹦跳跳地抓女孩子
[52:01]	And my opener’s like head, pff, on dick.	我的开场白就像是把头拽向阴茎
[52:04]	Head on dick, yelling Pikachu with a Pikachu shirt.	头拽向阴茎 穿着皮卡丘衣服喊着皮卡丘
[52:08]	And it was ridiculous.	这样做其实很蠢
[52:10]	I have the infield of this, it’s awesome.	我在讲座中心做这个动作 真太棒了
[52:11]	And then, even going up to groups and one by one,	然后有时甚至成群结队一个一个来
[52:14]	two at the time, and it’s the happiest I’ve ever been.	有时两个一起 那是我最快乐的时光
[52:17]	And that video went online,	然后这个视频发布到了网上
[52:20]	and it spiraled out of control.	事情突然就不受控制了
[52:23]	Gossip blogs picked up on the video.	八卦博客发表了这个视频
[52:25]	And after the gossip blogs picked up on it	而在八卦博客发表了这个视频之后
[52:27]	the news channels picked up on it.	新的频道也发表了这个视频
[52:29]	#chokingaroundtheworld.	#掐遍全世界
[52:31]	And his suggestion that men should pick up women	发布人认为男人搭讪女人应该
[52:33]	by going and grabbing them by the throats	通过掐着脖子把她们脑袋拽过来
[52:35]	or forcing their heads places	强迫把她们的脑袋放在那个
[52:37]	we can’t even talk about on breakfast television.	我们甚至不能在早间新闻里谈论的地方
[52:39]	Well, yes, the suggestion of that	当然 这个提议
[52:40]	is clearly, the line has been crossed.	很明显 太过分了
[52:42]	There is no doubt that he is an incredibly,	毫无疑问他是一个道德上
[52:44]	morally reprehensible man.	应受极大谴责的男人
[52:45]	Not only is he offensive to women,	他不仅冒犯了女人
[52:47]	and has a very negative view on women,	对女人有着负面看法
[52:49]	but he’s offensive to men, as well.	他也冒犯了男人
[52:51]	Suggesting men want the same things he wants.	他在假设所有男人都想做他自己想做的事
[53:03]	I just couldn’t believe that this guy	我真的无法相信这个男人
[53:05]	was videotaping himself assaulting women	拍下自己侵犯女性的录像
[53:08]	and getting away with it without impunity.	还不受任何的谴责
[53:11]	And then, passing these disgusting views and methods	然后 传播这些恶心的观点和方法
[53:13]	on to other men.	给其他的男人
[53:14]	RSD is not, I knew that I could not	RSD的做法是不对的 我知道我不能
[53:17]	go to them for accountability,	去追究他们的责任
[53:18]	and that the only way to take someone like him down,	粉碎这种团队的唯一方式是
[53:20]	is public shaming.	公众指责
[53:21]	It is to show that anybody associated with a person	这个目的是让这种人的所有熟人
[53:23]	and an organization like this is tarnishing their own name.	和组织都因为这个人的名字而蒙羞
[53:26]	I just started Tweeting away and a fucking hashtag,	我开始在推特上留言并发表这个话题
[53:29]	#takedownjulienblanc.	#打倒朱利安·勃朗
[53:32]	I didn’t know if I was gonna be able to do anything,	我不知道我是否能成功做一些什么
[53:34]	but I was like, fuck it, I’m just gonna try it, anyway.	但我觉得去他妈的 无论怎样我也要试试
[53:39]	I was running an event,	我当时正在举行一个活动
[53:40]	and there were people protesting in Australia	然后在澳大利亚遭到了一些人的抗议
[53:42]	because of my colleague, Julien Blanc, oh, shit, actually,	就是因为我那该死的同事朱利安·勃朗
[53:46]	I’m not allowed to talk about Julien.	我不能谈论他
[53:48]	Maybe I could frame it in a way	或许我可以用另一种方式来讲述出来
[53:49]	where I don’t mention Julien.	通过不提及朱利安的方式
[53:52]	I mean, I could just say, I don’t know,	我的意思是 我只能说 我不知道
[53:53]	I was outside a venue.	和我没关
[53:55]	And I was standing there, and I was running that event.	我当时在澳大利亚 举行那个活动
[53:57]	And I was actually talking about meditation.	我其实是在讲述我的回忆
[54:02]	And this woman runs through the crowd, and she slaps me.	然后这女人从人群中跑过来打了我一巴掌
[54:06]	Whoa, whoa, whoa. Stop doing that.	别这么做
[54:08]	The slap was filmed, as well, so that went viral.	这巴掌被拍了下来也同样流传的很广
[54:13]	I always try to hold eye contact with people in the crowd.	我总是试着和人群中的人们保持眼神接触
[54:16]	I pan from left to right. Hold eye contact.	我从左向右平移 和人们保持眼神交流
[54:18]	I saw on every single guy’s face, fear.	我看到每个人脸上的表情 是恐惧
[54:29]	You guys get in. You guys get in.	你们这些家伙进来 快进来
[54:31]	They just wanted to go to a seminar,	这些人只是想参加一个研讨会
[54:33]	learning how to be confident.	去学习怎样变得自信
[54:34]	Yes, how to pick up chicks, as well.	当然 顺便学会如何搭讪小妞
[54:36]	I’m not gonna be like, “I’m just a meditation guy.”	我不会只是装作”我只是在回忆”
[54:39]	Yes, we were about to talk,	是的 我们当时本打算谈论
[54:41]	also talk about how to pick up chicks and stuff like that.	也打算谈论如何搭讪小妞有关的事情
[54:49]	‘Cause I was afraid as hell.	因为我害怕的要命
[54:51]	I was afraid as hell at that moment.	我当时害怕的要命
[54:53]	I’m like, what’s gonna happen to me?	我当时在想 我会怎么样
[55:31]	Julien was kicked out of Australia.	朱利安被踢出了澳大利亚
[55:33]	He got banned from other countries.	他还被其他国家禁止入境
[55:36]	There were protests.	有很多抗议行动
[55:38]	There were petitions and hundreds of thousands of people	有成千上万的人
[55:40]	signing those petitions.	签下了请愿书
[55:42]	I have friends, friends that didn’t know	我的那些不知道
[55:44]	I was working in the pickup industry,	我在搭讪行业工作的朋友们
[55:45]	who signed those petitions.	都在请愿书上签了字
[55:48]	The emotional outrage,	这是一种情感上的愤怒
[55:50]	the emotional reaction people had to it was insane.	人们对这件事情的反应是疯狂的
[55:53]	We live in a culture that is constantly battling	我们生活在这样一个文化当中
[55:57]	to teach men how to treat women with respect.	这种文化不断努力地教男人如何尊重女人
[56:01]	We have problems with it everywhere we look,	我们看哪都有问题
[56:03]	and, then, you do this.	然后你做了这个搭讪产业
[56:05]	It was a horrible, horrible attempt at humor.	这是一次非常 非常可怕的尝试
[56:10]	They were also like taken out of context, in a way, where–	我的观点也被断章取义 在某种程度上
[56:13]	How could they be taken out of content?	你被怎么断章取义了
[56:15]	Give me the good use of choke a woman.	那你说什么时候适合掐住一个女人
[56:17]	You can make anything look bad in a picture.	你可以让任何事情在画面里看起来很糟糕
[56:20]	This is an abuse hotline,	这有一个虐待热线
[56:24]	a woman’s protection pallet	一个保护女人的圆形图
[56:27]	where you’re supposed to see different signs of things	在这里你会看到不同种类的虐待迹象
[56:29]	that are being done to you	如果你受到过这样的虐待
[56:30]	that you should be careful about as a woman.	那么作为一个女人你要注意了
[56:32]	You used it into an empowerment model	对于一些可悲的男性团体来说
[56:35]	for some pathetic man group, right?	他们把这些行为放到他们的赋权模式里了
[56:37]	It just got everyone hating him	在不了解背景的情况下
[56:39]	without even knowing the background,	大家仅仅看了几段被剪辑过的片段
[56:41]	just seeing the clips of however they’ve been edited.	这些片段让大家都非常恨他
[56:45]	And then, they’re like, “Oh, because it was on the news,	他们就认为”这些片段是在新闻里播出的”
[56:49]	“it was true.”	“所以这种侵犯女性的事情是真的”
[56:50]	Which we know is the opposite, normally.	我们明白现实情况正好相反
[56:53]	It’s the opposite.	恰恰相反
[56:54]	I think you’re backing away from what you teach	我认为你在回避你的教学内容
[56:56]	because it’s getting you in trouble.	因为那让你陷入麻烦了
[56:57]	I’m not, again, I apologize.	再一次强调 我没有回避 我很抱歉
[56:59]	And I take responsibility for it.	我会承担责任
[57:01]	It was something that I never should have posted online,	我就不应该把这个东西放到网上去
[57:04]	but I do just wanna clarify that’s not what I teach.	但是 我想澄清这不是我教授的内容
[57:06]	None of my clients do this,	任何一个我的客户都没有这样做过
[57:08]	and I don’t make my clients do this, either.	而且我也不会强迫我的客户去这么做
[57:10]	The life of anyone’s attention span is a week or two.	每个人的注意力只有一到两周
[57:15]	So, after a week or two, it’s likely to fade away again,	所以 一两周之后 他们对一个人的注意就会消失
[57:18]	and there’ll be someone else to pick on.	然后就去关注其他人了
[57:20]	Russell Brand or whatever, I don’t know.	像拉塞尔·布兰德或者其他人 我不知道
[57:26]	What the media did with Julien,	媒体对朱利安
[57:28]	they would have done with any of the pickup instructors.	和他们对其他的搭讪导师没什么区别
[57:30]	Just the fact that someone	事实上 有人录下来
[57:32]	would record themselves picking up women	他们搭讪并且最后勾引上床的过程
[57:34]	and sleeping with them is questionable in itself.	这种行为是有问题的
[57:36]	A woman doesn’t know that she’s being filmed.	这个女人不知道她被录下来了
[57:39]	A woman doesn’t know that the person picking her up	这个女人也不知道这个人跟她搭讪
[57:41]	is doing it to prove something to some students.	是为了证明给一些学生看
[57:49]	She believes that she’s sleeping with this guy	她相信她和他上床
[57:51]	because this guy generally likes her	是因为这个男人喜欢她
[57:52]	and he wants to have a relationship,	并且愿意和她发展一段恋爱关系
[57:54]	or wants to have sex with her, but on a consensual basis.	或者愿意和她上床 但是是双方同意的
[57:58]	She has absolutely no idea that this is for a business.	她完全不知道这是为了生意
[58:02]	Up until that point, if you look at my brand,	直到那个时间点 如果你研究我的招牌
[58:05]	I was the like the new guy,	我就是个新人
[58:06]	I was like funny, like, “Hey guys!”	我很有趣 比如说”大家好啊”
[58:08]	And then people were like, “Holy shit,	然后人们会说 “天啊”
[58:10]	“There’s this young dude and he just got slapped,”	“这个年轻的男生刚刚被打了一巴掌”
[58:12]	“and he’s standing there, and he’s not freaking out.”	“然后他就站在那里 没抓狂”
[58:15]	“He’s like cool.”	“他太酷了”
[58:17]	I got like thousands of messages,	我收到上千条消息
[58:20]	like literally thousands of messages,	真的有上千条
[58:22]	like, “Hey dude, respect.”	写着”哥们 偶像啊”
[58:33]	I think if you take a young guy	我认为 对于一个年轻的男性来说
[58:35]	and you couple camaraderie, hero worship,	要是能有兄弟情义 英雄崇拜
[58:38]	and like the power of the orgasm, and sexual conquest	有引起高潮的力量 对异性的性征服
[58:42]	and how much having a beautiful girl on one’s arm	以及你怀中还有个美丽的姑娘
[58:45]	is like socially validating in our society and all that,	是我们对于这个社会的社会认同感
[58:48]	put that all together and it’s like an intoxicating brew	这些放在一起 就变成了毒酒
[58:51]	for a young guy to get caught up in.	很容易让年轻男生容易沉浸其中
[58:53]	It’s so potent.	太刺激了
[58:55]	The real gold dust is when you build a business	而最可怕的是 你建立一个这样的生意
[58:57]	like some of these other guys you’ve interviewed,	就像你采访过的其他人一样
[58:59]	and not only are you getting the validation,	他们不但得到认可
[59:00]	and you’re getting a physical pleasure of conquest,	还得到了生理上的征服愉悦感
[59:03]	but you’re also getting paid	而且你又有钱赚
[59:05]	thousands of dollars to do this,	能赚好几千块钱
[59:06]	it’s like the perfect storm.	简直就是雪上加霜
[59:08]	Who here likes to play video games?	这里你们谁喜欢玩电子游戏
[59:09]	Hands up, yeah, yeah.	请举手 好的 好的
[59:13]	It was a $1-$2 million business for a several years,	曾经有几年我能每年能赚一两百万
[59:15]	but I got off the merry-go-round in my mid 30s.	但是我在30多岁时因结婚离开了这个生意
[59:19]	I actually had, prior to getting married,	我实际上 在结婚之前
[59:21]	probably six long-term relationships.	大概有6个长期的恋爱关系
[59:23]	So, I never was a guy who thought	所以我从来不是一个认为
[59:26]	this was the only way to live.	这是唯一一种生活方式的男人
[59:30]	As I approached marriage, there was a lot of people	当我选择结婚的时候 有很多人
[59:32]	who felt I had let them down.	认为我让他们失望了
[59:33]	How could you, man?	你怎么能这样呢 老兄
[59:34]	What a betrayal.	简直是背叛
[59:36]	I thought you were gonna like,	我以为你是
[59:37]	you were my hero and now you’ve given up.	你是我的偶像呢 结果现在你放弃了
[59:40]	But man, yeah, they got pissed, they didn’t like it.	但是 他们生气了 他们不喜欢我这样
[59:43]	But it begs the question, like what they did want me to do?	但是这就引出这个问题 他们希望我做什么
[59:45]	Just like ride off on my horse into the horizon?	就想让我一辈子都活在不切实际的生活中
[59:48]	This isn’t a good look at 70, man.	这个状态到70岁时可就不好看了
[59:52]	Well a lot of the unspoken stuff, or unheralded,	还有很多无法言喻的 或者说没料到的
[59:55]	is the sense of male community in these places.	就是这种男人的社区感
[59:58]	Some of these guys who are socially isolated	有些与外界隔离的男生
[1:00:00]	actually have found a brotherhood,	实际上在这里找到了兄弟情义
[1:00:02]	and it’s even, it’s not even really about the women.	甚至 甚至和女人没什么关系
[1:00:05]	It’s more about the other men and the sense of acceptance,	而更多的是和其他男人建立友谊和归属感
[1:00:09]	and joining, and belonging.	加入并属于这个群体
[1:00:11]	Look at these bad boys.	看看我这新鞋
[1:00:53]	Who’s up next?	下一个是谁
[1:00:56]	When you think about how much students	当你意识到这些学生有多么
[1:00:58]	idolize their instructors,	崇拜他们的导师
[1:00:59]	it’s hard not to see pickup companies as cults.	很难不认为搭讪公司是个邪教组织
[1:01:02]	Because the instructors	因为这些导师
[1:01:04]	have so much power over the students.	对学生的影响极大
[1:01:06]	So, if you all stand up for a moment.	好了 如果你们可以都站起来一会儿
[1:01:11]	All right, so, I want you to stretch out for a second.	好的 所以我想让你们拉伸一下筋骨
[1:01:14]	Who’s seen the film “300”?	谁看过电影斯巴达300勇士
[1:01:16]	Yeah?	都看过么
[1:01:17]	Remember the war of cry the Spartans do?	还记得斯巴达人的战斗口号么
[1:01:19]	I’m gonna do that.	我就要这么做了
[1:01:20]	So I’ll do that first.	所以我先这么做
[1:01:21]	And then we all do it together, yeah?	然后我们一起做 好么
[1:01:24]	Cool.	好的
[1:01:25]	So Spartans!	斯巴达人
[1:01:28]	So now we do it altogether, are you ready?	我们现在一起做 准备好了么
[1:01:30]	Spartans!	斯巴达人
[1:01:34]	You cannot question them,	你不能质疑他们
[1:01:36]	you know, you have to just follow it.	知道吗 你必须按他们说的做
[1:01:39]	These guys build a cult of personality around themselves,	这些男人建立了个人崇拜
[1:01:42]	and like, there are some followers	有些追随者
[1:01:44]	who might be casual followers,	可能就是一般的追随者
[1:01:46]	but then there are also like vapid fanboys	但是有些人就是盲目追随的狂热崇拜者
[1:01:49]	who like, really believe in this stuff.	他们真的完全相信这些东西
[1:01:50]	And if anything, like contrary	如果有人表示反对
[1:01:53]	to what these guys are saying.	反对他们说的话
[1:01:54]	It’s like, “Oh well, then you’re not a true believer.”	他们就会说”你不是个真正的信徒”
[1:01:57]	It’s like it’s so weird, and very toxic	真的很奇怪 完全有毒的
[1:02:00]	you really can’t be a reasonable human being at all	你无法避免被整个社群厌恶的同时
[1:02:05]	without getting loads of hate from that community.	做个真正理智的人
[1:02:11]	The message that I wanna send to the whole pickup community is	我想向整个搭讪社区传达的信息是
[1:02:15]	RSD is like a church	RSD就像一个教会
[1:02:16]	it’s like a Catholic church or like a Buddhist church.	像一个天主教会或者佛教教会
[1:02:21]	People treat RSD like a religion.	人们对RSD态度像是宗教一样
[1:02:24]	It helps them to define who they are,	它帮助人们定义他们自己
[1:02:26]	it helps them to form their future,	帮助他们塑造未来
[1:02:28]	it helps them to give them belief systems,	帮助他们建立信仰系统
[1:02:30]	it gives them like faith in times of trial and trust,	在遇到挑战和机遇的时候给予他们信念
[1:02:33]	it truly is like a church, almost a cult.	它真的很像一个教会 几乎和邪教无异
[1:02:36]	One of the appeal, one of the appeals of the PUA thing,	搭讪课程一个很吸引人的地方
[1:02:39]	is to take disenfranchised men	就是把这些没有机遇的男人聚在一起
[1:02:42]	and teach them a skill set	教给他们一项技能
[1:02:44]	that they can get back and get a piece of their own.	从而他们可以运用去结交女性
[1:02:47]	It’s a new way of thinking.	这是一种新的思考方式
[1:02:48]	A new way of thinking is basically not conforming	这种新的思考方式基本就是不尊崇于
[1:02:52]	to what everyone else is doing.	其他人的做事方式
[1:02:53]	The students feel like the instructors are their saviors	学生们感觉这些导师是他们的救世主
[1:02:57]	because the students started as someone	因为这些学生一开始
[1:02:59]	very unhappy with their life.	过着很不愉快的生活
[1:03:01]	So they feel like the instructor came in and saved them.	所以他们感觉这些导师的到来拯救了他们
[1:03:04]	They provided them with a cure to their problem	导师给他们的问题带来一剂良药
[1:03:06]	and that’s why the instructor becomes their hero,	这就是为什么这些导师成为他们的英雄
[1:03:09]	and when you have someone you respect that much,	当你如此崇拜一个人的时候
[1:03:12]	that person can tell you to do anything	无论那个人让你做什么事情
[1:03:15]	and there’s very few things that you wouldn’t do.	大多数事情学生都会去做
[1:03:18]	Well, while you’re in a subway she would say	就像 你在地铁里 一个女孩子会说
[1:03:19]	she doesn’t want to come to your house.	她不想跟你回家去
[1:03:21]	Yeah, she said, “I’m not coming to your place.”	她会说”我不会去你家的”
[1:03:23]	How do you get her to your home?	你怎么才能让她去你家呢
[1:03:24]	I basically, forcefully,	我基本就会 用力的
[1:03:26]	but playfully pushed her into the train.	但是像开玩笑一样 把她推向列车
[1:03:36]	-Go ahead. -Yeah, yeah.	– 这么去做吧 – 好的 好
[1:03:40]	When I first came into this industry,	当我第一次进入到这个产业的时候
[1:03:42]	I was just there to be a girl	作为一个女孩
[1:03:44]	for guys to practice conversation on.	我只是用来给男生做对话练习
[1:03:46]	So they would learn some conversation skills	他们学习了交流技巧后
[1:03:48]	and then they would come and practice them on me.	然后他们会过来和我交流 用我练习
[1:03:51]	I actually really despise game, pickup.	我实际上非常鄙视这种搭讪游戏
[1:03:55]	I don’t like anything that uses lies	我不喜欢任何人用谎言
[1:03:58]	or manipulation to attract women.	或者操纵的把戏来吸引女人
[1:04:02]	And I feel like there are aspects of this industry	我感觉这个产业有一部分
[1:04:06]	that definitely do that.	绝对是这样做的
[1:04:08]	And I never wanted to be anything to do with that.	我从来不想和这种事产生任何关联
[1:04:13]	And so I stopped teaching for a while	所以我就停止教课了一段时间
[1:04:17]	while I get my head around all this stuff.	当我反应过来的时候
[1:04:20]	Quick question, quick question, can I,	有个问题 我能问个问题么
[1:04:22]	are those technically galoshes?	这是胶套鞋吗
[1:04:24]	The most success I ever had with women	和一个女人最成功的一次经历
[1:04:26]	was when I was the most pathological	是我说谎最多
[1:04:27]	and the absolutely least caring.	而且完全不关心对方的一次
[1:04:30]	It’s a common thing that men feel,	有个很常见的现象 男人们经常感受到的
[1:04:33]	what we call it approach anxiety,	我们叫它接触紧张
[1:04:35]	they get nervous around women.	他们在女人周围感到紧张
[1:04:36]	So a guy can go up and he can flub the line,	所以当男生接近女生的时候 他会说错话
[1:04:39]	or he can stutter, or stammer, or just get blushed cheeks,	或者口吃 口齿不伶俐 或者脸颊变红
[1:04:42]	these are all normal things.	这些都是很正常的现象
[1:04:44]	I just parked in and I don’t know, how does this work?	我刚才在那停车 我不知道这东西怎么用
[1:04:47]	What makes someone good and able to teach in this field	大家都是通过一遍一遍又一遍的练习
[1:04:50]	is through doing this again, and again, and again,	才能很擅长这个领域并且能去教导学生
[1:04:52]	you kill that nervousness.	到最后就不会再紧张了
[1:04:54]	Which is, I think, a part of our humanity,	这个现象 我认为 实际上是人性的一部分
[1:04:56]	the excitement and trepidation	那种兴奋感和焦虑感
[1:04:58]	of talking to an object of our desire.	是来自与我们渴望的对象谈话时的感受
[1:05:01]	What happens when you become a good player or whatever	当你成为一个高效的玩家之后
[1:05:03]	is that all that stuff is muted.	那些感受都消失了
[1:05:05]	So you feel nothing talking to the girl	所以你和女孩子讲话的时候什么都感受不到
[1:05:08]	but the thing is then when you get her,	但是问题是得到她之后
[1:05:09]	it’s just slightly satisfying.	只有一点点的满足感
[1:05:12]	There’s no emotional resonance.	完全没有情感上的共鸣
[1:05:14]	It’s a penetrating loneliness.	这是一种很透彻的寂寞感
[1:05:16]	I think part of my getting out of that world	我认为我想离开那个世界一部分原因
[1:05:18]	was realizing part of myself was dying and that–	就是感觉我内心一部分死掉了
[1:05:21]	And the more I did that, the I better I became,	我做得越多 我做的越好
[1:05:23]	the more I died inside.	我内心就越来越消沉
[1:05:25]	That youthful exuberant, over excited boy, that 7-year-old	那个年轻的兴致勃勃的男孩子 那个7岁的
[1:05:29]	who was excited about the girl,	对女孩很感兴趣
[1:05:30]	and wanted to give her the flower, as he died and I said,	并且想给她送一束花的男孩 他死了
[1:05:33]	but it all doesn’t matter	但这一切都无关紧要
[1:05:34]	if you lose that part of you life is overall flat.	如果你失去了那部分你的生活会索然无味
[1:05:38]	And I’ve recovered that in my marriage	我已经从我的婚姻
[1:05:40]	and in my connection with my wife, without talking too much.	和我妻子的关系中恢复了 不需要说很多
[1:05:43]	But I’m able to re-find my humanity.	但我能重新找回我的人性
[1:05:47]	The really good guys	在搭讪这个世界里玩得转的男生
[1:05:48]	in the pickup space have killed part of themselves off	已经以责任的名义抹杀了
[1:05:50]	in the name of duty.	他们的一部分人性了
[1:05:51]	They have a hard time moving their emotional needle.	他们很难去改变这种情感上的刺激
[1:05:54]	The better they get, the more they’ve gotta give	他们越熟练 越抛弃了自己的人性
[1:05:56]	until they’ve given all of their humanity	直到他们的人性泯灭
[1:05:59]	in the pursuit of this thing, but what’s left?	在追求这个东西的过程中 但剩下了什么
[1:06:03]	It can become empty, and unfeeling.	他们可能会变得空虚 无情
[1:06:09]	And the longer someone does that and the deeper they go,	一个人这样做越久 就会陷得越深
[1:06:12]	I think the more damage they can do.	因此我认为他们能造成的伤害越大
[1:06:15]	Hey guys, Bruce Wayne.	大家好 这里是Bruce Wayne
[1:06:16]	And today I’m going to interview Justin Wayne.	今天我要采访贾斯汀·韦恩
[1:06:19]	And we’re gonna talk about how to keep	我们要谈谈如何保持
[1:06:21]	multiple hot women in your life.	你生活中有多个辣妹
[1:06:24]	But first, we’re gonna show you hidden camera footage	但首先 我们要给你看隐藏相机
[1:06:27]	where Justin picks up women from the streets of New York,	拍摄的贾斯汀在纽约街头搭讪女孩的画面
[1:06:30]	makes them his girlfriends, gets them to tattoo his name	让她们成为他的女朋友 为了表达她们的挚爱
[1:06:33]	to show their devoted love,	让她们把他的名字纹在身上
[1:06:35]	brings them all together	最后让她们都走到一起
[1:06:36]	and then finally reveals they were on camera all along.	告诉她们一直都有镜头在拍摄
[1:06:41]	And believe it or not, they all stick around afterwards.	不管你信不信 她们都会留下来
[1:06:43]	What did I lie to you about?	我骗你什么了
[1:06:44]	Tell me what I lied to you about?	告诉我我骗你什么了
[1:06:46]	You told me that it’s us now.	你告诉过我现在你只有我了
[1:06:47]	Yes, yes.	没错
[1:06:49]	So why are you loving her?	那你为什么爱她
[1:06:52]	She feels uncomfortable.	她觉得不舒服
[1:06:53]	You said you feel uncomfortable being around her too?	你说你和她在一起也不舒服吗
[1:06:55]	You both feel uncomfortable being around each other?	你们俩在一起都感觉不舒服吗
[1:06:56]	I don’t feel uncomfortable with her.	我没有觉得和她在一起不舒服
[1:07:00]	I just feel uncomfortable with…	我只是觉得
[1:07:02]	-The situation. -Yeah.	– 这种状况不舒服 – 是的
[1:07:04]	Whoever doesn’t like it,	谁不喜欢的话
[1:07:05]	you can just walk away, that’s it.	你可以直接走人的
[1:07:08]	I’m not forcing anyone to do anything they don’t wanna do.	我不会强迫任何人做他们不想做的事
[1:07:11]	That’s all I’m gonna say.	这就是我要说的
[1:07:12]	These girls seriously hated each other.	这些女孩彼此非常讨厌
[1:07:14]	You can see it in their eyes there’s fury,	你可以从她们的眼睛里看到愤怒
[1:07:16]	like, “How come this other girl has his name tattooed?”	像是”为什么另一个女孩也有他名字纹身”
[1:07:20]	“I want him all for myself.”	“我要独占他”
[1:07:23]	Justin puts them to like, puts them like	贾斯汀就和她们说
[1:07:25]	“Yo, you guys can’t do this, you have to be friends.”	“你们不能这么做 你们得做朋友”
[1:07:27]	He’s like their dad or something.	他就像她们的爸爸
[1:07:32]	If you hit the momentum going up,	如果你遇到上升的势头
[1:07:35]	that’s when you learn the quickest	那是你学得最快的时候
[1:07:37]	and that’s why we do a seven day, seven night residential,	这就是为什么要和我们一起
[1:07:41]	living with us, live and breathe with us.	住七天七夜 和我们一起吃住
[1:07:46]	We should talk about San Tropez.	我们应该谈谈圣特罗佩斯
[1:07:48]	Project Hollywood but in San Tropez on a beach.	好莱坞计划 但在圣特罗佩斯的海滩
[1:07:52]	We’ve got a six-bedroom mansion, we’ve sold three of ’em,	我们有一栋六居室的豪宅 已经卖掉了三间
[1:07:56]		9000美元/人
[1:07:56]	we’ve got three bedrooms left.	我们还有三间卧室
[1:07:58]	Your fucking game’s good, man, I think you’re ready.	你玩得一手好游戏 我想你准备好了
[1:08:02]	Almost with every company I worked with	几乎和我合作过的每一家公司
[1:08:04]	it gets to a point where the numbers become really enticing	到了一定程度 搭讪公司会痴迷于
[1:08:07]	to the pickup company.	高额收入所带来的的吸引力
[1:08:22]	Okay.	好吧
[1:08:23]	When this happens, the instructors,	当这种情况发生时 导师们
[1:08:25]	or the people who started the company, the pickup company,	或者是创办搭讪公司的人
[1:08:28]	they start seeing their customers as figures and numbers.	他们开始把顾客看成图表和数字
[1:08:32]	Some of the humanity is lost.	他们丧失了一些人性
[1:08:35]	So what you can do is make a payment plan.	所以你能做的就是制定一个付款计划
[1:08:38]	So you can pay 50 euros now, and 50 euros the next month,	你现在可以付50欧元 下个月付50欧元
[1:08:42]	and the next month, and the next month,	下个月 下个月
[1:08:43]	and so on, you also get the bonuses today.	以此类推 今天报名你能拿到补贴
[1:08:45]	With any product in the pickup business,	在搭讪行业的任何产品
[1:08:47]	everything is just a case of how much profit was made.	一切都只是盈利多少的问题
[1:08:50]	What can you spend to still be profitable?	你能如何努力来保持盈利
[1:08:53]	This is for the Lay Reports, they’re the bonus.	这是给外行看的报告 这有折扣
[1:08:57]	“50 Shades of Max.”	“麦克斯的五十道灰”
[1:08:59]	I hate to talk about this	我不想谈这个
[1:09:00]	but there have been pickup companies that will hire escorts	但也有一些搭讪公司会在训练营里雇佣小姐
[1:09:03]	at a bootcamp just so that the men have a good experience,	就是为了让学员们有个好的体验
[1:09:06]	and buy another bootcamp, or buy more training.	再来一次训练营 或者买更多的训练课程
[1:09:09]	Let’s say it’s $1500 for the bootcamp,	假设训练营收费1500美元
[1:09:12]	the instructor is paid $700, you hire an escort for $200,	导师的薪水是700美元 雇一个小姐要200美元
[1:09:17]	you still have $600 remaining.	你还剩下600美元
[1:09:19]	None of the companies I’ve worked with have ever done that,	我合作过的公司都没有这样做过
[1:09:22]	but I’m aware of all the companies that have.	但我知道所有这样做的公司
[1:09:24]	If you’re involved in the business,	如果你参与过这项业务
[1:09:26]	instructors will speak openly about it.	导师们会公开谈论这件事
[1:09:28]	When we looked deeper into RSD,	当我们深入研究RSD时
[1:09:30]	they were saying like when you go into the field	当他们说去实地
[1:09:33]	to practice on girls,	在女孩身上练习的时候
[1:09:34]	they actually hire some of those girls.	他们实际上雇佣了其中一些女孩
[1:09:36]	I mean, some of them are just poor women at the bar	我是说 他们中的一些人只是酒吧里的可怜女人
[1:09:38]	that they’re practicing on.	他们在她们身上做实践
[1:09:41]	But in terms of their field footage,	但从他们的现场录像来看
[1:09:42]	it’s like they hire people to do that, it’s not real.	就好像他们雇人那样做 这不是真的
[1:09:47]	This happens a lot.	这种情况经常发生
[1:09:47]		x女士 你好 就一个关女演员的 简单的问题 我们想要录制 另外一个视频小样并且想知道 你有没有朋友想做这个 我们想录一个近距离亲吻的视频 一个男生在街上拦下一个女生 并且亲吻她 如果有的话清告诉我
[1:09:48]	This happens a lot, even with the companies I worked with.	这种事经常发生 即使是我工作过的公司
[1:09:50]	The instructor would hire actors for the infield videos.	导师会雇佣演员来拍摄室内录像
[1:09:54]	And that is clearly unethical.	这显然是不道德的
[1:09:56]	That is clearly unethical.	这显然是不道德的
[1:09:58]	Things have been become completely corrupt.	事情已经变得完全腐败了
[1:10:01]	If that company is saying,	如果那家公司说
[1:10:02]	“Oh, we’re offering 9 out of 10 success with women.”	“我们的学员搭讪10个有9个都成功了”
[1:10:05]	This company’s gonna have to offer	这家公司就必须说出
[1:10:06]	10 out of 10 success with women.	10个都成功的口号
[1:10:08]	Then where do you draw the line?	那你在哪里划清界限呢
[1:10:10]	I’ll tell you with Neil,	我告诉你尼尔的情况
[1:10:11]	his first six months were harsh.	他前六个月过得很艰难
[1:10:14]	But the next six months, he had 70 girls.	但在接下来的六个月里 他有了70个女孩
[1:10:17]	70,	70个
[1:10:19]	70,	70个啊
[1:10:21]	in six months.	就在六个月里
[1:10:23]	It’s like, “He kisses a girl on the street,	就像”他在街上吻一个女孩”
[1:10:25]	“must have been an actress!”	“肯定是演员”
[1:10:26]	Yes, I’ve heard some people use actresses.	是的 我听说有些人雇女演员
[1:10:29]	I never heard escorts though.	但我从来没听过有小姐
[1:10:30]	“Of course those are just actresses, yeah, thank God.”	“那些当然只是女演员 谢天谢地”
[1:10:34]	“Now I don’t have to take action myself.”	“现在我不用自己动手了”
[1:10:36]	If they were actresses	如果她们是女演员
[1:10:37]	I would have paid good better looking actresses.	我会付钱找更好看的女演员
[1:10:40]	So no, we don’t entertain any of that stuff.	所以我们不搞那些东西
[1:10:45]	What the customers believe is going on is they think	顾客所相信的是他们觉得
[1:10:49]	any time a pickup instructor goes and speaks to women,	搭讪导师每次去和女性说话时
[1:10:51]	it goes incredibly well.	都会进展得非常顺利
[1:10:53]	That’s the myth.	这是个神话
[1:10:54]	You’re the best, I love you!	你是最棒的 我爱你
[1:10:56]	-I will not kiss you though. -Goodbye.	– 但我不会吻你的 – 再见
[1:10:57]	– Goodbye. – Kiss you on the cheek.	-再见 -只能吻你的脸颊
[1:11:00]	– Rejection! Rejection! – Flirty boy, oh my God.	-拒绝了 她拒绝了 -调情男孩 我的天
[1:11:02]	Rejection!	我被拒绝了
[1:11:04]	The reality is, these pickup instructors	事实上 这些搭讪导师
[1:11:06]	spend an entire day filming themselves approaching women	花一整天的时间拍摄自己接近女人
[1:11:09]	and speaking to them, and 98% of those interactions	然后和她们搭讪 98%的交流
[1:11:13]	would not go well.	都不顺利
[1:11:15]	So what they will do, they will take just the shots	所以他们会做的只是把进展顺利的画面
[1:11:17]	that went well and what you see while you are at the seminar	拍下来 你在讨论会上看到的
[1:11:21]	is just success, after success, after success.	只是成功的那部分 一次又一次的成功
[1:11:24]	You just make the assumption	你会假设
[1:11:25]	that’s just how it goes every time.	每次都是这样
[1:11:27]	You have no concept that there were 95 other shots	你不知道还有95个镜头
[1:11:30]	that they are not showing you.	他们没有给你看
[1:11:32]	And I would never have known that	如果我没有和他们一起工作过
[1:11:34]	had I not worked with them.	我永远也不会知道
[1:11:38]	They are no longer my heroes.	他们不再是我的英雄了
[1:11:42]	That was a very strange experience	那是一次非常奇怪的经历
[1:11:43]	because you go from putting these people on a pedestal,	因为你非常崇拜这些人
[1:11:46]	and thinking they have their entire lives together,	以为他们一辈子都有女人
[1:11:49]	and they are the way they are on stage.	他们就在舞台上
[1:11:51]	But that’s just a performance.	但那只是一场表演
[1:11:54]	Yeah, they want me to do another Hot Seat there.	是的 他们想让我在那再做一个活动设计
[1:11:56]	– Really? – Sick.	-真的吗 -有病
[1:11:58]	Well, it’s money.	因为能赚钱嘛
[1:12:00]	Yeah.	是的
[1:12:01]	The rest of the time they spend stressing out	剩下的时间他们都很紧张
[1:12:03]	about the business, about videos,	关于业务 关于视频
[1:12:06]	how they’re gonna do a live event.	以及他们将如何进行现场活动
[1:12:08]	But the students don’t see that side of it.	但学生们看不到这方面
[1:12:11]	The students aspire to be something	学生们渴望的东西
[1:12:13]	that isn’t actually real.	都不是真实的
[1:12:15]	When teachers are charging people	当导师向人们收取上千元
[1:12:17]	thousands to come and do their course,	来参加他们的课程
[1:12:19]	and they’re guaranteeing them results,	并且他们保证结果是好的
[1:12:22]	well, there’s a huge incentive for them	对他们来说那是很大的激励
[1:12:24]	to push to get those results.	来得到这些结果
[1:12:26]	Come with us!	跟我们走吧
[1:12:27]	What are you doing? Oh my God.	你在做什么 我的天
[1:12:29]	You’re going with Jens and us.	你要和延斯还有我们一起去
[1:12:31]	You’re partying with us.	你要和我们一起去派对
[1:12:34]	Jens, we’re gonna make her fuck you tonight, how’s that?	延斯 我们今晚要让她操你 怎么样
[1:12:37]	We’re gonna get you laid tonight.	今晚我们会让你上床的
[1:12:38]	She’s like, “I gonna–“	她说 我要
[1:12:41]	Fuck you, Jens.	操你 延斯
[1:12:43]	Fuck you, Jens, man!	操你 延斯
[1:12:48]	You know what?	你知道吗
[1:12:49]	Jamba Juice basically has the best juices in New York	坚宝果汁基本上是纽约最好的果汁
[1:12:52]	it’s right over there.	就在那边
[1:12:52]	Let’s take them there quickly, we have to go now.	我们赶快带他们去 我们得走了
[1:12:54]	But let me show you where it is, let’s go, tour guide.	但让我带你去哪儿 我们走 导游
[1:12:57]	Hey Bruce, Jamba Juice is over there.	布鲁斯 坚宝果汁就在那边
[1:12:59]	Yeah, yeah, we’re at Jamba Juice.	是的 我们在坚宝果汁这
[1:13:04]	When you’re walking a girl home,	当你送一个女孩回家的时候
[1:13:06]	she’s going to maybe start putting up all these defenses.	她可能会开始采取这些防御措施
[1:13:10]	Particularly if someone’s had a few drinks or something	尤其是有人喝了几杯酒之类
[1:13:12]	let their inhibitions go a little bit,	她们的行为不那么受控制的时候
[1:13:14]	and maybe they find themselves going home	也许她们会发现她们和
[1:13:16]	with a guy that they’ve just met.	刚认识没多久的男生回家了
[1:13:20]	Oh, yeah, rooftop here, boom.	就是这里 到了
[1:13:22]	It’s a public place, you will see.	这是一个公共场所 你会看到的
[1:13:24]	Let’s go.	走吧
[1:13:26]	It’s a public place.	这是个公共场所
[1:13:28]	They might start to sober up a bit	她们可能会开始清醒一点
[1:13:29]	and think, “Hang on a minute, what am I doing?	然后想”等一下 我在干什么”
[1:13:31]	“I don’t do this.”	“我不能这么做”
[1:13:33]	Game will teach a guy how to handle that sort of situation	这个游戏可以教会一个人如何处理这种情况
[1:13:37]	but not with the girl’s best intentions, of course.	当然不是出于为了女孩好
[1:13:40]	With pickup advice it would get very specific too to a single line.	有了搭讪的建议台词也会变得非常具体
[1:13:44]	Lines like, “Oh, don’t worry,	像”别担心”这样的台词
[1:13:46]	“we’re just gonna go back to an after party.”	“我们只是想再来一个派对”
[1:13:48]	But there is no after party.	但是没有派对
[1:13:49]	It’s just a line to get that girl back to your house.	那只是一句让女孩去你房间的台词
[1:13:52]	You don’t believe us?	你不相信我们吗
[1:13:52]	There’s a door man right there.	那边有个门卫
[1:13:54]	There’s a door man right there who works here.	有个门卫在那工作
[1:13:56]	All right?	好吗
[1:13:57]	Let’s talk to the door man.	我们去和门卫谈谈
[1:13:58]	The girls stopped and they were looking at us like,	那些女孩们停下来了 她们正看着我们
[1:14:01]	“Wait, the juice place is in there?”	像在问”等等 饮料店在那吗”
[1:14:06]	I tried to bullshit,	我本想乱说
[1:14:07]	like, “yeah, of course, it’s right here.”	像”是的 当然了 饮料店就在那”
[1:14:09]	And then my target was just like	接下来我的目标就会这样说
[1:14:11]	“No, I’m not going in there.”	“不 我不去那”
[1:14:12]	She’s playing hard to get.	她努力想弄明白
[1:14:13]	So they won’t say to the girl in the club,	所以他们不会跟夜店的女孩说
[1:14:16]	“Do you wanna come home with me?”	“你想跟我回家吗”
[1:14:18]	They’ll say, “Do you wanna go and get an ice cream?”	他们会说”你想去买冰激凌吗”
[1:14:20]	Or something like that,	或者其他类似说法
[1:14:21]	and then they will just walk her to their house.	然后他们把她带回他们家
[1:14:23]	A lot of guys will say, “You’re just creating a situation	很多男的会说”你只是设计了一个”
[1:14:25]	“in which she feels more comfortable.”	“让她感觉更舒服的情景”
[1:14:27]	“It’s what she wants to do anyway.”	“不管怎样这是她想要的”
[1:14:28]	“You’re just helping her to do that”	“你只是帮了她一把”
[1:14:30]	“because she’s got so many mental blocks”	“因为她有太多顾虑”
[1:14:32]	“that are gonna get in the way.”	“阻碍她”
[1:14:36]	So, it’s your…?	所以 这是你的
[1:14:37]	This is my bedroom.	这是我的卧室
[1:14:39]	this is my bedroom, come inside, let’s go.	这是我的卧室 进来吧 一起来吧
[1:14:41]	Let’s make love in my bedroom.	我们在这里做爱
[1:14:43]	This is your?	这是你的吗
[1:14:44]	come on.	过来
[1:14:45]	It’s okay, it’s okay, everything’s fine.	没事的 没事的 不用担心
[1:14:47]	This is not a bedroom, okay?	这不是卧室 好吗
[1:14:49]	But then they’ll maybe keep pushing to a point	然后他们可能会紧逼着她
[1:14:52]	where she’s not comfortable with it.	让她感到不舒服
[1:14:55]	And then she’ll feel like she’s gone so far,	然后她会觉得一切发展得太过了
[1:14:58]	and she’s not comfortable anymore,	她不再感到舒服了
[1:15:00]	but, it’s too late to go back, or a situation like that.	但是 像这种情况 一切都太晚了
[1:15:03]	And I think, then, you’re in a situation where	我认为 那么 这种情况下
[1:15:07]	it’s up to the guy’s morals to do what’s right.	取决于男的去做道德上的正确决定
[1:15:11]	In that situation where he’s got a girl in his house	在这种带一个女孩回家
[1:15:15]	with the best will in the world,	他还能抱着世界上最好的意愿的情况下
[1:15:16]	I think some guys will just not do the right thing.	我认为一些男的不只是想做正确的事
[1:15:24]	My name is Jackie Speier,	我是杰基·斯佩耶
[1:15:25]	I’m a congresswoman from California.	来自加利福尼亚的国会女议员
[1:15:28]	I have been in Congress now about 10 years.	我在国会待了近10年
[1:15:30]	And I focus in on issues around violence against women.	专注于针对妇女的暴力问题
[1:15:36]	I’m always amazed at how we don’t know everything.	我一直惊讶于我们怎么什么都不知道
[1:15:42]	And that something like this pickup industry is going on	像这种搭讪行业
[1:15:45]	without our knowledge.	在我们不知情的情况下一直进行着
[1:15:48]	When you start to evaluate the products,	当你开始评估这种成品
[1:15:52]	whether it’s books, or classes, or training.	不管是书本 课堂还是培训
[1:15:56]	All the fucking mistakes.	所有的都他妈是错的
[1:15:56]	You begin to realize	你开始认识到
[1:15:58]	that it’s a very predatory industry against women.	这是一种对女性进行掠夺的行业
[1:16:01]	Whether or not you’re gonna fuck her.	不管你有没有上她
[1:16:04]	I think that it’s very important	我认为这非常重要
[1:16:06]	to raise everyone’s awareness about this.	让每个人重视这个问题
[1:16:09]	It’s astonishing to me that this industry is	让我惊讶的是 这个行业
[1:16:13]	as widespread as it appears to be.	比看起来范围更广
[1:16:19]	The subculture that is being created and this industry,	这种创造出来的亚文化和这个行业
[1:16:22]	let’s face it, it’s all about money,	事实上 一切都是关乎金钱
[1:16:24]	is this expectation that this woman is mine for the taking.	以及带走这个女人的期望
[1:16:30]	And I just need to use these techniques	我只需要用这些方法
[1:16:33]	and I will conquer her.	就会征服她
[1:16:37]	But, in the process of doing that if there is not consent,	但是这种情况 如果没有同意
[1:16:41]	you have a rape.	就是强暴
[1:16:43]	You have a sexual assault.	就是性侵犯
[1:16:51]	9-1-1, who is this?	这里是911 你是谁
[1:16:54]	Hi, I’m calling	你好 我打电话来
[1:16:56]	because my friend has just been.	因为我的朋友刚刚被
[1:16:58]	I can’t hear you, your friend what?	我听不到 你朋友怎么了
[1:16:59]	Has been raped.	被强暴了
[1:17:01]	Are you guys together right now?	你们现在在一起吗
[1:17:03]	Yes.	是的
[1:17:03]	Where at?	在哪
[1:17:04]	We’re downtown,	我们在市区
[1:17:07]	I don’t know what apartment building.	我不知道哪个公寓
[1:17:10]	Okay, is the suspect still there?	好的 嫌疑犯还在那吗
[1:17:12]	Yeah.	在的
[1:17:13]	Okay. I really need to know where you guys are at.	好的 我需要知道你们在哪
[1:17:17]	Let me know when you have the address, okay,	知道地址的时候告诉我们 好吗
[1:17:18]	so we can send somebody right away.	我们好马上派人过去
[1:17:20]	Okay.	好的
[1:17:22]	Do you know this guy’s name?	你知道男的名字吗
[1:17:24]	Do you know what his name was?	你知道他名字吗
[1:17:26]	I don’t know his name.	我不知道
[1:17:34]	In the fall of 2013,	在2013年的秋天
[1:17:38]	a couple of young men moved into	一对年轻人搬到了
[1:17:40]	one of the properties I manage.	我管理的其中一座房子
[1:17:42]	And I noticed all of a sudden a lot of early morning traffic	我突然注意到一大早突然有很多车
[1:17:47]	coming and going, the tempo of the building changed,	来来往往 房子周围的节奏变了
[1:17:50]	the vibe in the building changed.	房子周围氛围变了
[1:17:52]	And usually that signaled like some kinda crime spree,	这常常预示着某种犯罪
[1:17:55]	like car breaks or something.	像砸车或其他什么的
[1:17:58]	Then, I saw an incident where two young women	然后 我看到两个年轻女人
[1:18:02]	were walking out and one of the young women	走出来 其中一个
[1:18:06]	was just walking out like this	就像这样走出来
[1:18:08]	and I just had a really sinking feeling	当时我心里真的一沉
[1:18:11]	that something bad had happened.	肯定发生了什么不好的事
[1:18:13]	I checked the video	我查看监控
[1:18:15]	and I did have the young woman on camera.	在镜头里我真的看到了这个年轻女人
[1:18:18]	And I started watching crimemapping.Com,	然后我开始看犯罪地图网
[1:18:22]	and then I saw a report of rape in the area.	看到这区域有一则强奸报道
[1:18:26]	So I contacted the police department and	所以我联系了警察局
[1:18:29]	asked please have a detective call me	要求让一个警探给我回电话
[1:18:30]	so we can check the video,	这样我们可以一起查看监控
[1:18:32]	and if there’s any evidence turn it over to the police.	看是否有任何证据可以给到警察
[1:18:42]	Two young women went out for a fun girl’s night	两个年轻女人晚上
[1:18:46]	in the Gaslamp District.	来瓦斯灯街区寻乐
[1:18:47]	At bar time closing around 2:00 in the morning	在酒吧关门的时间点 凌晨两点左右
[1:18:50]	while waiting for their Uber	她们正在等优步时
[1:18:52]	they were approached by two men.	两个男的靠近过来
[1:18:53]	The men appeared to be nice looking, friendly.	他们表现得很帅 很友好
[1:18:57]	And they invited ’em back	然后他们邀请她们
[1:18:58]	to an after party at their apartment.	去他们家的派对
[1:19:01]	Just a few blocks from where they	他们说公寓离她们
[1:19:02]	were waiting for the Uber.	叫车的地方只隔几个街区
[1:19:03]	Once they got to the apartment	他们一到公寓
[1:19:05]	one of the women was led to a bedroom with one male.	一个女的被一个男的带进卧室
[1:19:09]	She recalls taking a sip of something.	她回想起抿了一小口什么
[1:19:11]	Next thing she knows is everything was kinda hazy.	下一步她什么都记不清了
[1:19:15]	Ultimately, the friend	最后 这个朋友
[1:19:17]	and the second male entered the apartment	和另一个男的进到公寓
[1:19:20]	where the friend saw a third male lying on the couch.	看到还有一个男的躺在沙发上
[1:19:24]	The friend and the second male went into another bedroom.	这个朋友和这个男的进到另外一个卧室
[1:19:27]	Where they proceeded to have a beer	他们继续喝啤酒
[1:19:28]	and engage in conversation.	聊着天
[1:19:32]	At some point, the victim’s friend got a little nervous.	某种程度上 这个受害者的朋友有点紧张
[1:19:34]	She didn’t understand where her friend was.	她不知道她的朋友在哪
[1:19:36]	She wanted to check up on her.	她想要去找她
[1:19:37]	She walked through apartment,	她走过公寓
[1:19:39]	opened up the other bedroom door	打开另一个卧室门
[1:19:41]	and saw her friend lying face down,	看她朋友趴在那 没有意识
[1:19:44]	unconscious, in a pool of vomit with her dress off.	衣服被脱掉了 瘫在一堆呕吐物中
[1:19:48]	She saw the first male that they had met on the street along	她看到她们在街上遇到的第一个男的
[1:19:52]	with a third male, the one who had been observed on the couch,	和那个躺在沙发上的男的
[1:19:56]	standing there naked, erect and laughing.	全身赤裸 勃起着站在那里笑着
[1:20:04]	We get a lot of cases that involve alcohol, unfortunately.	不幸的是 我们有很多这种灌醉的案子
[1:20:09]	When someone is so intoxicated	当某人喝醉以至于
[1:20:12]	that they cannot consent it’s called rape by intoxication.	无法同意发生性行为 这叫做醉酒强奸
[1:20:16]	They are extremely difficult cases to prove	这种很难取证证明
[1:20:19]	because a lot of times the only people who have evidence	因为很多时候有证据的这个人
[1:20:23]	are the victim and the defendant.	只有受害者和被告
[1:20:25]	Because of the victim’s intoxication,	因为受害者喝醉了
[1:20:27]	the defendant can write the story.	被告可以胡乱说
[1:20:30]	The victim in this case had no idea who these males were.	这种情况下受害者不知道男的是谁
[1:20:36]	The only information she had was from her friend	这仅有的线索是从她那
[1:20:40]	who had seen one of the male’s driver’s license.	看过其中一个男的驾照的朋友那来的
[1:20:44]	When the victim’s friend and one of the perpetrators	当受害者的朋友和其中一个罪犯
[1:20:46]	were in the bedroom she asked his name	在卧式的时候 她问了他名字
[1:20:50]	and he told her that his name was Jonas Dick.	他告诉她 他叫乔纳斯·迪克
[1:20:53]	And she did not believe that his name was Dick.	她不相信他叫迪克
[1:20:56]	And he showed her his driver’s license.	然后他给她看了他的驾照
[1:21:00]	The victim went online,	受害者上网
[1:21:01]	through a lot of her own investigation	自己进行了很多调查
[1:21:04]	was able to locate a Jonas Dick from Kansas	在一个叫RSD国度的网站上
[1:21:08]	on this website called RSD Nation.	找到一个在堪萨斯州叫乔纳斯·迪克的人
[1:21:12]	The victim did some further computer research	受害者在网上进一步搜索
[1:21:15]	where she found that Jonas Dick was also an instructor	发现在高效搭讪网上
[1:21:18]	on a website called efficientpickup.Com.	乔纳斯·迪克还是个导师
[1:21:23]	There was another male, also on efficientpickup.Com	另一个男的在高效搭讪网上
[1:21:27]	as an instructor, and that was Alexander Smith.	也是导师 叫亚历山大·史密斯
[1:21:32]	The victim recognized Alexander Smith	受害者认出了亚历山大·史密斯
[1:21:35]	to be one of the perpetrators,	是其中一个罪犯
[1:21:37]	one of the individuals who assaulted her on that evening.	是那天晚上侵犯她的那个人
[1:21:41]	The victim then read through a lot of these blogs	然后受害者看了很多这种博客
[1:21:45]	that were a part of efficientpickup.Com and one of the blogs	部分是高效搭讪网上的
[1:21:48]	that she came across was a blog by Alex Smith	她发现其中一个博客是亚历山大·史密斯写的
[1:21:52]	and it was titled “LR, Lay Report.”	标题是”上床报告”
[1:21:55]	“Run a Train With Bootcamp Student.”	“和新兵训练营学生训练”
[1:21:58]	She located further a blog by Jason Berlin	她又找到一个杰森·柏林写的博客
[1:22:02]	who was a bootcamp student.	他是新兵训练营的学生
[1:22:04]	Mr. Berlin went into great detail	柏林先生写得很详细
[1:22:08]	about what happened in that room.	关于发生在那个房间的事情
[1:22:13]	So they, kinda put it out there.	所以他们把这事放到网上
[1:22:17]	Wrote a confession and put it online	写个忏悔发布到网上
[1:22:19]	for the whole world to see.	让全世界看到
[1:22:35]		根据陪审团审判结果 及加州法律最高量刑 亚历山大·史密斯和乔纳斯·迪克 各判8年有期徒刑
[1:22:49]		在与亚历山大·史密斯 和乔纳斯·迪克 当庭对质后 杰森·柏林于审判日当天 向法庭承认犯罪事实
[1:23:28]		尽管杰森·柏林已提供证词 并作为证人协助审讯 他仍被判处6年有期徒刑
[1:23:33]	I don’t know how new this is.	我不知道这是不是什么新鲜事
[1:23:34]	Apparently, the pickup artist industry	显然 搭讪艺术行业
[1:23:36]	has been around for a long time.	存在很长时间了
[1:23:39]	But the callousness of these individuals,	但是这个行业的无情
[1:23:43]	especially Mr. Smith and Mr. Dick,	尤其史密斯先生和迪克先生
[1:23:46]	who were creating this company	创办了这个公司
[1:23:51]	and teaching people how to essentially overcome obstacles,	教人们怎么根本上战胜阻碍
[1:23:58]	taking advantage of women and raping them,	从女性身上占便宜并强奸她们
[1:24:02]	is something that I had never seen.	这种事情我从来没见过
[1:24:04]	I mean, the fact that they have this vocabulary	我意思是 实际上他们有这种观念
[1:24:07]	and this mindset, and that they’re teaching it to people.	和思维模式 他们把它教给人们
[1:24:11]	And then they brag about it.	然后他们还以此为荣
[1:24:13]	That’s what’s so disturbing to me.	就是这一直困扰着我
[1:24:14]	Is that they find it funny.	他们觉得这好玩
[1:24:16]	I mean, if you saw the victim	我意思是 如果你看到受害者
[1:24:19]	and the friend talked about how	和她的朋友说着
[1:24:21]	when she was leaving in her pool of vomit	当她被置于自己的呕吐物中不管时
[1:24:24]	they were laughing at her.	他们是如何在取笑她
[1:24:27]	And then went onto a website, bragging about it.	然后到网站上去夸耀
[1:24:30]	And saying, “This is fucking hilarious.”	说”这他妈太好笑了”
[1:24:34]	They think it’s hilarious.	他们觉得那很好笑
[1:24:45]	The majority of teachers are teaching	大多数那些老师都在教
[1:24:48]	some form of process that’s quite unemotional.	一些很无情的流程
[1:24:56]	You know, put in this input, you’ll get this output.	就是你付出这个 得到那个
[1:25:00]	And in the process of dehumanizing women	而在物化女性的过程中
[1:25:03]	they are also dehumanizing themselves	他们自己也逐渐丧失了人性
[1:25:06]	by becoming unemotional and treating people badly.	变得冷漠 然后糟糕地对待他人
[1:25:12]	And not feeling any remorse or guilt about that.	而不觉得悔恨或是内疚
[1:25:18]	Not having any empathy.	没有一点同情心
[1:25:23]	It dehumanizes everybody in the process, not just the girls,	过程中双方都被物化了 不只是姑娘们
[1:25:27]	but also the student too.	学生也是
[1:25:30]	That’s why I do want to be a part of this.	所以我才想参与进来
[1:25:33]	Because I think it does need to be shown for what it is.	因为我觉得应该揭露出这个行业的真相
[1:25:37]	As a warning to potential students and to girls.	作为对潜在学生和姑娘们的警示
[1:25:44]	I think what has been lost	我觉得在这个时代
[1:25:46]	is that men don’t have real mentors anymore.	男人没有了真正的导师
[1:25:52]	We have school teachers, and we have parents	我们有学校老师 我们有父母
[1:25:55]	who often have such busy schedules,	但他们通常都日程都排得很满
[1:25:58]	they don’t have time for their kids.	没时间来关心他们的孩子
[1:26:00]	And what we’re left with are books and the internet	我们只能与书本和网络为伴
[1:26:02]	just to learn how life works.	在上面寻找人生的答案
[1:26:05]	We don’t have the strong father figures	我们不再有强大父亲般的人物
[1:26:08]	we used to have 50 or 100 years ago.	像50或者100年前那样
[1:26:11]	Growing up, I had a lack of that in my life.	在我的成长过程中 少了一个那样的人
[1:26:14]	My friends too,	我的朋友们也是一样
[1:26:15]	growing up they had the lack of that in their lives.	他们成长的过程中也都少了一个那样的人
[1:26:17]	Not only friends from the pickup industry,	不光是我在搭讪业的朋友
[1:26:20]	but friends in general.	而是所有的朋友
[1:26:24]	That’s my personal opinion.	这是我个人的看法
[1:26:27]	Some instructors, I feel like they’re unhappy.	一些讲师 我感觉他们并不开心
[1:26:31]	I don’t feel like they’re really happy.	我不觉得他们真的开心
[1:26:33]	I looked at them inside.	我看过他们的内在
[1:26:35]	Like, I look at their actions and they’re not really,	就是我观察过他们 而他们并不是真的
[1:26:41]	they’re not really there.	他们并不是真的那样
[1:26:43]	And so, I need to pause,	所以我需要停一下
[1:26:46]	relax and ask myself.	放松一下然后问问我自己
[1:26:48]	Why am I here?	我为什么在这里
[1:26:50]	What game or pickup can do for some people	游戏或是搭讪为一些人
[1:26:53]	is to create this way	创造了这种方式
[1:26:55]	of having physical closeness with a girl,	来与女孩发生身体上的亲密接触
[1:27:01]	but without having to actually be intimate	而不用真的在情感上变得亲密
[1:27:03]	or put any feelings at risk.	或是冒着自己感情被伤害的风险
[1:27:05]	Without actually having to feel at all.	不用投入任何感情
[1:27:07]	But, if you don’t allow yourself to feel pain,	但如果你不允许自己感受到痛苦
[1:27:11]	then you’re not gonna be allowing yourself to feel love either.	你也同样感受不到爱
[1:27:14]	And I think if you really look at these people	如果你认真地观察这些人
[1:27:16]	is there any love in their life?	他们的生活里有爱吗
[1:27:20]	There’s lots of women, but is there any love?	他们身边是有很多女人 但有爱吗
[1:27:24]	The dating game as practiced nowadays,	如今的约会攻略
[1:27:26]	which is quite aggressive, I think, it’s a loveless pursuit.	我觉得侵略性太强了 成了种无爱追求
[1:27:32]	People are out for themselves.	人们都是为了自己
[1:27:34]	People are trying to get laid or they’re evaluating people.	只是试图和别人上床或者在评估他人
[1:27:37]	It’s quite a mercenary environment.	功利性太强了
[1:27:40]	And now that I’m married I have a lot of love in my life.	现在我结婚了 我的生活里有了许多爱
[1:27:43]	My whole life is infused and surrounded by love.	我的生活里充满了爱 被爱所包围着
[1:27:45]	Having dated all these women,	约会过那么多女人
[1:27:47]	many of ’em cosmetically	她们中很多人浓妆艳抹的
[1:27:49]	very sexy and stunning like.	非常性感和惊艳
[1:27:51]	The thing that’s rare is not good looks.	但这个世上稀少的并不是美丽的外表
[1:27:53]	The thing that’s rare is character.	真正稀有的是美好的人格
[1:27:54]	How do they show discipline and boundaries?	她们是不是自律 会不会过界
[1:27:59]	How do they respond to disappointment?	她们失望时会如何
[1:28:00]	How reliable are they?	她们是否可靠
[1:28:02]	How do they handle money?	她们是如何理财的
[1:28:03]	And actually, when you think of people lasting	其实你想想人到最后
[1:28:06]	you know you see old people, they’re just skeletal.	你看那些老人 都是骨瘦如柴的
[1:28:08]	You know, their skin’s sagging, they’re hobbling along.	皮肤松垮 步履蹒跚
[1:28:11]	But determines success in the long run is character	但决定是否能成功的是人格
[1:28:13]	and not cosmetics.	而非妆容
[1:28:16]	Young guys often get distracted by cosmetics	年轻人常常会被妆容迷惑
[1:28:19]	to the detriment of their lives.	伤及他们的人生
[1:28:23]	Guys want you to given them this magic wand	男人都想你给他们根魔杖
[1:28:26]	that will make girls find them attractive.	立马就能让姑娘们觉得他们很迷人
[1:28:28]	Because they don’t realize that it’s an option for girls	因为他们没有意识到可以让姑娘们
[1:28:32]	to find them attractive for who they really are.	觉得真正的他们迷人
[1:28:34]	And actually,	而事实上
[1:28:35]	the girl who finds them attractive for who they really are	觉得真正的他们迷人的姑娘
[1:28:38]	is going to be the right person for them as well.	对他们来说才会是对的人
[1:28:42]	We’re so conditioned to feel	我们思维被限制住了
[1:28:44]	that we should be something different.	觉得我们该变得不一样
[1:28:46]	And I feel like this is sort of perpetuating that and going,	我觉得这个产业在加深这个想法对你说
[1:28:50]	“Actually, you’re not good enough.”	“实际上是你不够好”
[1:28:52]	“You need to be like this alpha character”	“你要成为个老大一样的人物”
[1:28:54]	“that can get any girls he wants.”	“那样就能得到任何你想要的姑娘”
[1:28:56]	If you’ve created a false personality	如果你创造了一个虚假的人格
[1:29:00]	you’re only gonna ever have a false love.	你也只能得到虚假的爱
[1:29:05]	And maybe you don’t care.	可能你不在乎
[1:29:07]	Maybe at the moment, you don’t care.	可能现在你不在乎
[1:29:08]	And, you’re not bothered about love.	你不关心爱
[1:29:12]	You’re bothered about getting lots of girl’s numbers.	你只关心有没有得到很多姑娘的电话
[1:29:17]	But one day, you will.	但总有一天 你会关心的
[1:29:20]	It’s a human instinct.	这是人类的本能需求
[1:29:22]	That’s why you interviewed me. You said,	所以你来采访我 你说
[1:29:24]	“You’re the one guy you’ve met who’s made the leap.”	“你是我唯一见到过完成了转变的那个人”
[1:29:27]	I’m fascinated in 10 years how all these like,	我对这些有名的搭讪大师
[1:29:29]	hard-hitting PUA gurus resolve.	十年后会怎样很感兴趣
[1:29:34]	How do they bridge to the next stage of life?	他们要怎么进入人生的下一阶段
[1:29:36]	You know, Ross Jeffries would be interesting	罗斯·杰弗里斯就很有意思
[1:29:38]	’cause I think he whimpered into middle and late age,	因为我想他是呜咽着步入了中老年
[1:29:42]	and I think that’s a lesson.	而我觉得那是个教训
[1:29:46]	Someone once said to me, “Ross Jeffries,	有人曾经对我说”罗斯·杰弗里斯,
[1:29:47]	I thought you were an urban myth.”	我还以为你是个都市传说呢”
[1:29:50]	Fucking funny huh?	很他妈搞笑是不是
[1:29:55]	Ross Jeffries is a character.	罗斯·杰弗里斯是一个人格
[1:29:56]	And frankly, I’m tired of playing him.	坦白说 我厌倦当他了
[1:29:59]	It’s just, it’s one thing to do it when you’re 30, 40.	就是你三四十岁时那样子是一回事
[1:30:04]	But, when you’re 58 years old, it gets draining.	但当你58岁了 那种生活方式就成了负担
[1:30:08]	Do you understand?	你明白吗
[1:30:13]	So, over here is my bookshelf.	这边是我的书架
[1:30:15]	And this is the clunky little piece of shit book	这是我在1988年
[1:30:18]	I self-published back in 1988.	自己出版的一本小破书
[1:30:24]	It’s pretty shameful.	很羞耻啊
[1:30:25]	There’s a lot of	里面有很多
[1:30:27]	Well, there’s a lot of humor,	里面确实有挺多有意思的地方
[1:30:28]	but there’s a lot of anger in it too.	但里面也有很多愤怒
[1:30:30]	I was misogynistic back then.	那时我有些厌女
[1:30:32]	I had a lot of anger.	我有很多愤怒的情绪
[1:30:34]	A lot of frustration.	很多的挫败感
[1:30:36]	Not anymore, I’ve grown too old to have those attitudes.	现在没有了 我已经老到没有那些情绪了
[1:30:38]	No, I’ve matured out of it.	我已经度过了那个阶段
[1:30:44]	This is the most embarrassing memento.	这是最为难堪的纪念品
[1:30:48]	This was taken sometime in 1988 or so.	这是1988年前后照的
[1:30:52]	You can see, I look a little different nowadays.	你可以看出来 我如今看起来不太一样了
[1:30:55]	I actually think I’m better looking.	我其实觉得我还变帅了些
[1:30:57]	I like to think of how my life woulda been	我喜欢想象我的人生会是如何
[1:31:00]	if, knowing what I know now,	如果我当时知道我现在知道的
[1:31:02]	I could go back in time and implant it	我能回到过去把这些经验植入到
[1:31:04]	in that young guy’s head.	那个年轻人的脑袋里
[1:31:05]	I think my life would be tremendously different.	我觉得我的人生会有很大的不同
[1:31:08]	But those kinda what-ifs don’t do any good.	但这些假如并没什么用
[1:31:12]	The what-ifs are what-ifs in the future,	未来的假如
[1:31:15]	and in the immediate present.	和现在的假如
[1:31:16]	Those are the ones that do good.	那些才有用
[1:31:20]	Girls, what are you doing?	姑娘们 你们在做什么
[1:31:27]	I started a subculture and an industry.	我开创了一种亚文化和一个产业
[1:31:30]	I am not responsible for where people have taken it.	但人们如何发展利用它不是我的责任
[1:31:34]	They’ve taken it in their own perverted direction.	是他们将其发展成了那种变态产业
[1:31:38]	Anyone with the advent of YouTube and Facebook can pop up	任何能上油管和脸书的人都能跳出来
[1:31:42]	and claim to be a guru.	声称自己是大师
[1:31:43]	And I think there’s a lot of cruelty in it,	我觉得这其中有很多残酷的
[1:31:46]	and misogyny, and all the things I grew out of.	厌女的还有那些我已抛下的东西在
[1:31:50]	And I think there’s,	我还觉得这个产业
[1:31:55]	a lot of it lacks compassion.	里的很多人缺乏同情心
[1:31:57]	A lot of these guys are just out to shark and consume	很多人只是去捕猎消费那些
[1:32:00]	the people who they’re teaching.	他们教的人
[1:32:02]	They’re vultures, I call them vultures.	他们是秃鹫 我称他们为秃鹫
[1:32:05]	Devourers of hope, they devour the hope of men, and they	希望吞噬者 吞噬着那些人的希望
[1:32:09]	and, take their money, and leave them empty shells.	拿走那些人的钱只给他们留下空壳
[1:32:14]	And there are many people, I could have	有很多人 我能
[1:32:17]	Believe me, I could have a million or so in my pocket	相信我 我现在马上就能拿到百万美元
[1:32:21]	that I could sorely use right now	供我花费
[1:32:22]	had I been willing to play ball with the major companies.	如果我愿意和那些大公司合作的话
[1:32:25]	They all came to me, except for one.	他们都来找过我 除了一家
[1:32:27]	Except for Real Social Dynamics,	除了真实社会动力学
[1:32:29]	they all came to me at one time or another and said,	他们都来找我然后和我说
[1:32:32]	“Would you endorse our seminars?”	“来代言我们的讲座好不好”
[1:32:34]	“We’ll give you 50% commission.”	“我们给你一半收益作为佣金”
[1:32:35]	I said, “No, go fuck yourself.”	我告诉他们”不 滚你妈的”
[1:32:38]	And, I have a conscience, I have to	我是有良知的 我得
[1:32:43]	express my passion, and I can’t do that	表达出我的态度 我不能那样做
[1:32:45]	if I’m endorsing something I don’t believe in.	如果我代言了我不认同的东西
[1:32:49]	Here’s what I would add.	我会加上这个
[1:32:52]	Caveat Emptor.	让买家当心
[1:32:53]	Let the buyer beware.	让买家当心
[1:32:57]	Let the buyer beware.	让买家当心
[1:33:00]	That’s what I’d add.	我会加上那个
[1:33:04]	Let the buyer beware.	让买家当心
[1:33:14]	What’s the matter?	怎么了
[1:33:18]	Come here baby, it’s okay.	来这里宝贝 没事的
[1:33:20]	She doesn’t like the camera.	她不喜欢镜头
[1:33:23]	Come here, Tazzle, come here kitty.	来这儿 泰若 来这儿猫咪
[1:33:28]	You’re gonna have some chow, what are you gonna do?	你是不是要吃东西 你要怎么做
[1:33:30]	Come on.	快来
[1:33:33]	Yes, she’s my little cutie.	没错 她是我的小可爱
[1:33:35]	Isn’t she a beauty?	她很美是不是
[1:33:38]	Tell me you don’t think that’s a beautiful cat.	你敢说那不是只美丽的猫
[1:33:42]	Are you recording sound?	你在录音吗
[1:33:44]	So, this is Tazzleberry.	这是泰若莓
[1:33:47]	Taz is a Maine coon cat.	泰兹是只缅因猫
[1:33:49]	I’ve had her 16 years, she’s an old lady.	我已经养了她16年了 她是个老太太了
[1:33:53]	Maine coon cats tend to be very large.	缅因猫一般都很大
[1:33:56]	They’re like one of the larger breeds of cats.	它们是一种大型猫
[1:33:58]	But Taz was the runt of the litter.	但泰兹是它们中的小不点
[1:34:00]	She’s seen daddy through a lot of interesting times.	她见证了我很多有趣的时光
[1:34:03]	Pernilla Jones, come here.	佩妮拉·琼斯 过来
[1:34:07]	My other kitty.	我的另一只猫咪
[1:34:08]	Come here Pernilla.	来这儿 佩妮拉
[1:34:10]	Pernilla is a tortoiseshell cat.	佩妮拉是一只玳瑁猫
[1:34:15]	You’re a naughty no-no.	你真是个小淘气
[1:34:16]	Tell you that.	我给你说
[1:34:18]	So Pernilla is quite jealous	佩妮拉很会吃醋的
[1:34:21]	when I talk to my lady on the phone.	当我和女士讲电话的时候
[1:34:23]	Pernilla is not happy about it.	佩妮拉就会不高兴
[1:34:26]	She tries to knock the phone out of my hand.	她会试图把电话从我手中打掉
[1:34:30]	Come up here, get some brushies.	过来这儿 让我给你梳梳
[1:34:34]	I’ve had, or rather, Pernilla’s had me about three years.	我有 或者说佩妮拉有我三年了
[1:34:38]	She’s my cat wife.	她是我的猫妻
[1:34:39]	I think she thinks we’re married.	我觉得她觉得我们是夫妻
[1:34:41]	She’s extremely jealous, doesn’t like women to come over.	她超会吃醋的 不喜欢女人来作客
[1:34:47]	I am a huge cat lover,	我是个超爱猫的人
[1:34:50]	I think cats are miraculous creatures.	我觉得猫是一种不可思议的生物
[1:34:53]	They’re beautiful and mysterious.	它们又美又神秘
[1:34:55]	They don’t listen unless they feel like it.	它们从不听你的除非它们想
[1:35:03]	Bye Taz.	再见泰兹
[1:35:07]	See you later kiddo.	一会儿见 小鬼
[1:35:11]	She doesn’t care.	她根本不在乎
[1:35:13]	Yeah, what were we talking about?	好了 我们刚在说什么来着